please I am new on nairaland and i need advice.
I have a girl I am dating for the past four years and she is cheating on me. I having being trying to break up with her for the past two years but I've being unable to achieve that. the longest time I had stayed break up from her is 3months during which time I blocked her on social media, refused to call or pick her calls and closed all ties with her but but our path crossed again and soon we started dating again. the problem is that she still cheats and I have marriage in view. she is 23 and I am 30 and can't marry a serial cheat.

Recently I asked her severally to break up and call it quit with me since she can't stay faithful but she refuse claiming that she love me and what I can't understand is how can a woman love a man and still be sleeping with other men.

I need my sanity. I feel like a fool often, like I am not a man like I cant make a simple decision. I have tried sleeping with other women and starting other relationship but it just didn't work because I find myself coming back to her even though presently I still retain some of those women in my life . I feel I have been jazzed or under a spell. I have tried prayers its not working.

she is OK if I am cheating and tends to encourage me to do so once in a while but I don't think that's how an healthy relationship be.

please call me whatever name you want to call me, insult me if you like, It doesn't matter I just need advice on how to end this relationship for good and move on with my life.

Get another girl or better still kill yourself

Are u in2 blood convenant with her If No. Then b man enough and find anoda Girl.

Go 2 ur village n find out d real cause.

colabotu:
please I am new on nairaland and i need advice.
I have a girl I am dating for the past four years and she is cheating on me. I having being trying to break up with her for the past two years but I've being unable to achieve that. the longest time I had stayed break up from her is 3months during which time I blocked her on social media, refused to call or pick her calls and closed all ties with her but but our path crossed again and soon we started dating again. the problem is that she still cheats and I have marriage in view. she is 23 and I am 30 and can't marry a serial cheat.

Recently I asked her severally to break up and call it quit with me since she can't stay faithful but she refuse claiming that she love me and what I can't understand is how can a woman love a man and still be sleeping with other men.

I need my sanity. I feel like a fool often, like I am not a man like I cant make a simple decision. I have tried sleeping with other women and starting other relationship but it just didn't work because I find myself coming back to her even though presently I still retain some of those women in my life . I feel I have been jazzed or under a spell. I have tried prayers its not working.

she is OK if I am cheating and tends to encourage me to do so once in a while but I don't think that's how an healthy relationship be.

please call me whatever name you want to call me, insult me if you like, It doesn't matter I just need advice on how to end this relationship for good and move on with my life.

the jazz she used on u must be from edo state or ijebu ode...jeez, u cant break up wit a serial cheat wen pple r ending 40yrs of marriage cos of cheating...na wa

Did she use love charm on you? Wny not dump the b***h now before she cheats on you when you get married. That girl will bring you alot of pain in d future, i know its going to be hard but make up your mind to let go. Stop seeing her, Stop calling her. If she calls you dont pick. Delete everything that reminds you of her like her pictures, phone number etc. https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

ehix89:
the jazz she used on u must be from edo state or ijebu ode...jeez, u cant break up wit a serial cheat wen pple r ending 40yrs of marriage cos of cheating...na wa

my brother thats the situation I find myself oh. may God save us from karashika

yomi007k:
Go 2 ur village n find out d real cause.

ok

Is she an edo girl?

Daniel2289:
Are u in2 blood convenant with her If No. Then b man enough and find anoda Girl.

finding another girl is not the problem. my quest to find another girl to replace her turned me into a Casanova. I feel like a fool often, like I am not a man like I cant make a simple decision. I have tried sleeping with other women and starting other relationship but it just didn't work because I find myself coming back to her even though presently I still retain some of those women in my life . .the problem is how to end my relationship with her and move on with my life positively without her, that the problem.

ettaetta:
Did she use love charm on you? Wny not dump the b***h now before she cheats on you when you get married. That girl will bring you alot of pain in d future, i know its going to be hard but make up your mind to let go. Stop seeing her, Stop calling her. If she calls you dont pick. Delete everything that reminds you of her like her pictures, phone number etc. https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

I have done all that before. I it only lasted three months before our path crossed again and we started dating again and thats why I came to nairaland to see maybe someone can help me with and advice to end this sh*t for good. my brother what you are saying is like telling a lame man to run because you can see that he has leg. I have tried I just dont have enough will power to. I feel like a fool.

Meeloreh:
Is she an edo girl?

no.

colabotu:


I have done all that before. I it only lasted three months before our path crossed again and we started dating again and thats why I came to nairaland to see maybe someone can help me with and advice to end this sh*t for good. my brother what you are saying is like telling a lame man to run because you can see that he has leg. I have tried I just dont have enough will power to. I feel like a fool.

chai the juju wey she use on you really strong https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

ettaetta:
chai the juju wey she use on you really strong https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

so I suspect.

U are not ready 2grow

Oktoberfest:
U are not ready 2grow

please what do I need to do to out grow the emotions I have for her.

When you are ready to quit....u will quit

I feel it's like an addiction. Though I've never broken up a relationship before. I think you should cut her off slowly not abruptly. Tapper off your calls till you can withstand not hearing her voice. Reduce seeing her till u can withstand not seeing her. When u feel like seeing her badly distract yourself. And continue the prayer. I hope it helps.

Guy is easy but hard, u need discipline, warn her not to visit you again if she does insult d day light out of her in public. Tell her part 2 of a bigger insult go come if she decides to have contact with u again. Trust me she go run but if she no run.

If possible try play love do d sending nude pic thing first . Once u have her nude warn her if she comes close to u again, ie after the public insult, u will post her nude online. An show seriousness.

I had a girl like that na public insult and changing line for good and deactivating my fb and other social media like whatsapp. Registered new Sim and new whatsapp account. It really helped

What I wrote looks wicked but trust me it maybe d best way out of this

colabotu:
please I am new on nairaland and i need advice.
I have a girl I am dating for the past four years and she is cheating on me. I having being trying to break up with her for the past two years but I've being unable to achieve that. the longest time I had stayed break up from her is 3months during which time I blocked her on social media, refused to call or pick her calls and closed all ties with her but but our path crossed again and soon we started dating again. the problem is that she still cheats and I have marriage in view. she is 23 and I am 30 and can't marry a serial cheat.

Recently I asked her severally to break up and call it quit with me since she can't stay faithful but she refuse claiming that she love me and what I can't understand is how can a woman love a man and still be sleeping with other men.

I need my sanity. I feel like a fool often, like I am not a man like I cant make a simple decision. I have tried sleeping with other women and starting other relationship but it just didn't work because I find myself coming back to her even though presently I still retain some of those women in my life . I feel I have been jazzed or under a spell. I have tried prayers its not working.

she is OK if I am cheating and tends to encourage me to do so once in a while but I don't think that's how an healthy relationship be.

please call me whatever name you want to call me, insult me if you like, It doesn't matter I just need advice on how to end this relationship for good and move on with my life.

leopards can't change dre spots, a goat CNT chew bone nw. free her n get srz Wif anoda gel

Some stories are funny sha... Well, since you asked us to call you any name we so desire, I'll call u mumu

have u tried praying in the wilderness?

colabotu:
please I am new on nairaland and i need advice.
I have a girl I am dating for the past four years and she is cheating on me. I having being trying to break up with her for the past two years but I've being unable to achieve that. the longest time I had stayed break up from her is 3months during which time I blocked her on social media, refused to call or pick her calls and closed all ties with her but but our path crossed again and soon we started dating again. the problem is that she still cheats and I have marriage in view. she is 23 and I am 30 and can't marry a serial cheat.

Recently I asked her severally to break up and call it quit with me since she can't stay faithful but she refuse claiming that she love me and what I can't understand is how can a woman love a man and still be sleeping with other men.

I need my sanity. I feel like a fool often, like I am not a man like I cant make a simple decision. I have tried sleeping with other women and starting other relationship but it just didn't work because I find myself coming back to her even though presently I still retain some of those women in my life . I feel I have been jazzed or under a spell. I have tried prayers its not working.

she is OK if I am cheating and tends to encourage me to do so once in a while but I don't think that's how an healthy relationship be.

please call me whatever name you want to call me, insult me if you like, It doesn't matter I just need advice on how to end this relationship for good and move on with my life.

Omo Boi! Have read lots of comments in here, but the truth is that you r not ready to leave her because she makes you feel alright on bed and u feel no lady can do what she does. That's ur take on that issue but trust me all you have to do now is give your life to Jesus, without him I swear u r in a BIG mess then go for deliverance in Mountain of fire and Miracle ministry explain to any pastor there and they will tell you , you both have a strong soul tie you need to break after you've done this , I bet u. You won't even want to hear from her again. TRY IT.

drink two cups of warm water every morning.

Did op say hez tried prayers? Seriously? What have we turned God into sef? Praying about ur pre-marital sexual relationship?
Well, aren't the signs ominous enough? Do you really need a prophet to tell you that she would fucq around even after marriage? Think, my friend. If you don't want that, and if you don't want wayward kids, take the decision once and for all to do away with the relationship.
Wait oo, ur 30yrs old? My brother, no time ooo

Better severe ties with her, my girlfriend dare not cheat on me and tell me she loves me, God punish that mouth, I won't even talk to her again, if she like dey stay my compound. I can share everything with somebody, but I can never share my woman with anybody. I take no shit! Don't say we didn't tell u ehn, when u marry her and she brings a man to the matrimonial home, moreover, having known u can't do without her, u would still act the woman always. Brace up and slam the door on her bro, it's high time you got over her, she's not worth your anything despite the years. Or have u being enchanted?

grimandevil:
Guy is easy but hard, u need discipline, warn her not to visit you again if she does insult d day light out of her in public. Tell her part 2 of a bigger insult go come if she decides to have contact with u again. Trust me she go run but if she no run.

If possible try play love do d sending nude pic thing first . Once u have her nude warn her if she comes close to u again, ie after the public insult, u will post her nude online. An show seriousness.

I had a girl like that na public insult and changing line for good and deactivating my fb and other social media like whatsapp. Registered new Sim and new whatsapp account. It really helped

What I wrote looks wicked but trust me it maybe d best way out of this

thank you. I appreciate your advice. I will try your suggestion.

abimic:
Better severe ties with her, my girlfriend dare not cheat on me and tell me she loves me, God punish that mouth, I won't even talk to her again, if she like dey stay my compound. I can share everything with somebody, but I can never share my woman with anybody. I take no shit! Don't say we didn't tell u ehn, when u marry her and she brings a man to the matrimonial home, moreover, having known u can't do without her, u would still act the woman always. Brace up and slam the door on her bro, it's high time you got over her, she's not worth your anything despite the years. Or have u being enchanted?

thanks men

Dis cant be real abeg. U beta go see babalawo

ednut1:
Dis cant be real abeg. U beta go see babalawo

I wish its not my story