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Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by anselm791(m): 2:24pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
This might sound harsh, but your sister made a decision and should be responsible for it. All you've gotta do is pray that she receives sense and leave. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Paulyfast: 2:26pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Just get to ur in-law's place, arrange a meeting between the couples, hear them out and offer words of advice, if possible, go out with ur in-law, talk to him man to man, let him know how you feel about his attitude towards your sis. If the issue persist, contact a lawyer. Though prayers can do more [color=#770077][/color] |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by popcykaylah(m): 2:26pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
First question is what were you doing in thier home ?secondly don't interfere in their issues as your brother inlaw will see it as an insult.you should inform maybe your parents about it ..believe me he won't stop assaulting her.. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Paretomaster(m): 2:28pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
halfricanadian: these remind me of d scenario btw ma sis and her husband, he love her so much dat he wouldn't allow her a 10 feet space alone, he always think we will take her back... despite d family disapproval, ma sis insist on marrying him. fast forward after 3 children, he marry 2 more wives, and couldn't care for her financially, d little we send to her, he will collect and spend, when she got tired, she let him leave the house, before she park her things, and move to stay with one of our cousin in a nearby state. when he arrive, and couldn't find ma sis anywhere, he send the other wives to their fathers house, dat how could they allow her leave. he called us in Lagos to seek her where about, we told him she is not with us, he travelled to our home state...the families their knowing him very well, threatened him to provide their daughter or he won't leave d village, he broke down, and cry like a baby.. he travel from village to village looking for her, to no avail, all dis while, ma elder bro knew where she was, but decide to teach him a lesson.. after the journey, he ran outta cash, and have to sell his phone to proceed back home, from home, he arrange another money, and set out again, down to Lagos, because ma elder bro told him she is with him, when he get to Lagos, and find out she his not there, he almost kill himself. I was full of pity for him, after so much pleading, he was told she is in Kebbi State, he set out again. before getting to Kebbi, he start making mouth, lashing out at ma brother, before he got there, ma brother have send a taxi to pick her from where she is, Ahahahha, it's like the guy knew, he chartered a bike, and block d taxi...and said hell will be let loose if he didn't take his wife with him. since then, he dare not maltreat her again. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by geozone: 2:29pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
if its not a habit, register your displeasure and then mind your business |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Raymie(m): 2:29pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Have yhu beaten him already before coming to post or are yhu going to beat him after posting this? Cause that's only what I want to read. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 2:30pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
daretodiffer: If you check the meaning of this phrase "under an influence of Alcohol...." You will agree with me that it was an excuse....he was not at his right mind at that moment... how ever your second point is correct... I totally agree |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Hi, don't allow what you read online affect what happens in your life. Believe you'll find the best and he won't ever lay his hands on you. Cheers INTROVERT: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by ybalogs(m): 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
They're married, all you can do is advice him, if the beating continues, divorce is an option. Going to your sister's home to fight shouldn't be considered sef. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by GAZZUZZ(m): 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
9jacrip: and if he dies in the process? If he dies we see OP on front page NL with the topic Man pays hired assassins to kill inlaw 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Pls don't go 'ballistic' nd 'bombastic' yet except u wanna go nd bomb ISIS in Syria!, lol. On more serious note, u ve evry reason to be annoyed, no sensible man shud beat his wife no matter the level of provocation. Is ds the 1st time he is beating ur sister? Does he stay late @ nite or atimes he does nt com bck atal? Does he stil treat ur sister lik his gud wife? Wat eva b d case, u need to sit down wit ur sister nd sort tins out nd perhaps talk man to man wit d husband bt I don't subscribe to u fighting him in his house, |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Bjergtrolde: 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment: 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Cutehector: You sound like an only child... are you sir? |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by LordVoldemort(m): 2:33pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
vsaintchigs: Nah satan he go pray to before? If you don't have solid advice keep shut |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by fejikudz(m): 2:33pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment:Sorry for asking.. What about your father?? 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Forwetinnah: 2:33pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
OP..talk will not solve this problem, organise boys wey go follow you go hammer am wella!! The effrontery? (Higest thing na station e go end) He came back with boxers inside out and still beats his wife for telling him not to infect her with STIs . Was she wrong? Alot of women are suffering from hepatitis/HIV thanks to philandering husbands who can't wrap up while being dogs. Don't let him blame it on alcohol o, person wey drunk no go see road beat person..na bed him for climb sleep quietly. That's how one silly husband who claimed he was drunk pushed his wife down the stairs and she was 6months pregnant. .she lost the baby and had serious complications, 7 years later she still can't get pregnant. Yeye men!! 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by naijathings(m): 2:33pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment: my brother, if u think front you think back too. will u fight the man in his house ? the same demon pushing him to beat ur sister might lead him to call the cops on you and label you an assassin or robber and you will sleep in a cell thereby causing more rift in ur sisters marriage. don't go violent on him. na ur sis marriage and you can get your parents to resolve the matter rather than causing more problems. u will be shocked to see that your sister will stand by her husband when jungle mature. broda think back and front do not listen to all these people telling u to beat up your in-law. if that is how everyone beats up their in-laws then you will see fights every where in Nigeria . Take the matter to elders in your family and see how it is resolved. We live and we learn bro. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by halfricanadian(f): 2:35pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Paretomaster: Cute funny story |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Richy4: IT IS NOT AN EXCUSE. IT WAS HIS CHOICE TO DRINK HIMSELF TO STUPOR If he had killed her or raped her, you would probably realise that it isn't 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by HRich(m): 2:36pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment:Stop poke nosing into other family matter 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by pirazo: 2:40pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Can God change some animals called men >:[/quote] Well if u serve a God that has a limit to what he can do it quite @ |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by ikorodureporta: 2:40pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
So so wrong advice for f.p. Guy, yr sista knew him well b4 you. She shld take him to their pastor 2ndly, what's yr age difference? Is he older? If yes, my advise is that you take the case to yr parents & elders, & let them warn him that he did not buy your sista. Or better still, since u sabi Bible well, give him some Proverbs. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Aringon(m): 2:41pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment: Dont go there, let them resolve the issue themselves but pray for them 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by staymore: 2:43pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
PresVA: I've read lots of childish comments here but I most say that yours is full of maturity. Most people talking about beating him back or involving thugs here would only expose the marriage to divorce. Talk with the guy, he should understand that real men don't hit women. Your sister too should strategize another means of keeping her man than open accusations. The country is though now, maybe the guy is passing through challenges that his wife really needs to be prayerful now. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by seunajia: 2:43pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Lay your godforsaken hands on my sister or mother once, I mean just once, hahaha, and you're fugging dead. Some men are just plain eejits. If words make you resort to physical abuse then you're a fugging female dog. Oh there was this silly person who grabbed my meek mum right when I was stepping out of the gate back in naija. All these omo-onile bastards. Poo went down that day. My mum herself had to caution me against violence afterwards. I abhor violence, but no you don't touch my mother if you don't want to wear briefs with the devil. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by omenka(m): 2:44pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
This is why it is good having some military friends. When you visit him with a couple of khaki boys and have a word with him, them no born am well to touch your sister again. No real man beats a woman. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by layla129(f): 2:45pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Just be careful in dealing with him because he might want to take it out on ur sis again. God should just help one in making the right choice for a husband/wife. Marriage of just two years and this is happening aleeady. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by ATMC(f): 2:46pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
SIRTee15:I will tell you why your reasoning not mine is disturbing. Firstly, you implied the sister is weak and could get killed if op does not intervene and that makes me think you are a narcisst. Finally, op advised her sister to read the bible but plans to confront her brother in law with the help of advice from nlers... hey, what is the meaning of that? She should face her own demons and let her sister face hers. By the way, people call us up not for advice but to have a listening ear. What do they get? Uncalled-for advisers. The sister is the one wearing the shoes, let her be the one to do something if it pinches. Btw, they are married. Remember. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by aeronot(m): 2:47pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
When I see stories like this I often wonder if the moderator of this site cooked up this story to entertain us especially on a day like this.... However, I don't understand ur business in this marriage. U obviously are jobless to live in their house & maybe bored enuf to post this story... So mind ur business & advice ur sister that if her husband comes home drunk again she shuld keep quiet and speak to him or any complaints till he is sober... Next! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by donj84: 2:47pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment:Pls first and foremost, they are married and when he was toasting her, you were not there, when she said yes, you were not there, so pls also don't go there and start shouting on him. She knew he was drinking before, and that's the result of drinking..your sister might have known about his flirting habit and drinking, and he must have told her he would change if he marrys her..now you really need to know from your sister what is his problem because it might just be the hard economy and he can't face the pressure presently.if your sister have any facial injury or mark to show that she was beaten, dats a good one because you can use that to ask the man and then talk calm with him and know what the family is facing and give advise were needed and support were needed.thanks |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by pirazo: 2:47pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
I have 2 advices for u it's left for u to chose d one u think is appropriate. 1. You have done what d christianity expects of u by advicing ur sister to read d bible and not to get pound of flesh. My second advice is more like what I would ve done if positions were reversed. I will call d guy and have a one on one talk with him without any member of my family knowing it, chose my words carefully if after that it repeats it sef, I will fix him, not kill o, I will make sure he does nt knw where it came from. U may say I ve nt passed any message across but trust me he ll get d message. If he kills ur sister he will marry another at most after 1 year after all d contract was till death do them part |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by sage2(m): 2:48pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
[quote author=tolugar post=44182548][/quote] All these talk without even asking about the man. When you get there now and discover that the man is not the type you can mess with, you go turn to Bovi sharperly and be like, "Bros, so na you? I just wan come apologize for the thing wey she do o. Abeg, bros, no vex eh. I go talk to her to be respectful next time". 1 Like |
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