I met her at her sister's restaurant where she serves as an attendant, i liked her and asked her out. She didn't say yes or no but her actions tells me that she likes me.
She later quareled with her sister that made her sister chase her out of d house. She narrated d incident to me and requested she spend d some days in my house b4 she will go back to villa. I granted her d request and she spent two days in my house b4 she gathered her belongings and moved back to their villa.
Ever since she went back, she has been calling me telling me how she missed me and all that. She now asked me to look for a job for her here so she can come back and start working which I have done and the ppl said I should bring her. But my fear is that I don't want her to stay in my house. I am not yet ready to get married cos she can't escape being pregnant if she stays under my roof unless she is not a complete woman.( hope u guys understand ). I don't know how to tell her dat I can't accommodate her. She has vowed never again to stay with her sister. And again I don't want to be accused of kidnapping her and bringing her to d city. She is 23 and currently jobless in d villa. Pls what do I tell her? thanks

Follow your heart.

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Bro I dunno y pipo find it difficult to say their mind it's not as if she's going to kill u if u do
Jst call her on a Sunday afternoon gist wit her small and tel her
"Mariam there is sumfin I wanna tel u,it's rly hard I kw BT I can't accommodate u, I am rly sorry plz undstnd"
Gbam u are free

Try it u wil thank me later

my brother don't harbour her without the consent of her parent.

see silly excuses!! how person go accuse u of kidnapping a 23 years old girl eh? and u fit use birth control pills+condom to save ur soul

You're a responsible guy and that's commendable.













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Bros ll advise you not to accommodate her. She better goes back to her sister or stays where she is. If anything should happen to her while she is with you, you know the implication..Now I flash back to what happened in 1974!

After you had marked her register that you dey here when she stayed with for two days.. Now the responsibility comes, you are trying to dodge. Get her a job here and also get her a house to stay. It is not compulsory that you must marry her or stay in your house but help a friend in need. My advise. If you dont help her another person will do. But you will not like yourself because shame will catch you then.

First of all u liked her and u ask her out. 2condly she stayed with u for two days and now ur afraid that she cant stay with u. well @op i think the best u can do based on her age is to beg her elder sister then try to settle both of them, so that she can stay with her and start working. dats d best option.

I didn't touch her during the period she was with me. Though I tried but she refused and I kindly respect masef.

ajoo17:
After you had marked her register that you dey here when she stayed with for two days.. Now the responsibility comes, you are trying to dodge. Get her a job here and also get her a house to stay. It is not compulsory that you must marry her or stay in your house but help a friend in need. My advise. If you dont help her another person will do. But you will not like yourself because shame will catch you then.

Thanks 4 ur advice. But pls Can u share with us what happened then?

maikbanj:
Bros ll advise you not to accommodate her. She better goes back to her sister or stays where she is. If anything should happen to her while she is with you, you know the implication..Now I flash back to what happened in 1974!

Guy d excuses are relevant regarding what's happening in our society nowadays. Using birth control pills is a no go area for me pls. She is not my wife. Condoms may not be available one day wey konji go hold us and we go just do am.

donholy28:
see silly excuses!! how person go accuse u of kidnapping a 23 years old girl eh? and u fit use birth control pills+condom to save ur soul

Lolz. Why on Sunday afternoon?

succyblinks:
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Back to d topic
Bro I dunno y pipo find it difficult to say their mind it's not as if she's going to kill u if u do
Jst call her on a Sunday afternoon gist wit her small and tel her
"Mariam there is sumfin I wanna tel u,it's rly hard I kw BT I can't accommodate u, I am rly sorry plz undstnd"
Gbam u are free

Try it u wil thank me later

Bestman111:
Lolz. Why on Sunday afternoon?

Because she's likely to be in a happy mood on a Sunday afternoon

Bestman111:
I didn't touch her during the period she was with me. Though I tried but she refused and I kindly respect masef.

Bestman111:
I met her at her sister's restaurant where she serves as an attendant, i liked her and asked her out. She didn't say yes or no but her actions tells me that she likes me.
She later quareled with her sister that made her sister chase her out of d house. She narrated d incident to me and requested she spend d some days in my house b4 she will go back to villa. I granted her d request and she spent two days in my house b4 she gathered her belongings and moved back to their villa.
Ever since she went back, she has been calling me telling me how she missed me and all that. She now asked me to look for a job for her here so she can come back and start working which I have done and the ppl said I should bring her. But my fear is that I don't want her to stay in my house. I am not yet ready to get married cos she can't escape being pregnant if she stays under my roof unless she is not a complete woman.( hope u guys understand ). I don't know how to tell her dat I can't accommodate her. She has vowed never again to stay with her sister. And again I don't want to be accused of kidnapping her and bringing her to d city. She is 23 and currently jobless in d villa. Pls what do I tell her? thanks

which village.....can she come to Kaduna to work n stay...

Reconcile her with the sister....talk sense into her..

donholy28:
see silly excuses!! how person go accuse u of kidnapping a 23 years old girl eh? and u fit use birth control pills+condom to save ur soul

Haba! U no try at all..

succyblinks:


Because she's likely to be in a happy mood on a Sunday afternoon

So dat im go spoil her happy sunday mood? Bro, do that on a monday morning jare. U don't need a straight face, monday mornings already gat your back at it

Without much ado,
Kindly discuss accommodation conditions with her prior to her arrival and be sure to spell out your fears to her

" she can't escape being preggy under my roof, unless she is not a complete woman " as in ehn this statement cracked me up... E sure for you be dat ooo Awon ti Oliver Twist lolz

It appears you have never been framed up by the police. Don't you dare accommodate her. Her sister will oppress you with our useless police.

That's my biggest fear. She told me that her sister and d husband later started calling her and begging her to forgive them. So if her sister finds out that she is back to d city and is staying in my house. Hmmmmmm oso ga agba o

Brugo:
It appears you have never been framed up by the police. Don't you dare accommodate her. Her sister will oppress you with our useless police.

They say "tempt not d devil to tempt you" I no wat am saying.

sexymoma:
" she can't escape being preggy under my roof, unless she is not a complete woman " as in ehn this statement cracked me up... E sure for you be dat ooo Awon ti Oliver Twist lolz

I think that s wat am going to do. Oshey!!!!

Bluezy13:
Without much ado,
Kindly discuss accommodation conditions with her prior to her arrival and be sure to spell out your fears to her

Is it in d Emir ' s palace?

stanvesco:


which village.....can she come to Kaduna to work n stay...

Yea. As a gentleman which I am.

ifex370:

Bestman111:
I met her at her sister's restaurant where she serves as an attendant, i liked her and asked her out. She didn't say yes or no but her actions tells me that she likes me.
She later quareled with her sister that made her sister chase her out of d house. She narrated d incident to me and requested she spend d some days in my house b4 she will go back to villa. I granted her d request and she spent two days in my house b4 she gathered her belongings and moved back to their villa.
Ever since she went back, she has been calling me telling me how she missed me and all that. She now asked me to look for a job for her here so she can come back and start working which I have done and the ppl said I should bring her. But my fear is that I don't want her to stay in my house. I am not yet ready to get married cos she can't escape being pregnant if she stays under my roof unless she is not a complete woman.( hope u guys understand ). I don't know how to tell her dat I can't accommodate her. She has vowed never again to stay with her sister. And again I don't want to be accused of kidnapping her and bringing her to d city. She is 23 and currently jobless in d villa. Pls what do I tell her? thanks

so, you cant live with her without straffing her...and even if you straff her, must you get her pregnant??

Bestman111:
That's my biggest fear. She told me that her sister and d husband later started calling her and begging her to forgive them. So if her sister finds out that she is back to d city and is staying in my house. Hmmmmmm oso ga agba o

There's no way her sister wouldn't find out that she's back in the city. If she involves police, bro e no go funny. Those guys no get joy. Make she go her sister side back. Explain to her.

Bro, blood is thick. Try fixing their