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Love is very much different from trust. You can have deep feelings of love for someone without necessarily trusting him or her fully. I think its natural.

My motto: Love all, trust none.

This thread isn't meant for us that prefer friendship & lust to love.



*walks out*.

I think love grows or dies with trust. Where trust is repeatedly in question, love will die. When trust is developed and sustained, love grows much more (with all other conditions being in place)

Earning my trust is so so hard

Nd i dont want any one to try

ones u hurt me ones forget my trust for life
criosly i need no one to earn my trust

thesicilian:
Love is very much different from trust. You can have deep feelings of love for someone without necessarily trusting him or her fully. I think its natural.

My motto: Love all, trust none.

I agree with your first notion but totally disagree with the other. Love is not natural. You can read the full article to see my explanations and why I disagree with your second point.

Tallesty1:
This thread isn't meant for us that prefer friendship & lust to love.



*walks out*.

Lust fades and breeds evil intentions either in friendship or a relationship. Love is key.

Love is totaly different from trust. You earn trust over time.

Ripples334:
I think love grows or dies with trust. Where trust is repeatedly in question, love will die. When trust is developed and sustained, love grows much more (with all other conditions being in place)

Well said. You can read the full article to get more idea on the topic

halfricanadian:
Earning my trust is so so hard

Nd i dont want any one to try

ones u hurt me ones forget my trust for life
criosly i need no one to earn my trust

Hello halfricanadian,

I understand how you feel. But we are all humans bound to make mistakes. What happens when someone hurts us is to forgive and let them have another chance so far as there is genuine repentance.

Flexherbal:
Love is totaly different from trust. You earn trust over time.

Very true. I buttressed this fact in the remaining part of the article. You can go read it to get more idea on the topic.

HelenaMag:


Lust fades and breeds evil intentions either in friendship or a relationship. Love is key.

What you like/want is the key for you, same applies to Me.

HelenaMag:


Hello halfricanadian,

I understand how you feel. But we are all humans bound to make mistakes. What happens when someone hurts us is to forgive and let them have another chance so far as there is genuine repentance.

I really wanna give genuine chance but some how i cant i just get used to the person hurting me nd not care for a chance

Av tried hard bt wen sumone hurt me i try so hard to start afresh i just really cant they feel i dont want but God knows ow im dying inside to

life aint fair to sum people more like life hates me

halfricanadian:


I really wanna give genuine chance but some how i cant i just get used to the person hurting me nd not care for a chance

Av tried hard bt wen sumone hurt me i try so hard to start afresh i just really cant they feel i dont want but God knows ow im dying inside to

life aint fair to sum people more like life hates me

I can relate with what you are saying. First, you have to open your mind to the fact that issues may arise that will make you feel hurt. Your partner lying or cheating is an extreme issue that you may find hard to let go and come back to the way things are. That's why I said if there is genuine repentance - the person is deeply sorry and has stopped or changed from what they are doing cos they don't want to hurt or loose you. Sometimes they say they are sorry but keep doing the same thing over and over - this is a different case. I mentioned something on respecting your partners feeling on the concluding part of the article above. You can read it to get a better understanding.

halfricanadian:


I really wanna give genuine chance but some how i cant i just get used to the person hurting me nd not care for a chance

Av tried hard bt wen sumone hurt me i try so hard to start afresh i just really cant they feel i dont want but God knows ow im dying inside to

life aint fair to sum people more like life hates me

And life doesn't hate you. We all have down moments, no relationship is perfect. You just have to open your heart and believe there is someone special out there made for you, that will treat you right. This is only a passing phase.

HelenaMag:


I can relate with what you are saying. First, you have to open your mind to the fact that issues may arise that will make you feel hurt. Your partner lying or cheating is an extreme issue that you may find hard to let go and come back to the way things are. That's why I said if there is genuine repentance - the person is deeply sorry and has stopped or changed from what they are doing cos they don't want to hurt or loose you. Sometimes they say they are sorry but keep doing the same thing over and over - this is a different case. I mentioned something on respecting your partners feeling on the concluding part of the article above. You can read it to get a better understanding.

Thank you

I really dont perecieve issues arising

Cos i always like to make things happen in 1 direction

halfricanadian:


Thank you

You are welcome

HelenaMag:


And life doesn't hate you. We all have down moments, no relationship is perfect. You just have to open your heart and believe there is someone special out there made for you, that will treat you right. This is only a passing phase.

I really needed this

I believe i will have a good relationship nd marry my right partner

Tank u for the warm words of hope

halfricanadian:


I really needed this

I believe i will have a good relationship nd marry my right partner

Tank u for the warm words of hope

I am glad I could offer them

HelenaMag:


I am glad I could offer them

HelenaMag:


I am glad I could offer them

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