Todil:
The is probably the most inspiring piece have read on Nairaland

Axsetup:


Source: http://www.punchng.com/getting-married-even-when-you-are-broke/

Carowline:


True.
But too bad, your epistle cant change the modus operandi. Nigerians especially must carve a niche of their own. Westernisation should have a limit.

Integrityfarms:
Undue comparisons and crave for societal appreciation has be devilled many relationships thereby giving a precedence to cohabitation!

For God sake no wedding is the best and none is the worst, just do what you can ad live legally with your wife. Thats why I like my church once trad and court wedding is done with moderation, the pastor can come and join u even in your house with the consent of both parents and two witnesses and that's all.

No vex bross what's d name of ur Church?

Lets leave trying to please others at our detriment. There is more to marriage than wedding which is just for 6-8 hours maximum

Axsetup:

Source: http://www.punchng.com/getting-married-even-when-you-are-broke/

Zrolec:


U tok true

ogorwyne:
So many will want to trash this write-up. But for those who know the truth, this is right on point. Oga Lalasticlala come and read oh.

kentuta:
Stories...all na wash, wait until u get married broke, that is when you will know the difference between catch am and hold am....


Quote me any day

osile2012:
[size=18pt]Dont Try this shit on your own. Bible says, will a man build without first checking the cost ? If you dont want to have grey hair at 30 then dont make that mistake. You need steady income, even if its 40k a month. [/size]

efosasere:
My father got married to my mom when he was 24. This is because things were not as expensive as they are now back then. I got married when I was 26 and this is because the lady in question was my existence and my saviour. She's the best woman in the world. In the first three years of our marriage things were a bit rough but fast forward to now things are a whole lot better. Marriage isn't about having money. It's about finding the right person and when you eventually do every other thing will fall in place.

Bollinger:


When i got married, we lived in a one room self contained apartment. We did not even have a car or money for the actual wedding. Today, we have everything we want and need and then some. Marriage is about building from the ground up. People who think material possessions make a marriage are sadly mistaken. When you build together, you stand a better chance of staying together happily forever.

ify84:


I will share same testimony soon... I did my trad and wedding with no actual money kept somewhere as well, it's not been easy though, but nothing beats a good wife.....

NOT getting married because u don't have a car or house or too much money is running away from being responsible

Todil:
The is probably the most inspiring piece have read on Nairaland

Godsonkemz:
Have you considered the huge bride price, lets just put white wedding cost out of contest though its necessary. Or would you depend upon your parents to provide that for you. My dear entering into a marriage union without job na hell. Men can bear it but women can hardly bear it except she has a good home training and background.

porrigeyam:
I want to get married when I'm 25years old... not that I'm rushing I'm just adulterous in nature so the earlier the better. So help me God.

AntiWailer:
I won't advise anybody to marry broke.

When the lady is ageing and counting down age wise, she will encourage you to marry even without a job.

After marriage, her eyes will clear and frustration will set in.

Forget about 'LOVE', As a man, you should be able to take care of your family. Provide the basic necessities.

I have researched some families, 90% of the turbulence Marriage face, the underlining reason is MONEY.

- SHe is wasteful, he is wasteful, he is givving his family and not mine bla bla bla (MONEY)

Look for a lady much younger than you are so you will have breathing space to have an income to sustain a family. (When people with wisdom say don't marry your age mate, it is because of the breathing space you need to set your foot right but as usual we know so much and scream AGE IS JUST a number)

If you can not clothe, shelter, feed, protect her without anybody's help, you are not qualified to be called HUSBAND.

Difficult word, but truth does not have to be palatable.

Todil:
The is probably the most inspiring piece have read on Nairaland

Adamsdelrio:
You said Adulterous... Don't you think getting married is the beginning of what you are running from?

Axsetup:


Source: http://www.punchng.com/getting-married-even-when-you-are-broke/