SirShymexx:


*Sobs*

There goes my one and only crush since I've been on NL. And I don't do crushes unless I'm hyperactive and I trying to crush something.

Matthewbriggs:


What about he has no interest in cooking even if he can cook, not because he thinks a man shouldn't be in the kitchen but because he is simply not into kitchen stuff.

Yieldings:


Hi Matthew. How are you?

If he can cook but has no interest in "kitchen stuff", then he's eating out most of the time or family members are cooking for him. There's nothing wrong with either of these, especially if one has a busy schedule, but it's not a good idea to become dependent on others making your meals, especially when you're grown. Having family members cook one's meals is safe (the dependency still exists, however) than when restaurants becomes your primary source of meals. Relying on restaurants: eat-ins or take-outs, or store-bought frozen foods that you've to microwave isn't healthy and definitely not pocket-friendly either - if done on a daily or frequent basis. When a man is still a bachelor, he can get away with living like this but before he gets married he ought to know how to cook, just like how the woman should know how to cook; although for a woman, it's a must.

Matthewbriggs:


Very well articulated epistle. I am great, God has been faithful.

But ehnn my dear you have not yet answered my question. Will you marry such a man?

First he can cook very well. But he is not a big fan of cooking meaning in the marriage you will do most of the cooking. Not because he can't cook but because he simply doesn't like it.

The answer is yes or no.

Cutehector:
no its not, it just shouldn't be a major criteria. Dats wah i'm tryna mean..

If na cook sef, we guys do am pass una

DaisyII:


Cutehector,with not more than 3letters of the alphabet,answer the question.Can you cook?

Yieldings:


In this case, yes, I would.

donbenedict:
NO!

donbenedict:
NO!

DaisyII:

donbenedict:
wat?

DaisyII:


Just in Awe! Goan learn how to do that.Very important!

Matthewbriggs:

Yieldings:


Matthew, why're you shining teeth? =p

donbenedict:
important ko, learn ni... like I have suffered from malnutrition. Look, it's only lazy ladies dat will want to marry a guy who is skilled in cooking.. quote me anywhere. Cutehector says dat!

Matthewbriggs:


We both know why ...

doveda:


The man is usually the head of the family and it is important for kids to be Muslims. The practice of Islam is also well defined. I don't think it would be easy for a practising muslimah

Personally, I can't o. Unleess he has converted to Islam before I met him.

SirShymexx:


Someone clap for this virtuous African queen.

Most guys that can cook are moist and somewhat gay...a proper African guy shouldn't even go anywhere near the kitchen.

I hate kitchen/cooking with a passion. Tried a few times and all my pots are as black as Akon. Apart from cereal and microwave food (oven food sometimes), the kitchen ain't for me.

Too black for that shyte.

Siena:


Why would he have to convert to Islam? How about you converting to his faith, or even better, retain both your faiths, and blend them?