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How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by adakaibeyamma: 2:50pm On Apr 10, 2016
No bashing please

I am a 25 years graduate, and all through my life, I have never dated anybody. Reasons being that i didn't feel any sort of connection with anybody. i dont believe in dating and dumping, instead, it should be dating that leads to marriage.

But of recent, i have been faced with feeling of lust though am trying really hard to cope

The question is how does one cope with lust or rather, i should i forget about it? and again is that feeling a sin?
Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 10, 2016
Go and marry mah nigga
Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 3:03pm On Apr 10, 2016
lust will follow you all the days of your life angry

i know the only way is God really, but I don't always follow that, cause it's so so soooo easy to give in.

it's just like candy and the right ways is all bitter and dry (at least it seems), but sweet isn't always good for ya though.

one practical way besides taking into account your aknowledgement of right and wrong, is to do the multiplication table in your head, trus me

do 3 X 3 in your head, then times 3, then times 3... until you get stuck. Then start all over again and try to beat your last record, lol. The life of a geek undecided
Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by Bluezy13(m): 3:06pm On Apr 10, 2016
Hmmm...












And then
Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 10, 2016
Different people, different wahala

Pray to GOD

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Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 10, 2016
COUNCELLING and bible study plus prayers.
Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by silverluci(f): 3:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
I saw this on a whatsapp group and really liked it. Enjoy!

YOU ARE FASTING!

Daughter: (Coughs out) Hmmm…It is well o

Mum: (looks up at her, then continues picking her beans) Any gist for momma?

Daughtersad Looks at her) Mum, I think I am not normal anymore…like, I am sick

Mum: (Chuckles) Ojo to’ju ba ri’bi ni bii’wole. Sickiii ke! Why?

Daughter: Because I am over-sensitive. Whenever I see a guy, I have this weird feeling compared to when I meet a girl. Mum, I get worried often times if I would scale through adolescence without defiling myself

Mum: (Laughs) you are afraid?

Daughter: It seems you don’t understand mum. When I see a guy’s bicep, oh my God! If he mistakenly exposes his abs, then I would almost faint, feeling as if I should run into his strong, muscular arms and be cuddled.

Mum: And so? That’s why you are not normal?

Daughter: (Eyes widens) Mum!

Mum: That shows that you are very normal my baby girl

Daughter: I don’t understand ma

Mum: You fasted recently shae?

Daughter: Yes mum. A three-day dry fast

Mum: There was on an occasion that I prepared plantain and fried egg for dinner for the family. How did you feel that day?

Daughter: Mum, it was sensational! As if I had never tasted dodo before. I wanted a bite so bad.

Mum: So, why didn’t you get into the kitchen to get yourself some?

Daughter: Mum, I was fasting

Mum: Nice one! Son, can you hear us from there? Put off the TV please

Son: Ok mum.

Mum: As an adolescent boy or girl, don’t think it weird when you are attracted to an opposite sex. His or her stature or the likes might appeal to you. It shows that you are very normal. You wouldn’t say, you are abnormal because you can perceive the aroma of dodo while you were fasting. Would you?

Both: No mum

Mum: All unmarried people in this world are on a sexual fast or at least, that’s how it was supposed to be. Different dodo, juices, fried fish, chicken; Shawarma and the likes would appeal to them clothed in handsome men and beautiful women of different carriage but block your perception! You are fasting!

Daughter: (nods repeatedly) Hmmm…I am getting it now

Mum: the aroma could be pornography, sexy boys and girls, devilish games and all but be warned, you are what?

Both: Fasting!

Mum: So my daughter, you are as normal as anything. It means all the parts of your body are responding well but the Bible says you should keep your body under!

Daughter: Mum, for real, I can’t thank you enough. I expected you to shout at me and tie your scarves round your waist, stamping your feet on the floor saying ‘Omo yi ti pa mi’ but no! You are trustworthy and I can count on you. And that is why mum is our… (Signals to the boy)

Son: Confidant! (Both laugh)

Daughter: Bro, c’mon chop knuckle (They did)

Mum: (Smiles) Blessed children…very very blessed!

Both: most blessed mother

Mum: But never forget the lesson learnt today…(expects an answer)

Both: We are fasting!

Mum: Yes. The fast would soon be over and your dish of dodo, freshly prepared with well garnished fried egg with a chill bottle of wine would be delivered to you but first, wait! Say, I will wait

Both: I will wait!

Mum: And the Lord will bless you.

Both: Amen (They hug their mother and she blesses them)

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Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by Tallesty1(m): 3:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
Get busy with something Oga. The urge comes mostly when you're bored.

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Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by Nobody: 3:30pm On Apr 10, 2016
:-/

Get a girlfriend bruh... Solves it... N saves everyone from reading threads lyk tis.....


God cannot help yhu stop it... He created lust when her created us.....


The lord is awa strength grin
Re: How Do I Effectively Cope With The Feeling Of Lust by Dygeasy(m): 3:35pm On Apr 10, 2016
Brruuuhhhh

You know what to do. Start nurturing thoughts of having a relationship NOW.

You just might be lucky. Also get busy with something really meaningful.

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