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How To Know The Rigth Girl To Mary by businessMODE(m): 9:43pm On Apr 23, 2016
75% of the path to marriage lies in the selection process. Now, there isn’t any scientific theory to this number it’s merely my opinion gathered from coaching so many people.

It is my belief that the big reason so many marriages don’t last isn’t because marriage is so hard or because people “change,” it’s more so because people don’t put enough effort into the selection process when choosing life partners. We are so hungry for the wedding that we forget about the marriage part, and we are so excited about posting it on Facebook that we forget we actually have to live it in real life.

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Re: How To Know The Rigth Girl To Mary by ndujekwu(m): 9:48pm On Apr 23, 2016
OP, u should have just posted everything in full, rather than referring us to another website.

U no know say fuel no dey to open another link? grin grin grin grin
Re: How To Know The Rigth Girl To Mary by iceberylin(m): 9:51pm On Apr 23, 2016
ndujekwu:
OP, u should have just posted everything in full, rather than referring us to another website.

U no know say fuel no dey to open another link? grin grin grin grin
HIM NO KNOW SAY WE NEED TO CHARGE PHONES angry
Re: How To Know The Rigth Girl To Mary by Dottore: 9:51pm On Apr 23, 2016
Enya. It's pathetic the desperate efforts bloggers make to draw traffic to their sites. The Lord is your strenght sha. But me. I won't follow that link. I would have if you had posted the full content of the post
Re: How To Know The Rigth Girl To Mary by Buharism: 10:08pm On Apr 23, 2016
75% of the path to marriage
lies in the selection process.
Now, there isn’t any
scientific theory to this
number it’s merely my
opinion gathered from
coaching so many people.
It is my belief that the big
reason so many marriages
don’t last isn’t because
marriage is so hard or
because people “change,”
it’s more so because people
don’t put enough effort into
the selection process when
choosing life partners. We
are so hungry for the
wedding that we forget
about the marriage part,
and we are so excited about
posting it on Facebook that
we forget we actually have
to live it in real life.
let’s focus on a few reasons
why your woman might be
Ms. Wrong.
1) It’s always all about her
Selfishness in a relationship
is like a disease that spreads
and manifests itself into all
areas of the relationship. It
starts with her being selfish
about her time and
resources, next thing you
know she is being selfish
about sex, and before you
know it your needs are
never being met but all of
hers are. If everything is all
about her you may be with
MS. WRONG
.
2) She is never happy and
shows no appreciation
You work hard everyday,
give her everything she
needs and wants, and
you’ve even sacrificed your
happiness for hers yet she
STILL never seems happy.
She always has an attitude
about something and she
never stops to just say
“THANK YOU, I APPRECIATE
YOU.” If this is your woman
she might be MS. WRONG
because eventually you will
need her to be happy and
you will need appreciation
to encourage you to keep
going.
.
3) She can’t get along well
with anyone. Ever.
Have you found yourself
losing a lot of friends and
even having to distance
yourself away from family
because your lady just can’t
seem to get along well with
anyone? You dread going to
friend and family cookouts
because you know it won’t
turn out well? Oh and for
some reason it always
seems to be someone else’s
fault too. She keeps the
drama going and you are
always caught in the middle.
If she doesn’t love you
enough to get along with
the people you care about
most she may be MS.
WRONG.
.
4) She is always passive
aggressive and uses the
silent treatment often.
Communication is the most
important skill in a
relationship so if her idea of
communication is being
passive aggressive and
giving you the silent
treatment every time
something is wrong with her
then run for the hills! If she
says one thing and means
another and either way you
lose she may be MS.
WRONG!
.
5) She shows no nurturing
qualities
As men we like to be taken
care of and nurtured the
same way women like to be
protected and made to feel
secure. Furthermore if you
want a family you will need
someone with nurturing
abilities. Sure she may be a
great career woman but if
you want a family and she
doesn’t have a nurturing
spirit that can benefit you
and your future children she
may just be MS. WRONG!
.
6) She doesn’t support any
of your endeavors
If you are a dreamer and
have many things that you
love to do yet she takes no
interest in any of them then
she may not be the woman
for you. You are going to
need the support of your
woman to accomplish the
things you want to
accomplish. She can’t be a
passive participant because
you are going to need her
to care about you and your
life and if she doesn’t do
this she may be MS.
WRONG!
.
7) She has no friends
outside of you
If she decided to drop all of
her friends just because of
your relationship then don’t
be surprised when she
doesn’t want you spending
time with your boys. We all
know we need time with our
boys so she needs to have
some friends outside of you
so she can do the same. A
smothering relationship will
eventually get old and you
will grow distant. If she
doesn’t have any friends she
may be MS. WRONG!
.
She is insecure and
distrusting
No one wants a nag for a
mate! If you can’t step
outside of the house
without answering 21
questions or if you can’t
leave your phone around
without her needing to keep
tabs on it then that tells you
a lot. If she has no trust in
you and you haven’t given
her a reason to be
distrustful then she may be
MS. WRONG!
Sometimes as men we get
so caught up in the physical
and the sexual that we
overlook the qualities and
the substance. We like the
attention we get from
having the “trophy” on our
arms, but we don’t have the
foresight to see that
eventually that attention will
get old and we will be stuck
with everything that’s
underneath that beauty. If
you think you are with MS.
WRONG then marrying her is
the last thing you want to
do.
.
CHOOSE WISELY MY
FRIENDS!
Have you experienced any of
these things with the
women in your life?
Re: How To Know The Rigth Girl To Mary by Timolanki(m): 10:32pm On Apr 23, 2016
D interesting thing is dat I'm a kind of inbetween women for now. Most girls pretend b4 marriage n u only get to knw her better after she drop one or two onochie for u.

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