Note I'm not a player, I'm not a cheat but I can't be in luv wit one woman at any given time... Being in luv wit only one woman can result to anxiety problem, heart break, jealousy, or even boring....
I like to hav as many "sweethearts" as possible at any given time.
Note: I don't keep women as friends...I believe a real man don't need to do that because its either you are deceiving yourselves or you are burying your feelings or you are not just being a man by allowing yourself to be used in the place of a woman.
When you have many "sweethearts" ...you don't need to bother your self with frequent calls, expensive gifts, unnecessary emotions, jealousy, anxiety and other inconveniences all in the name of chasing and keeping just one girl who will probably have as many admirers and toasters day after day....

I'm happy living this way and women admire me and tell me to my face they want me day after day...
But pals pls does it mean that when I get married
I won't be able to continue keeping many "sweethearts"
Note I don't hav sex with them just being happy and smiling and playing ...I like playing wit gals