Nova15:
Its very simple. Draw a line and make her understand not to cross it.

femidejulius:
This is how I helped someone the other day and refused to pay consultation fee. I always have the best solution.

When you get to the office on Tuesday, start calling your co workers separately and tell them each you have a secret to tell them. Let each believe u are telling them only. Tell them how the lady has been calling you, sending texts and asking u to date her by force else she set u up at work . It is a strategy. Some of those people will inform her and even though she wants u, she will be embarrassed at the lie and she will withdraw from you. Also, she won't want to do anything to jeopardize your job as that will confirm what u had earlier said about the threat hanging on your neck.

Consultation fee is 150k please. Who else need me to fix their wahala?

firstking01:
Tell her to her face that you have a fiancee you want to marry, and that she should stop bothering you...and be stern in the warning...dnt be warning her and be smiling sheepishly...i dnt mean the kinda warning that your heart will be saying yes and your lips will be saying no...

firstking01:
Tell her to her face that you have a fiancee you want to marry, and that she should stop bothering you...and be stern in the warning...dnt be warning her and be smiling sheepishly...i dnt mean the kinda warning that your heart will be saying yes and your lips will be saying no....

Nova15:
Its very simple. Draw a line and make her understand not to cross it.

femidejulius:
This is how I helped someone the other day and refused to pay consultation fee. I always have the best solution.

When you get to the office on Tuesday, start calling your co workers separately and tell them each you have a secret to tell them. Let each believe u are telling them only. Tell them how the lady has been calling you, sending texts and asking u to date her by force else she set u up at work . It is a strategy. Some of those people will inform her and even though she wants u, she will be embarrassed at the lie and she will withdraw from you. Also, she won't want to do anything to jeopardize your job as that will confirm what u had earlier said about the threat hanging on your neck.

Consultation fee is 150k please. Who else need me to fix their wahala?

marvelous000:
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With all due respect. Your advice was coined from prism of visceral. I guess you didn't see where he said that she can implicat him at his work place.

Anything short of diplomatic discard, will be adversely execrable. I mean, it is a sure debacle, cos we all know how women handle rejection(they don't have the stoic to ingest that).

OP, I'm not a pundit in relationship brouhaha, but i personlly think you should employ the use of "stolidity". Give her little time and infinitesimal interest/care in whatever fvck that join you both.
With time, you'll see the difference.

Note: it shouldn't be contemptibly done. Just be natural.
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firstking01:
Polish english no go help any issue here...for me, thats what i will do...you are afraid that she's gonna implicate me how, make them sack me huh...she has never seen where thunder fire person and aftermath of the effect of the thunder for the person body...was she the one that payed my fees through school, or was she the one that employed me...one devil will just emanate from no where to spoil show for me, rubbish