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Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by flowman47(m): 7:30am On Nov 18, 2006 |
Hello Friends - I Urgently Need Ur Help I'm Jude a member of Nairaland as u may have already known I fell in love with a girl who happens to be in a relationship What i feel for her i have never felt for anyone before I told her all about it, she responds: "Jude I would have loved for us to be together but, I am in a relationship now" I know she loves me, I told her i'll w8 for her no matter how long it takes she begged me not to, I still insist now i'm having double thoughts please i need ur help people as i love this girl with every beat of my heart Plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss Helpppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp My time is already running out And pls no insult guys ok? |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by ghengis(m): 8:56am On Nov 18, 2006 |
No insults, So don't take this as one! What on earth r u doin being 'in love' with someone in a stable rel, That fact alone should av been enough to tell u to back off. At times like dis i wonder where stuff like integrity av gone to. A guy like u wld most probably 'fall in love' wit a married woman. My guy, wat do u do?, Its simple, Back off! Let ha concentrate all ha time and strength on who she's wit now but if things don't work out fine. Abeg stop puttin any undue pressure on d poor girl! At least, put urself in d shoes of d current boyfriend! Integrity my friend, is worth a lot more dan desires, moni and many other things , Naija will be a beta country if we all lived like dat. No insults, right?! Just my own expression of truth! |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by Topsido(m): 12:26pm On Nov 18, 2006 |
Abo oro la n so f'omo luabi to ba denue a dodidi translation half talk na im we dey tell gentle man iF the talk come enter mam he go become whole I hope i was polite sir? Cheers! |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by rawlings(m): 2:34pm On Nov 18, 2006 |
Hello, t was nice bkos u said no insult bos gus in here sometimes dont give striaght answers instead they nagg alot.Well my advice for you is to understand and let her continue her relationship.Dont think much about her anymore nd dont lways cntacther as b4.Reduce ur feelings by thinking that she is ur sister man.Is easy to reduce this feelings.ok |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by flowman47(m): 1:31am On Nov 19, 2006 |
Hey guys thanks alot for replying ma Hello "ghengis " Please try and understand me I met this girl and fell in love long before i knew she's in da relationship But i appreciate ur help though I'll try ma best to let go Knowing fully well it ain't gonna be easy Thanks again my bros |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by Busta(f): 1:48am On Nov 19, 2006 |
is she gat someone else then let her be. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by choco4life(m): 1:59am On Nov 19, 2006 |
omo dont decieve ur self she has told u her mind. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by flowman47(m): 11:15am On Nov 19, 2006 |
Hey "Busta" Thanks for ur concern really do appreciate it I actually needed help from a lady But there something u should know about this Please contact me if u can. I seriously need help Email: flowman47@yahoo.com Tel: 2348026992470 The Name Is Jude |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by candylips(m): 12:58pm On Nov 19, 2006 |
flowman you obviously think you have flows by including you # and emailadd for the ladies to call you. but guess what . It aint gonna work |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by kheme(m): 2:03pm On Nov 19, 2006 |
hey, there are over 10000000000000 girls out there that are NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP!!! why did it have to be the one in a relationship that you picked make better choices, man! |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by flowman47(m): 2:46pm On Nov 19, 2006 |
Hey "Candylips" I thougt i specified that msg that msg wasn't for u or any other no one other than "Busta" So pls becareful what u say u don't know me like that ok? Must u get at one all da time? |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by ThoniaSlim(f): 9:37pm On Nov 19, 2006 |
just move on and let her be. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by edmondo(m): 10:11pm On Nov 19, 2006 |
omo,leave the poor girl alone and let her b,if u look around you,u wuld c so many pretty girls around u that re not into any relationship. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by candylips(m): 3:27am On Nov 21, 2006 |
Hmmm |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by harvey(m): 9:47am On Nov 21, 2006 |
man?what will u do when someone else is loving ur lover how will u feel.dont use ur greedy emotions to spoil the nice things this two are building cos u aint gonna want same to happen to ya.so what u aint gonna take dont give it to someone else.aight |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by wormedup(m): 10:20am On Nov 21, 2006 |
okay, this is my chip. first of all, is this feeling mutual between the two of u ? u already answered so we are left with the girl's end. now if this girl feels the same way about you like u feel about her, believe me, there's no way she's going to marry the other guy - unless u mess up somewhere/somehow. you should be concerned about her happiness. if she's in another relationship and harboring serious feelings for you, then there's something wrong. the only thing i really think you should do is marry her. if she really loves u, she'd marry you. u don't expect her to leave her current relationship and come hang out with u for another one or two years while u decide if u can go through with it or not. that'd be like leaving a Shell job for bar- tending ! @all my brothers and sisters in here, if "Relationship" means a babe and a dude seeing each other, then i think many of us broke relationships to get a babe. why?? 1. how many of us got a virgin babe or a first - time guy ? 2. how did his/her previous relationship end ? 3. can you vouch for what he/she told you over question 2 above ? 4. r u sure he/she ain't seeing someone else ? i'm just trying to be reasonable cos these things happen; many of u will agree with me. think about it. cheers. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by Mystique(f): 2:47pm On Nov 21, 2006 |
***yawns*** |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by candylips(m): 11:47pm On Nov 21, 2006 |
close your mouth |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by wormedup(m): 7:39am On Nov 22, 2006 |
Mystique: makes sense. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by woleprof(m): 2:34pm On Nov 22, 2006 |
@topic Thank God for your life. This girl in question really love u but not in that romantic aspect. If not she would have been toying with ur heart until u run psychological. She had made it clear to u that her romantic affair is with his guy and not u. What u dont know is that there is a girl out there looking for u, she's beautiful, sexy, pretty and ur i deal lady. She is looking for u. Cool down cos u re about to meet her. Let this girl in question go so u ca meet ur angel. My advice is that girl are like weather, if shes ur she wil come looking for u, if not wait for ur own angel. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by flowman47(m): 1:08am On Nov 23, 2006 |
wormedup woleprof Thanks alot guys, ur opinions really made me think very clearly that's what i actually wanted to hear from Nairaland forum thanks alot candylips Don't hate, Appreciate |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by woleprof(m): 10:58am On Nov 23, 2006 |
U re welcome. what re friends for? |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by naija4life(f): 11:03am On Nov 23, 2006 |
Its not worth waiting, just get on with your life, you must definitely find someelse to lavish all your love on, cheers mate, it aint da end of the world, yu know? |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by sammyjl(f): 12:42pm On Nov 23, 2006 |
Move on, its hard but worth it |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by mcgboye(m): 3:37pm On Nov 23, 2006 |
Hello bro,my advice?let go of her.it just happened 2 me.d girl agreed 2 be close 2 me,but her body language kept telling me it'll take time which is a commodity scarce 2 come by.wel y'day i saw her&after a coupla hellos i went my way. |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by uchetobi(f): 4:05pm On Nov 23, 2006 |
Dang! You fell in fall out as well |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by kizzy(f): 9:41pm On Nov 27, 2006 |
cant believe dis |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by kizzy(f): 9:42pm On Nov 27, 2006 |
donno wot 2 say |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by candylips(m): 11:10pm On Nov 27, 2006 |
then seal ur lips innit |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by Eurphoria(f): 4:08am On Nov 28, 2006 |
@Flowman Move on, don't wait for her. candid advise for you, if she cam back to you, you'll be nothing but second best, otherwise why is she not with you now? Move on |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by kizzy(f): 2:53pm On Nov 28, 2006 |
candylips: they are |
Re: Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship by flowman47(m): 12:07am On Nov 29, 2006 |
Thanks guys u've all been great Oh! my God she's here . . . . . . . . |
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