davidsgal:
Fact.... Pride almost made me lost my relationship few days back.... I made it seem like he z punishing me... Now m crying like a baby bcox I was advised wrongly.... He doesn't want to talk to me... Buh we are still together....
Ladies.... Pls dnt listen to friends... Swallow ur pride nd make ur relationship/marriage work.

olisasegun:

Hmmmm. What is worth doing at all is worth doing well.

davidsgal:


Exactly dear

davidsgal:
Fact.... Pride almost made me lost my relationship few days back.... I made it seem like he z punishing me... Now m crying like a baby bcox I was advised wrongly.... He doesn't want to talk to me... Buh we are still together....
Ladies.... Pls dnt listen to friends... Swallow ur pride nd make ur relationship/marriage work.

donogaga:
Pride can destroy a marriage very fast. If a husband or a wife is full of pride they will have a difficult time apologizing. Being married is challenging. When two people live together day in and day out, there will be times that they hurt each other, annoy each other, they will not always meet each others expectations… and the list can continue. My point is that being able to say “I’m sorry” whether one is wrong or right is necessary for a marriage to thrive.

A prideful person is recognizable by their behavior. Pride is manifested in many ways. A prideful person convinces themselves that they are always right. This makes it very
difficult for them to admit when they are wrong, it makes it difficult for them to admit that they sin, and it makes it very difficult for them to apologize.

A prideful person believes they are self sufficient so they do not depend on God, their spouse, or anyone else. They have a “know-it-all” attitude and are conceited, exaggerating their importance by esteeming themselves above others. They criticize others, yet when criticized they become very
defensive. They have a difficult time submitting to others and they are stubborn!

A prideful person may only struggle with one of those things or all of them, the critical thing is to understand how to define pride. Then we need to evaluate ourselves and see if we hav pride in our hearts.

God detests pride because it keeps people away from Him. A prideful person does not acknowledge their sin or their dependence for God so they keep their distance.

In his pride the wicked man does not seek him; in all his
thoughts there is no room for God. – Psalm 10:4

God warns us in Proverbs that pride will bring upon destruction. Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. – Proverbs 16:18

We need to be very careful that we do not allow destruction into our marriage through the existence of pride. Pride will corrode our relationships and destroy the intimacy God designed us to experience in marriage.


The best way to extinguish pride is to practice Humility.

davidsgal:
Fact.... Pride almost made me lost my relationship few days back.... I made it seem like he z punishing me... Now m crying like a baby bcox I was advised wrongly.... He doesn't want to talk to me... Buh we are still together....
Ladies.... Pls dnt listen to friends... Swallow ur pride nd make ur relationship/marriage work.

skywalker240:

Thank God for u...@least u realized earlier...


If it were some ladies, they prefer to lick their wounds all by demselvs instead of saying sorry.

My gf did same and now she is pleading...i aint talking to her too.

donogaga:



True that.

Now you are sounding very emotional.

Pride will halt a person’s ability to grow. Not a good thing.

Thank God for showing you how pride can destroy relationship(s).

olisasegun:

Nice outfit dear

olisasegun:

Hmmmm. What is worth doing at all is worth doing well.

donogaga:


True that.
Now you are sounding very emotional.
Pride will halt a person’s ability to grow. Not a good thing.
Thank God for showing you how pride can destroy relationship(s).

davidsgal:

Pls talk to her oooo.... B4 she dies in silent

olisasegun:
A FRIEND WROTE;

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years old. My ex hubby & I dated for six years. We where best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).
My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes. One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he was in the hospital, my family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him, and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me. I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.
Now, this Saturday (today) my husband is marrying, whilst l am here wasted! My family members are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my
marriage. I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and
bad mouthing me. Please ladies be vigilant in your marriage

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.
There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

#SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL,IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOW TO ADVISE YOU. I read this story and felt the need to share it

skywalker240:

Talk ko....... talk ni.......@least everybody's gonna die somedays....forgive her i will.....love her like before?....i doubt dat..



But i sugest u 4give urs and talk to him too...

Thanks anyways.

sirusX: