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Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Stoical: 10:20pm On May 13, 2016
This is a little but serious dilemma, a friend is currently facing. He requested for my advice and I felt I could come here to get tips before I meet him on Sunday when we are chanced to hangout.

It goes thus...

He had this presumed soulmate back then in school and they dated for 3years. They both studied computer engineering, graduated together and went to MIIT, (whatever that means). When they finished the program, the guy got job first with this IT firm in PH and they were forced to separate due to distance...the lady in question had to get married with the guy's consent and later divorced in October 2015. My formed got married December 2015, but did told me that he still crush on his ex.

Things got a bit complicated when he bumped on his ex at his office, where she came for an interview on March this year and the fire seems to have been kindled. She got the job 3 weeks later. The thing is, he's been trying to avoid her but this week Monday, she was to be reporting to my friend's immediate boss. My guy closes late, about 7pm daily, so as to prepare for the next day's job and it means, his ex must report to his boss through him and sometimes, only very few people are left in the building when she's to submit her report.

It got serious this Thursday, when they where alone in the office and she was, I quote, "extremely hot"..at least, that is what he said.(remember he still crushes on her). He couldn't help but caress and kiss her and according to him, he is devastated he had to do that. Today, his ex made advances again...he is confused as he is weak when she comes around...

(Pardon the cut-and-joined explanation) hoping you understand the crux.

Now, I am to advise him when we meet, this Sunday, what should I say? I'll still pray about it though...
Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Ahmed0336(m): 10:27pm On May 13, 2016
How sure are we that you re not the one?

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Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Amebo123: 10:28pm On May 13, 2016
yea pray. God will tell you what he should do

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Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by REMMEI(m): 10:35pm On May 13, 2016
It's not easy to breakaway from one's soulmate..
Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:39pm On May 13, 2016
Tell your friend she will soon crush his marriage
Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Nobody: 12:50am On May 14, 2016
Lemme sleep on it, I'll hive a better comment later in day.
Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Ray360: 1:56am On May 14, 2016
Many men and women don't understand the sacrosanctity of marriage hence the multi contemplations on whether to cheat or not. See, when I see a thread like this where a "married" Man or woman is nursing libidinous feelings for another person outside the court of marriage, I find it offensive. He is married. his marital status forbids that! let's stop Painting ills in gloss of gold.

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Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by eghos12(m): 5:16am On May 14, 2016
this is big.

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