Rapmoney:
Thanks bro. I don't know if the mods are just being biased here because I see some trivial issues on front page everyday. Sometimes, that's why we are not encouraged to create threads!

lalasticlala:




The way you people comment atimes is preposterous. What do you mean that mods are biased? The thread not being on FP yet means that the mods are biased? Do u knw if the mods have taken note and may move it later? Come and feature it yourself.

Rapmoney:
You will still spend money on 'anyone that comes your way'.

Rapmoney:
Is that why lalasticlala has not bothered to move this to the promised land?

lalasticlala:


The way you people comment atimes is preposterous. What do you mean that mods are biased? The thread not being on FP yet means that the mods are biased? Do u knw if the mods have taken note and may move it later? Come and feature it yourself.

Symphony1:

Is beta dan kippin a Nigerian Gfrd. d moni i spend atimes is just to buy juice n little snacks,

lalasticlala:


The way you people comment atimes is preposterous. What do you mean that mods are biased? The thread not being on FP yet means that the mods are biased? Do u knw if the mods have taken note and may move it later? Come and feature it yourself.

Mediapace:
That is not an excuse bro,rapmoney is right

lalasticlala:


The way you people comment atimes is preposterous. What do you mean that mods are biased? The thread not being on FP yet means that the mods are biased? Do u knw if the mods have taken note and may move it later? Come and feature it yourself.

HardMirror:

It is because nairaland is yet to have a strong competition.
Other nigerian forums are trying to be like nairaland instead of being unique, reason why they keep failing.

Rapmoney:
Thanks man. If they don't want to move it to fp, that's their business! That doesn't stop me from eating or sleeping peacefully as I have been doing.

1) Act as if you are flirting with other girls sometimes:
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2) Create scarcity for yourself sometimes:
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3) Don't act as if your life depends on sex:
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4) Don't make yourself a predictable guy:
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5) Strive to be comfortable:
You might not be rich now but strive so that you can thrive in whatever you are doing, boy You see, when you are thriving in your career, a lady respects you more. Spend money on yourself. Buy good clothes and eat good foods. In summary, look fly and fresh! It's better to attract than to impose!!!

Toks2008:
Rapmoney lalasticlala is a different mod and i honestly believe he will move this to frontpage but the title might just be the reason judging from the ways Seun have been acting these days expecially when it comes to topics relating to ladies(maybe he don dey friend one nland babe wey dey complain)

So in my view i guess the title should be modified to something like " (5 Ways To Avoid 'Emotional Torture' In The Hands Of nonchalant ladies)

That word Nigerian ladies may be the problem...my opinion tho

Toks2008:




Honestly i laugh so hard at seun for his chronic myopic disposition, odoriferous shallow mindedness and intellectual stuntedness in handling this on-line forum.

He has forgotten totally that only him can never make naieraland what it is and nairaland is what it is today because of people who signed up for one reason or the other but today he has allowed himself to get carried away by the euphoria of owning the largest African on-line forum.

I have no grudge against him but i am seriously appalled by his level of intelligent quotient(IQ) judging from what has been happening of late.

It takes absolutely nothing for anyone with fairly good cash to set up an online forum such as this and gather so much attention in a very short time but the truth is that many people are just looking away from that and decide to embrace nairaland which seun has obviously taken for granted and he who the gods want to punish, they will first of all make him stubborn and grow deaf hears to warnings.

Anytime i read the new rule 16 i always see nairaland as primitive and Seun as a stark illetrate...thank GOD for intelligent moderators like lalasticlala who is really doing a great job in making Nairaland an online forum to reckon with.

I am using this medium to call on Seun to call himself to order before he wakes up to realize that nairaland has become a shadow of itself.

MY BROTHERLY ADVICE.

Mediapace:
That is not an excuse bro,rapmoney is right

AND DOES LALAST.ICLALA STOPPED THOSE ..... HE WAS DOING,FEATURING SNAKE THREAD THAT ARE NOT EVEN REAL.
Most of those snake posters will search for snake pics on google and paste it on the forum saying they saw it in their compound and LALA Will feature it on FP,What's the meaning of that

Ishilove:

Lalasticlala is very right. Just don't jump into conclusions because a thread hasn't been featured on the fp yet. The dude has several hundreds of mentions daily so imagine how difficult it is sifting through all those mentions.

Mediapace:
Seriously wait,there are times when one must get frustrated with this FORUM,I saw this thread this morning even before any argument occur.
I was like :
This thread must hit FP,Very interesting don't know something like this will occur.

AND DOES LALAST.ICLALA STOPPED THOSE ..... HE WAS DOING,FEATURING SNAKE THREAD THAT ARE NOT EVEN REAL.
Most of those snake posters will search for snake pics on google and paste it on the forum saying they saw it in their compound and LALA Will feature it on FP,What's the meaning of that

We are fed up with those stuff,we are not vert and we have nothing to do with snakes,why not dogs


About the issue of mentions,he's a supermod and he should know how to tackle that and why must we even mention his name sef before we get our posts featured,mentions is not an excuse

Ishilove:
He's a supermod, not a super machine

Nairaland boys and Generalization

its a known fact that "some"ladies like to exploit the guys, meanwhile that does not hold true for "all" ladies
As a lady,I am going to counter this biased points one after the other..


meanwhile I will advice you OP to always put a disclaimer at the end of your written "thoughts" and way of life,because from what I have read on responses some people gave to this thread,it shows that what people read online is what they use in relating with their fellow humans forgetting that no two people are the same.

what worked for you might not work for them,In the end,they could ruin a good relationship because of what they read online.

Rapmoney:
Please, read patiently and digest...

I'm using this medium to express a bitter truth; I don't care what you call me...if you like, call me 'crazy'...if you like, call me 'baby'. We might not say much but we put our thoughts into writing just to prove you a fact!

If you are still romantically blind; I mean, if you are still a 'Johny-just-come' in the dating game, you have surely landed on the right place It is erroneous for a guy to think that women are not romantically clever! Bro, they are!!! After many hours of thorough brain-storming in my little library of Romantic Psychology, I came up with these tips...u fit call am 'expo'

1) Act as if you are flirting with other girls sometimes: Until most girls realize that they have competitors, they will never value you in a relationship. Haven't you pondered on why girls still go for a guy, even when they fully know he has girlfriends, yet, they ignore the guy who's lonely? Ogbeni, even if u nor dey flirt, u fit pretend; watch how her behaviours go change!

This style/method of handling issues,does not in anyway work for me and a whole lot of ladies,Boy,am not desperate i got no time for games...some of us will prepare a meal for you and your concubine.....we no send

2) Create scarcity for yourself sometimes: Nobody values something that's commonly seen. If mangoes too many for basket, small small children go use some take play ball It's more pleasant when a girl tells me that she misses me than when she tells me that I'm disturbing her! Some people never really value a common thing until the 'common thing' becomes uncommon.

You must have heard of the phrase "out of sight is out of mind",Boo,if you decide to make yourself scarce like fuel,then we could both be scarce..
Two can play at the game, variety is the spice of life

3) Don't act as if your life depends on sex: I bet you, this is one ancient tool that women have been successfully using to 'subdue' men. Don't wait for religious books to tell you that it could be possible that Samson allowed Delilah to cut off his hairs because of the sweetness of her 'womanhood'. It could be possible that the young man had never bleeped a woman with such intimidating sweetness of 'womanhood' before. Mind you, I only said 'it could be possible'

4) Don't make yourself a predictable guy: It's very easy to suffer emotional torture in the hands of most Nigerian ladies when you make yourself predictable. Your decisions are waved off as nothing; they can predict your next move...they know you will soon come pleading like a child whose mother left at home even when she is the one that offended you! In fact, make yourself mysterious sometimes.

Surprisingly, spending a few months with any human,whether male or female,gives one an idea about their reactions to issues,questions,topics,situations etc...so he needs not try to be unpredictable because eventually he will follow a pattern

5) Strive to be comfortable: You might not be rich now but strive so that you can thrive in whatever you are doing, boy You see, when you are thriving in your career, a lady respects you more. Spend money on yourself. Buy good clothes and eat good foods. In summary, look fly and fresh! It's better to attract than to impose!!!

Rapmoney:
U be bad guy but just juice n snacks? Those girls must be very cheap!

lalasticlala:


The way you people comment atimes is preposterous. What do you mean that mods are biased? The thread not being on FP yet means that the mods are biased? Do u knw if the mods have taken note and may move it later? Come and feature it yourself.