Please I need help from matured minds, I met this guy through a friend of mine last year.We started from friendship then we gradually developed feelings for each other,until he asked me out and I accepted him bt we have never met one-on-one,he introduced me 2 his families and all accepted me without seeing me.He asked abt my past sex life, I lied 2 him I had sex once whereas it was thrice.When i was pushed,I confessed to him so he said it's over, he was the first guy have ever love dis way.I need advice on what to do to restore the love and trust back.These was the offence I committed. Pls help me out on what to do.To move on I turned down many proposals to sacrifice my faithfulness to him.

A man who gets angry over ya past is no Man

You had sex 3 times, you said it's once.

How Is that a problem? Why can't he tell you how many ladies he has sampled? Nonsense.

NP: Erriga-dem no get two heads.

seems both of u ar still UNDERAGED..


both of ya'll should...


GROW UP FIRST
then you can....
ENJOY A MATURED RELATIONSHIP... SHIKENA

If I no make money God no go happy with me Cos all dis people wey dey make am so dem no get two heads.

abeg leave alone jare .... he has not had sex b4 abi....

Dongorgon5:
If I no make money God no go happy with me Cos all dis people wey dey make am so dem no get two heads.

U go surely make money but how is this related to the topic

You dodged a bullet with that one, trust me. Move right along because you're a human & making a few stupid mistakes due to poor judgment is inevitable. If if he cant move past such a tiny issue, then he needs not you but a couch doctor. A lifetime subscription with one at that.

Nawa o...In the 1st place u shouldn't have lied to him...BTW its still not a big deal. Just let him be and I'm sure when he's back to his senses he will surely com back for you dts IF you both are made for each other...Calm down babe all is well

Femich18:

U go surely make money but how is this related to the topic

I find it hard to believe op story, so I had to derail

Dongorgon5:
I find it hard to believe op story, so I had to derail

It may be true and it may not be. ours is just to say our mind and leave the rest

Dem go worry mex4
The time wey I dey for prison I call am inside world, d time I dey outside world I call am outside.
No be outside buhari dey
No be outside idiagbon dey
No be outside dey find me guilty, I no do nothing
Na crazy world be that.
No be outside u lied to ur lover say na only once u had sex!!!
My people are useless,senseless my people are indisclpine.
Na nigeria govt dem dey talk be that.
Many leaders as u see dem, animal in human skin, animal wearing agabada.
Isreal vs lebanon
Iran vs iraqi
East west block vs west block east.
One veto vote is=92 or more!!!
Many leaders na different disguise dem dey ooox3
Animal talk don start again.
Dash me human rights
Our animal go knw slave trade, dey wan dash human right.
This uprising will bring out the beast in us
Beast of no nation egbekebgne
Na bad society

Look u woman, u don't start a relationship with lies ok. He has every gadamn right to call if off based on his experiences in the past. So u shouldn't judge him..




Most times a lot of lie to our partners to make dem think we ain't bad. Am not ashamed to tell any girl out there who I wish to enter a relationship with how many babes i'v fvcked, or whatever sexual history i'v been indulged in in the past and I won't judge her either.


If he's gona think u are a prostitutte for sleeping with three men in ur past den that is his fvcking problem. U both never knew back den so I really dnt see any reason why u should lie abt that.


If u have fvcked a thousand men, what business is his abt that? Dats why I really dnt like to ask ladies abt their exes or talk abt my past too. We ain't even living in it so that chapter has to be damn closed.



Now, there is no need crying over spilt milk. If he doesn't want anything u do with u again, there are a lot of goooood nairaland guys in here who would be willing to "you knw"


I did not mention myself oooo. Hmmm

he broke up with yu just cos its 3 n yu said 1? he Neva loved yu n yu shouldnt have lied....sorry sweedy

Femich18:

It may be true and it may not be. ours is just to say our mind and leave the rest

ok

1- Everyone got his or her own specification therefore you shouldn't be angry if you don't meet up to someone's standard. I guess you have your own specification too.

2- Lying is a trust issue. why lie?

3- You have never met this guy one on one so move on.

Any man that is not willing to forget your past & stand by you, does not worth you.

fados4sure:
Any man that is not willing to forget your past & stand by you, does not worth you.

Correct chap! Hi

PunkyV:

Correct chap! Hi

Hi PunkyV! The one am in love with even-though i haven't meant her

For me, the past is the past!!
If he broke up with you because of your past or probably because of the lie, he is still not serious!!

Loose him and let him go..... or just forget him












Peace I'm Out!!

fados4sure:

Hi PunkyV! The one am in love with even-though i haven't meant her

Lol, just give me a moment to swoon

*swoons*

You ok?

PunkyV:

Lol, just give me a moment to swoon
*swoons*
You ok?

Swoon? Pls don't. Am fine & i trust you are too?

fados4sure:

Swoon? Pls don't. Am fine & i trust you are too?

Oh, good to hear. I'm OK, thanks

PunkyV:


Oh, good to hear. I'm OK, thanks

I said since am free today, let me use d opportunity to come online & see what has be happening. I will find time to really chat with you one of this days as i really feel joy(happy) in me anytime am chatting with you. I wish it can become reality?

fados4sure:

I said since am free today, let me use d opportunity to come online & see what has be happening. I will find time to really chat with you one of this days as i really feel joy(happy) in me anytime am chatting with you. I wish it can become reality?

Awwwww Honestly, I almost cried. Almost Sounded so sincere. Either you're being very genuine or must be real suave to have such a velvety tongue. But anyway, thanks, munchkin. You arent bad to talk to yourself. If only wishes were horses But I dont think we couldnt/shouldnt be friends if wishes dont come true, right? Buddies?

PunkyV:


Awwwww Honestly, I almost cried. Almost Sounded so sincere. Either you're being very genuine or must be real suave to have such a velvety tongue. But anyway, thanks, munchkin. You arent bad to talk to yourself. If only wishes were horses But I dont think we couldnt/shouldnt be friends if wishes dont come true, right? Buddies?

awww!!! You wana make me cry too. Yes, am very real. You & I can still make my dream come through. Distant isn't a problem

forget the guy, nd if he tink of coming back, it is either he came to continue the relationship with u or he came to finish u up with uncontrollable sex relationship nd later dump u for real... watch out..

Am sorry for what you are going through. But people wanna know if they can trust you

He may not be bothered if you had sex with 20 guys (jst kidding, he shud be) but he wanna know if he can trust you. If you can be honest about stuffs like that. Its your past, no one can change it

He ll come around if he truly loves you.

Next time be honest about your past, only the people that are worth it will stay.

fados4sure:

awww!!! You wana make me cry too. Yes, am very real. You & I can still make my dream come through. Distant isn't a problem

Yeah, but we should have the same dream, dont you think?

I'm off to run errands now. Speak to you later

PunkyV:

Yeah, but we should have the same dream, dont you think?
I'm off to run errands now. Speak to you later

Exactly. That's what will/can make it work/keep it going. Alright, have a wonderful day ahead.