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Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Orikinla(m): 12:35pm On May 28, 2016

Many lovers have been victims of unfortunate incidents of rape where a girlfriend is raped and left heart broken. Her boyfriend now shares the trauma and in dilemma of how to continue the relationship with her.

A guy in such a situation shared the questions his traumatized girlfriend asked him after she confessed that she was raped and impregnated.
"Do you still love me?"
"Will you still marry me?"

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 28, 2016

I STILL LOVE YOU BUT I CANNOT MARRY YOU.

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 28, 2016

[email] Yes, but I'll advise she aborts the bastard! [/email]

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Twaci(f): 12:40pm On May 28, 2016

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Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by nnachukz(m): 12:40pm On May 28, 2016

If the rape was not any fault of hers. YES I will still marry her. Anybody can be a victim of such mishap especially at gun point. I will instead feel bad I wasn't there for her when she needed to be rescued.

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by greatgod2012(f): 12:44pm On May 28, 2016

If he really loved her, he will stand with her, help in her rehabilitation.

As for the pregnancy, depending on what they both agree on. If the girl is not comfortable with carrying of the pregnancy, she can terminate it, if it's also the guy that is not comfortable with it, she can be encouraged to terminate it.

The most important thing here is love, and then, they can change their environment to avoid people seeing and talking about them even in their presence

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Olasco93: 12:44pm On May 28, 2016

There are some thing you don't have control over.
If she is someone you truly Love, why not. It all depends on how Matured the Man is to handle such situation Maturedly.

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Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by NemzySeries(m): 12:54pm On May 28, 2016

wao!!!....datz a big 1 Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo tho itz sumfin I can put ma sef 2geda & wave off but honestly i'll feel cheated & taken advantage of by nature & d wickedness of man but if shez ready to get along wit d relationship provided she wuznt a cause factor to d deed den W're gud to go provided she aborts d baby bkos as far dis life & world is concerned u'll always see d situation & bitter of d experience in d child/children(incase na twins)......tho sum ladies find it very difficult to walk out of a hard & emotional/mental biting situation but rada d'll kip lamenting ova it & datz wat can chase me but provided she ready to put d past behind her den shez gonna get 119% manly support frm me

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Kondomatik: 1:08pm On May 28, 2016

greatgod2012:
If he really loved her, he will stand with her, help in her rehabilitation.

As for the pregnancy, depending on what they both agree on. If the girl is not comfortable with carrying of the pregnancy, she can terminate it, if it's also the guy that is not comfortable with it, she can be encouraged to terminate it.

The most important thing here is love, and then, they can change their environment to avoid people seeing and talking about them even in their presence

You guys confuse the hell outta me and scare me at same time.

The most important thing here is love shey? but they should terminate the baby if they're not comfortable with it huh?

Why not forward the same to the innocent child?

The funniest thing about people that support abortion is that they have been born already.

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Raph01: 1:10pm On May 28, 2016

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Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:06pm On May 28, 2016

If the guy truly loves her, he'll do everything possible to stabilize her.. because it wasnt her fault... I have a friend who recently went through this phase with his girlfriend... his own was so bad...he actually called her phone during the act and the bastard rapist picked it and he could hear is gf crying for help.... that was about 3months ago... he didnt leave her instead he helped her back to stability... and they're engaged now to get married in September.

Its all about the level of love and mental maturity of the guy.. it's something I can do if I truly love the girl.

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Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by halfricanadian(f): 2:12pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
If the guy truly loves her, he'll do everything possible to stabilize her.. because it wasnt her fault... I have a friend who recently went through this phase with his girlfriend... his own was so bad...he actually called her phone during the act and the bastard rapist picked it and he could hear is gf crying for help.... that was about 3months ago... he didnt leave her instead he helped her back to stability... and they're engaged now to get married in September.

Its all about the level of love and mental maturity of the guy.. it's something I can do if I truly love the girl.

Ur frnd is a good man cry

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:17pm On May 28, 2016

halfricanadian:

Ur frnd is a good man

Indeed he is.

.....the girl can kill for him right now.lol

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by halfricanadian(f): 2:24pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:

Indeed he is. .....the girl can kill for him right now.lol

I can kill for such a man too cry

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:26pm On May 28, 2016

halfricanadian:

I can kill for such a man too

Lol one of them can just be lining up in your countless PMs, you never know grin

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Orikinla(m): 2:27pm On May 28, 2016

greatgod2012:
If he really loved her, he will stand with her, help in her rehabilitation.

As for the pregnancy, depending on what they both agree on. If the girl is not comfortable with carrying of the pregnancy, she can terminate it, if it's also the guy that is not comfortable with it, she can be encouraged to terminate it.

The most important thing here is love, and then, they can change their environment to avoid people seeing and talking about them even in their presence

.

She wants to abort it. But he is pro life advocate and is against abortion.

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by halfricanadian(f): 2:29pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:

Lol one of them can just be lining up in your countless PMs, you never know

Really

whr is he

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:34pm On May 28, 2016

halfricanadian:

Really whr is he

Telling you would be cheating... grin

...find him yourself.

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by halfricanadian(f): 2:35pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:

Telling you would be cheating... ...find him yourself.

Cheat joor sad

oya talk it

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by MRBrownJ: 3:03pm On May 28, 2016

no big deal here, and she should have the common sense to abort that baby... and the fact that her guy is pro life is irrelevant to her doing what is RIGHT by her. he must accept that, and move on if he is against her actions.

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:06pm On May 28, 2016

halfricanadian:

Cheat joor

oya talk it

Lol no.... lipsrsealed

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by halfricanadian(f): 3:06pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:

Lol no....

Pls na

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:15pm On May 28, 2016

halfricanadian:

Pls na

...but you're single and happy na cry

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by halfricanadian(f): 3:16pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:

...but you're single and happy na

Yes na

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:25pm On May 28, 2016

halfricanadian:

Yes na

Ehn so no need grin

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by halfricanadian(f): 3:26pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:

Ehn so no need

Koda o

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by charijee(f): 3:29pm On May 28, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
If the guy truly loves her, he'll do everything possible to stabilize her.. because it wasnt her fault... I have a friend who recently went through this phase with his girlfriend... his own was so bad...he actually called her phone during the act and the bastard rapist picked it and he could hear is gf crying for help.... that was about 3months ago... he didnt leave her instead he helped her back to stability... and they're engaged now to get married in September.

Its all about the level of love and mental maturity of the guy.. it's something I can do if I truly love the girl.

Sweet talk

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by dauntless15(m): 3:32pm On May 28, 2016

if she was raped when am around I'll blame myself for being too weak to protect her, so I'll absorb all responsibility and let her give birth to the child I'll just assume its my adopted child cux i have always hope to adopt a kid after having four of my own as a way to of reaching out.

if she was raped somewhere else i will have doubts if its actually a rape and wont love her like before again because the memory will forever hunt my emotions and whenever i wanna have sex it will flash in my memory and I'll just lose the appetite, so i cant get married to her.

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:35pm On May 28, 2016

charijee:
Sweet talk

You know its true wink

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Israel5(m): 7:33pm On May 28, 2016

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by Nobody: 7:38pm On May 28, 2016

Hmmmmmmm...

Re: Would You Still Continue To Date And Marry Her After Rape? by bukatyne(f): 8:12pm On May 28, 2016

Orikinla:
.

She wants to abort it. But he is pro life advocate and is against abortion.

Then she should have it & keep in an orphanage.

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