[color=#99000]The concept of love can be hardly deciphered because the term seems to be a vague one.

Even when everyone holds an exclusive definition, it still lacks a general definition which can earn immediate acceptance by people


I'm currently reading this book,[/color] "Me Before You" by a well renowned author Jojo Moyes


[b]Nice book I must say!
The book cuts through one's emotions like hot knife through butter, the concept of the book is quite vague bit in a quarter-summary,the book talks about a young girl named Louisa Clark, 26-year-old,a working class girl, she lands a position as a "Care Assistant" to an intelligent and wealthy and usually very angry 35-year old man named Will Traynor,


He has been paralyzed for the past two years after being hit by a skiding motorbike, however, his mum Camilla (with whom he has a cold relationship) hires Louisa out of desperation to somehow be his "Care Assistant"


Let me not bore you with the very lengthy story,but one thing I was able to pick from it was that :
The fact Will was a very ill-tempered and indifferent kinda man made everyone including the nurses hired to take care if his medical needs quite afraid of him,—I could say he was a roaring lion

but here comes Louisa who was able to "flow
"with him,understand his ever-demanding needs and melt his heart leading to making him the happy man he once was—though not after so many trials and "wahala"


So I thought to myself,

*Does money determine your affection for a particular person?

*What if the reverse case happened? Can you as a guy feel comfortable falling in-love with a girl from a wealthy home?(you love her)

*Will body disability prevent you from falling in love with that special person?

Well,discuss![/b]

cc halfricanadian Smellymouth StfuareyouG0d ireneony Kashybaby etcetera !

CaptainEColeJnr:
[color=#99000]The concept of love can be hardly deciphered because the term seems to be a vague one.

Even when everyone holds an exclusive definition, it still lacks a general definition which can earn immediate acceptance by people


I'm currently reading this book,[/color] "Me Before You" by a well renowned author Jojo Moyes


[b]Nice book I must say!
The book cuts through one's emotions like hot knife through butter, the concept of the book is quite vague bit in a quarter-summary,the book talks about a young girl named Louisa Clark, 26-year-old,a working class girl, she lands a position as a "Care Assistant" to an intelligent and wealthy and usually very angry 35-year old man named Will Traynor,


He has been paralyzed for the past two years after being hit by a skiding motorbike, however, his mum Camilla (with whom he has a cold relationship) hires Louisa out of desperation to somehow be his "Care Assistant"


Let me not bore you with the very lengthy story,but one thing I was able to pick from it was that :
The fact Will was a very ill-tempered and indifferent kinda man made everyone including the nurses hired to take care if his medical needs quite afraid of him,—I could say he was a roaring lion

but here comes Louisa who was able to "flow
"with him,understand his ever-demanding needs and melt his heart leading to making him the happy man he once was—though not after so many trials and "wahala"


So I thought to myself,

*Does money determine your affection for a particular person?

*What if the reverse case happened? Can you as a guy feel comfortable falling in-love with a girl from a wealthy home?(you love her)

*Will body disability prevent you from falling in love with that special person?

Well,discuss![/b]

cc halfricanadian Smellymouth StfuareyouG0d ireneony Kashybaby etcetera !

I can love any body

But wen i start to get treated like nothing

I withdrawl my love

Ive dated pple dat i had to leave my life to build theirs never will i do such

Cos at d end am d only one left to build mine while i was there to build theirs

Attitude is a strong influence for me towards my partner i love u base on ur attitude bt if i kno u too deep nd cant cope i withdraw

Pple say u can love just one person for life i laugh u can love as many pple as possible

U only date or marry d one u feel more compactible with

Most times we mistake 'lust' for LOVE. That's why most love lust comes with conditions

When love hits you, my brother, no condition is involved. You can't even control it. It leaves you like a blank paper.

halfricanadian:


I can love any body

But wen i start to get treated like nothing

I withdrawl my love

Ive dated pple dat i had to leave my life to build theirs never will i do such

Cos at d end am d only one left to build mine while i was there to build theirs

Attitude is a strong influence for me towards my partner i love u base on ur attitude bt if i kno u too deep nd cant cope i withdraw

Pple say u can love just one person for life i laugh u can love as many pple as possible

U only date or marry d one u feel more compactible with

In a nutshell you love is heavily based on attitude.

But don't you think attitude can be deceptive, it could vary with circumstances,

Your man might be nice today and change after marriage due to one flick or another

Likewise a person might value you more after marriage .. See?

CaptainEColeJnr:
In a nutshell you love is heavily based on attitude.

But don't you think attitude can be deceptive, it could vary with circumstances,

Your man might be nice today and change after marriage due to one flick or another

Likewise a person might value you more after marriage .. See?[color=#990000][/color]

Awwwwww u are d best husband na

STFUareyouG0d:
Most times we mistake 'lust' for LOVE. That's why most love lust comes with conditions

When love hits you, my brother, no condition is involved. You can't even control it. It leaves you like a blank paper.

Yea.. I agree

But you have to give me explicitly
Do you mean LOVE can make you as a man fall in love with a girl irrespective of any faults... e.g. disability or bad character .. hmmm

halfricanadian:

Awwwwww u are d best husband na

You can't deny what I stated.. my dear love is blind..

That's why you see the good girl,bad boy kinda love..

When love hits you,you wouldn't mind attitude .. would ya?

CaptainEColeJnr:
Yea.. I agree

But you have to give me explicitly
Do you mean LOVE can make you as a man fall in love with a girl irrespective of any faults... e.g. [b]disability or bad character .. hmmm [/b]

when I say 'unconditionally' all these things you listed are involved.

CaptainEColeJnr:
You can't deny what I stated.. my dear love is blind..

That's why you see the good girl,bad boy kinda love..

When love hits you,you wouldn't mind attitude .. would ya?

Can only do dat for u nobody else

STFUareyouG0d:
when I say 'unconditionally' all these things you listed are involved.

I feel you

halfricanadian:


Can only do dat for u nobody else

Really
That's why I love you

CaptainEColeJnr:
Really
That's why I love you

I love u more sef

CaptainEColeJnr:

I feel you

I've seen people love, but maybe I've never been lucky to love

Hmmm, too many love threads on nl todae.

STFUareyouG0d:
Most times we mistake 'lust' for LOVE. That's why most love lust comes with conditions

When love hits you, my brother, no condition is involved. You can't even control it. It leaves you like a blank paper.

the wise one I hail thee

Chance and most importantly, state of mind. These two at the outset before commitment takes over.

STFUareyouG0d:
I've seen people love, but maybe I've never been lucky to love

I just pray you find love

You need to experience it

Julianyao:
Chance and most importantly, state of mind. These two at the outset before commitment takes over.

Wow.. bro abeg elaborate more on State of mind

halfricanadian:


I love u more sef

Expect a mention in my soon to be launched diary

CaptainEColeJnr:



Expect a mention in my soon to be launched diary

cant wait

CaptainEColeJnr:
I just pray you find love

You need to experience it

hehehehe Bros, no be compulsory o. Just pray God keeps helping me meet the conditions lust throws my way

sweeterman:


the wise one I hail thee

I sight you bossman

STFUareyouG0d:
hehehehe Bros, no be compulsory o. Just pray God keeps helping me meet the conditions lust throws my way

CaptainEColeJnr:

The thing or things that run through ones mind at the moment before one sees the person (for the first time) that he or she would eventually free fall with. These things vary from one individual to another. For example, if you are thinking about settling down and raising a family, this makes you susceptible to love at that particular point in time. And when in that frame of mind you by chance see a desirable individual, there's a tendency that you'll wanna make things happen and probably begin to act. One can be susceptible and not have the chance. An example is when one is thinking about love but one is the in a toilet or perhaps, in the kitchen cooking. Note here that chance is really important as it works simultaneously with state of mind. The example I've given here may seem mundane but when critically analysed, one should be able to understand what I've described here.
A consequence of this piece of reasoning is that it tells us that nobody is meant for any particular person.

What makes me like a girl comprises of her ass, boobs, height, smile etc but what will make
me love her will stem around her character towards me and everything I represent. The more
she goes out of her way to please me, the more I reciprocate in kind.

MODIFIED: God go now punish me if she dey very good in kitchen and bed.
That one na"Spiritual Seatbelt" be that...Thunder Fire Devil

Julianyao:
The thing or things that run through ones mind at the moment before one sees the person (for the first time) that he or she would eventually free fall with. These things vary from one individual to another. For example, if you are thinking about settling down and raising a family, this makes you susceptible to love at that particular point in time. And when in that frame of mind you by chance see a desirable individual, there's a tendency that you'll wanna make things happen and probably begin to act. One can be susceptible and not have the chance. An example is when one is thinking about love but one is the in a toilet or perhaps, in the kitchen cooking. Note here that chance is really important as it works simultaneously with state of mind. The example I've given here may seem mundane but when critically analysed, one should be able to understand what I've described here.
A consequence of this piece of reasoning is that it tells us that nobody is meant for any particular person.

nice one boss