akaahs:
Me nd my gf hv been having problem in our relationship, the recent one I'm the cause which result to argument because of this she ask for break. I have ask for forgiveness and appolize 3 tmxs but she still insist on the break. This is 1 month plus she has not call me or text me, should i forget about her nd move on or should i still give her time?

You've apologized, so what else does she want?

I know it's hard...but you just have to move on.

imperialQueen:



oh yeah!.. m learning already

Good to know.

Twaci:
Good day nairalanders!

So I was bored and thought of this; why not create an opportunity for guys to know us girls better?

So I did. This is an open thread where guys are allowed to ask questions, any question, about girls/women/ladies and I, or any female, can try to answer.

Are u confused about girls? Or moods? Is there anything you would love to know about us? Let us know and see how we can help

Ladies in the house! Who's up?

Laveda
Diddyydiva
Adeh39
Lanicky
Omotayor123
Dollyjoy
Refiner
Ivyy or ivvy
Mimzy
Optional1
Mysticalgal
Farano
Safarigirl
Misspicy
Ishilove
Estharfabian
Michella
Cherryice
Sinaj
Missmary
Charijee
Taashamania
Dechanel
Tohphaz....
.
.
...Every girl out there!

Let's have fun

this list is incomplete without onila my love

lanicky:



Lol
. sorry, I use it that often on WhatsApp when chatting with my frnds... Didn't know someone goes by that name here.

OK. Good you know.

lanicky:


You've apologized, so what else does she want?

I know it's hard...but you just have to move on.

thxs, i'm there already

[quote author=lanicky post=50391077]

You've apologized, so what else does she want?

I know it's hard...but you just have to move on. [/quote

thxs, I'm there already.

akaahs:


thxs, i'm there already

Anytime dear

PARAHH:

over a month? .. well as ladies we kinda like it when a guy shows remorse for anything gone wrong while basking in the glory of this seemin victory we tend to forget that we're over doing it... Well call her up, initiate a chat ask her what she wants if she really wants to breakup then you move on

my dear, i have swore never to call her again. If she still love she hv my no. I 'll never force myself on her.

lanicky:



Chronic insecurity.. Hmmm.

You need to change her orientation about you.

Maybe she felt hurt or let down in the previous relationship. So, it takes Lotta hardwork and determination to overcome insecurity in a new relationship.

OR


Maybe you're the handsome type and she's afraid of losing you to some other girls... Or maybe she's suffering from inferiority complex, cos of your status or the status of ladies around you.

Try to make her understand.. Let her know you love her the way she is... When you're in a public place or around those ladies that scare her.. Try to display some affection towards her... It may be a simple gesture.
By doing this... you're showing her how much she meant to you.

Like I said earlier, it takes Lotta hardwork. You have to help her overcome doubt..
Insecurity can destroy a great relationship if care is not taking.

The best solution... Lmao.. Just put her in the family way or get married to her ASAP

Thanks. you made a lot of valid points

calabardick:


this list is incomplete without oni.la my love

dy dy use d list collect money eee... Y u dy vex on top d matter..

optional1:





dy dy use d list collect money eee... Y u dy vex on top d matter..

Oops, I surrender

calabardick:

Oops, I surrender

Lol...


I dy joke u dey surrender if i come serious nko waiting u go come do?

lanicky:


Awwwww... I'm blushing
Hehehe.. Thanks.

It's possible.. Ashewoboy is not a good nick

Anything...something descent.

decent like holyboy?. That's hypocrisy. You nvr see holyboy wey be ashewoboy in person.



Reply my pm joorh. I wan take your number so i go fit toast you. You know i desire you.

lanicky:



Chronic insecurity.. Hmmm.

You need to change her orientation about you.

Maybe she felt hurt or let down in the previous relationship. So, it takes Lotta hardwork and determination to overcome insecurity in a new relationship.

OR


Maybe you're the handsome type and she's afraid of losing you to some other girls... Or maybe she's suffering from inferiority complex, cos of your status or the status of ladies around you.

Try to make her understand.. Let her know you love her the way she is... When you're in a public place or around those ladies that scare her.. Try to display some affection towards her... It may be a simple gesture.
By doing this... you're showing her how much she meant to you.

Like I said earlier, it takes Lotta hardwork. You have to help her overcome doubt..
Insecurity can destroy a great relationship if care is not taking.

The best solution... Lmao.. Just put her in the family way or get married to her ASAP

honeym sugar mu

SANDOSKI:
*Wey my popcorn...show don start....

wat up..im with my popcorn too, can i enjoy d show with you (wink*)

Thanks lanicky
But is it advisable to buy a birthday gift for this type of girl that you just met less than a month ago...

Gyrados:
Thanks lanicky
But is it advisable to buy a birthday gift for this type of girl that you just met less than a month ago...

Anytime dear..

Emm... It's no big deal.. You can get her a gift.

But, I think you need to know her better first. You can always buy her a gift anytime, nd she'll appreciate.

chimerase2:
honeym sugar mu

Lol.. Sweetheart

ashewoboy:





decent like holyboy?. That's hypocrisy. You nvr see holyboy wey be ashewoboy in person.



Reply my pm joorh. I wan take your number so i go fit toast you. You know i desire you.

Descent like.. *JamesBond or Jackieshan * :DD

*IamBuhari* sef go fit you

makazona:

Thanks. you made a lot of valid points

I'm glad I could help.

Nice thread Twaci.

A girl stops taking calls and makes excuses like she wasn't in a good mood.

I believe that is just an excuse to shut you out.

Why can't a girl open her mouth and say wtf is bothering her if indeed she is having mood swings.

And why are some women control freaks?

They want to tell you what to do like you don't have a mind of their own.

Suggestions work fine but not to start telling me what and what not to do.

I can't be escaping that from my mom and a girl comes and start that with me again.

lanicky:


Anytime dear..

Emm... It's no big deal.. You can get her a gift.

But, I think you need to know her better first. You can always buy her a gift anytime, nd she'll appreciate.

Thank you...

lanicky:


I'm glad I could help.

baby I missed u badly infact de miss Na bad baddo baddest

chimerase2:
baby I missed u badly infact de miss Na bad baddo baddest

Make I start to dey dance... Since you won sing me bad baddo baddest...

Iyaf miss you plenty... Where have you been?

lanicky:


Make I start to dey dance... Since you won sing me bad baddo baddest...

Iyaf miss you plenty... Where have you been?

panya

chimerase2:
panya

Na name of person, animal, place or thing?

Ha . ok leme list em in no particular order.

Still maintaining close contacts with you ex and telling me she's just a friend now...

Not acknowledging me in front of people that matter to you.

Comparing me with your ex... Giving me a constant reminder of how she does this and that better..

Not being appreciative of my little gestures.

Not giving me room to be a part of his decision making or making my advise to seem inconsequential.

What the guy can do...avoid all of the above and communicate constantly...that's the key but not limited to it..

And you think you can find ALL in one man? I doubt it, no man is complete, no one can be perfect in them all cos nobody is[perfect].

lanicky:


Na name of person, animal, place or thing?

Na name of amu
Baby see I saw ua email but I can't access asin read It cus it refuses to open

chimerase2:
Na name of amu
Baby see I saw ua email but I can't access asin read It cus it refuses to open

You sure say na me send am?

Maybe na spirit send amu

I DONT KNOW IF THIS QUESTION HAS BEEN ASKED YET.............
BUT..
WHY DO WE (GUYS) ALWAYS GET TREATED BADLY BECAUSE THE EX HAD MISBEHAVED AND SHE HAD AN UGLY HISTORY?
WHEREAS IF WE DO SAME......ALL HELL IS LET LOOSE.

Dont we have the right to be careful aswell??

lanicky:


You sure say na me send am?

Maybe na spirit send amu

ma ua big yash send amu

chimerase2:
ma ua big yash send amu

Lol.. You don high af

Wey TOM sef?