Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Chijosky(m): 8:25am On Jun 15, 2016 |
hmm ur own good oo,I left my parents house when I finished secondary school |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Nobody: 8:26am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Omawumi18: Do u stay in portharcourt?am an undergraduate of uniport. I ll love to enrol in ur skill acquisition school.abeg..... Aww, good morning dear We are based in lagos..and i live in lagos too. Wev not yet extend to other states. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Duru009(m): 8:37am On Jun 15, 2016 |
U hav a childish mentality..... Grow up bro. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Duru009(m): 8:38am On Jun 15, 2016 |
U hav a childish mentality..... Grow up bro. "any man dat complaints too much cannt grow in life" |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Domnick(m): 8:52am On Jun 15, 2016 |
sisisioge: Are you serious sweetheart? They put you through school and are feeding/housing you now. Pls do not fail to launch...they have invested a lot on you biko. May God provide you with a good job o madam(sorry o, I meant oga, u sounded like a girl...).
About the little boy, it is his turn now. is he really a boy i think say na woman dey talk maa |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by barcaboi(m): 9:07am On Jun 15, 2016 |
1. u are jobless; its affecting your reasoning 2. sincei graduated; I've not collected a dime from my mum and I was raised by her only btw and the only child.... 3. we all have issues with our folks whenever we are idle...it is the unstated law 4. can u please grow up and stop whining. . 5. wch school did you attend?.....Private abi?.... no disrespect to private unis; we at the state kinda hustled for a lot, to eat, to class, we didn't pay for meal, I practically went hungry many times.......Ladokites can relate to that 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Iphesure212(m): 9:09am On Jun 15, 2016 |
*in Dracs voice* Go far away and never return |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by nairaman66(m): 9:12am On Jun 15, 2016 |
iPrevail: Some people are just dumb, maybe for the fun of it.. Y'all calling him lazy and ineffectual didn't read where he said he wanted to go off to PH and start a job?
To you Op, you'll accomplish nothing through hate.. pata pata Na you e go kill. Just chill okay? look for other jobs around your area or nearest locality. learn a skill or som'in.
However, follow your guts if you must! If you have a reliable friend you can crash with while trying to get a job.. cool, do it.
No look anybody face o.. This life na only you waka come. But na somebody bring person come ooo! |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Amicable24: 9:12am On Jun 15, 2016 |
amicable09:
Hi dear What inspired you to choose this moniker? It has been my nickname for a while now, I came up wit d moniker frm my name Amaka and yes, I'm amicable.. What abt u |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Op enter Lagos, begin hustle... No thief o, nor kidnap, nor rape. Even if na conductor do am, sleep anywhere. One day, one day NA one day your tory go change. Na so mine start na. But today I dey West side, now my papa don dey regard me dey dobale on top. Meanwhile my degree dey cool off for im drawers. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by sisisioge: 9:26am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Elcemento: Madam, well done oo. So this is you permanent abode now. Better bring yourself home now and come serve my eba and egusi soup
you know how we roll na . But you get bad mouth sha, you gat no chill for the guy at all. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by amicable09(f): 9:49am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Amicable24:
It has been my nickname for a while now, I came up wit d moniker frm my name Amaka and yes, I'm amicable..
What abt u Oh! Uhm... Lol, It's been so many years and I can't even remember the details on how I came about it but I had a neighbour while growing up who called me that. I'm Amara by the way |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Amicable24: 10:11am On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by amicable09(f): 10:15am On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by OrthoDude: 10:34am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Hope you are aware that by starting to hate your mother you are also starting to hate yourself, except she isn't your biological mother. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by graphiti: 10:59am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Don't mind those modas sef! Check out how d Eagles show "wickedness" to her eaglets: stage 1: [b]The gathering of food and the nest
Now it’s the task of the mother to feed the little eagles. I don’t know why it’s the mother’s job, but it is. The mother eagle goes out and finds the food; flies back to the nest; stands on the edge; and drops the food systematically into the gaping mouths of the little eaglets. It’s an unending process as over and over again she flies out and flies back. This has been carefully researched; while the mother eagle is out "shopping," researchers have rearranged the little eagles in the nest. The mother, however, has an absolutely unerring sense—she knows exactly which babies have been fed and which have not, and she never misses. The lessons taught in the nest What a beautiful scene from nature about how the Lord provides not only for the birds of the air, but takes care of us (see Matt. 6:26-27). The scene in the nest should describe our spiritual lives only initially, not forever, however. Things don’t go on like this forever, because the nest is not only a place of feeding; it is also a school of sorts. Let me show you "the ways of an eagle" in the nest, and give you a picture of our lives as well. After the eaglets get to a certain size, or maturity, everything changes! One day the mother eagle comes back from being gone, but this time there’s no food in her beak, and she doesn’t land on the edge of the nest. Instead, she hovers over the nest. You may not know this, but an eagle can do almost what a hummingbird can do. Even though they are great birds, they can remain almost motionless in midair with those great wings just undulating in the breeze. They do this about three feet above the nest. I’m sure if little eagles could talk to one another—and maybe they can—one would certainly say, "My, what strong wings Mommy has." Why does the mother do this? She is demonstrating that those curious appendages on the babies’ backs have a useful function. Eagles, of course, were meant to fly, but they don’t know that. If we take an eagle and separate it at birth from its parents, it will never learn to fly . It will just grovel around in the dirt like a chicken. It might even look up and see eagles soaring overhead and never guess that it was meant to soar in the heavens.
stage 2 HOW EAGLES SHOWS "WICKEDNESS" TO EAGLETS
Eagles have to be taught, and that’s the mother’s job. So first she just demonstrates. The next thing she does is come down into the nest and surprise her young. One can imagine how warm it must normally be for the little eagles to snuggle with their mother and be enshrouded with her feathers, but this time she puts her head up against one of the little ones, and pushes that little one closer and closer to the edge of the nest. ("Hey mom, mom, what are you doing?" All at once she pushes the little one out of the nest, and the eaglet falls down the face of the cliff, surely to be destroyed. But not so! In a flash the great mother eagle flies down, catches the little one on her back, and flies up and deposits it in the nest. ("Whew! Mom, that must have been an accident." [b]But it wasn’t an accident. The mother bird pushes the little one out again, and again, over and over. Why would a mother do that to her young? Does she hates the little one? Not at all. It’s just that those little birds were made to fly, and they don’t know it, so she is going to push them out of the nest. She never lets them hit bottom, but she does let them fall, because they have to learn something they don’t know. The next time the mother bird comes back she decides to clean house, and so she stands on the edge of the nest. The first things to go are the feathers inside; she drops them over the edge. Then the leaves go over the edge— heave ho! While this is going on, she’s not very talkative, either. ("Mom, what are you doing?" She pays no attention. Since she built the house, she knows how to take it apart. Next she decides to take the sticks out of the middle of the nest, and with her great strong beak and feet, she’s able to break them off and stand them straight up. ("Mom, it’s not comfortable in here anymore." Then she takes certain key sticks out of the nest and throws them over the edge. ("What are you doing, Mom? You are wrecking my room." She seemingly pays no attention to the concerns of her young as she prepares to pull the nest apart, for she is determined that those little ones will fly, and she knows something they don’t. She knows they will never fly as long as they remain in the nest.[/b] Again, the Bible tells us all about these things. Deuteronomy 32:11 says, "...like an eagle that stirs up its nest (makes it uncomfortable) and hovers over its young, (showing them how to fly) that spreads its wings to catch them (as He pushes them out of the nest) and carries them on its pinions..." so is the Lord God to His people. God is out to mature us. Because we were made to fly, He will stir up our nest—our world. We weren’t made to languish in the comfortable surroundings of our nest-like world. We’re created in the image of God, made to fly and train our young to do the same. You and I were made to soar, but sometimes we simply don’t know it or forget it, so there are times when God will push us out of the nest. "Hey, God, what are You doing? I was enjoying the food You were feeding me. I just had to wait with my mouth open and You provided for my needs. What is happening now, Lord? I’m getting hungry. Surely You don’t expect me to feed myself?" Or maybe your eaglet experience is, "Hey, Lord, what are You doing? I feel like I am falling—like everything in my life is heading for disaster. Surely You don’t expect me to fall! How could I possibly be responsible to help others and be responsible for my own actions. You don’t want me to fly, do You?" |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by graphiti: 11:07am On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by egopersonified(f): 11:21am On Jun 15, 2016 |
DonOms:
3) DO NOT EXPECT HELP FROM ANYONE. Don't get me wrong. You can accept help, but never expect it's someone's job to give it. This will give you a sense of responsibility that will give you the edge you need in this competitive world of ours. Op, meditate on these words, you will become the giver instead of the receiver in that family in the shortest time. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by goziem1982(m): 11:30am On Jun 15, 2016 |
My brother you're not a bad guy neither are you a lazy guy only that you lack understanding and refused to take control of your life which they want you. I lost my parents when i was still in jss1 but i am graduate today managing my business and still looking for the best for my life and every one directly or indirectly identifies with me. So my brother your parents only want you to take charge of your self, take decision that will favour you even sometimes without they consent. With God you will succeed. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by goziem1982(m): 11:35am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Never you hate your parents, God made them the source of your life- proverb 1:8. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by nellyelitz(m): 11:38am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Bros u shouldn't have brought it here, ur'e own is even good. Just chill and live a quiet and calm life till u get a job. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by shitshappen(m): 12:23pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard: sir, pls I am still waiting. Should in case u'd be needing my account details...
ACC name--Ndukwe Wisdom ACC No. 6170634284 Fidelity bank
God bless I believe you have seen your alert by now, pls leave the sir part. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by saintandsinnerz: 12:24pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
TheArchangel: You sound so entitled to your mum's pocket. So she can't treat herself to good things because she has an ineffectual Buffon as a son.?
Get off
Guys, please, stop quoting me to yarn trash. A grown ass man yapping about how he hate his mum, huh? Yo want me to clap for him? Ain't happening. Thanks for your understanding. You're always harsh in your comments! What kind of person are you? You keep calling people ineffectual buffon in every thread, is that how you're brought up? Change your ways girl because you may take this bad attitude to a man's house and he may not tolerate it 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by ojac1: 12:36pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
U know ehat they say... that if u have a boring life because u listened to ur parents, pastors n co on how to live life, it's ur fault. so sorry. But it's a lesson. Holywizard: I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth. Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell. I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail. She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.
Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.
Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.
When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.
My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by ojac1: 12:43pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
U know what they say... that if u have a boring life because u listened to ur parents, pastors n co on how to live life, it's ur fault. so sorry. But it's a lesson. Holywizard: I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth. Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell. I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail. She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.
Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.
Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.
When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.
My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
I'm also wondering if they didn't see that line or everyone is trying to act 'mama's love' online even those that fight their mothers...smh Holywizard dear, I think your mum is being over protective of you which she doesn't know she is doing and you are also misunderstanding that. Both of you misunderstand eachother. I say this because you said you got a job in PH but she wouldn't let you go. Maybe she doesn't want you to stay with a friend she can't trust. To avoid this hate ,please leave the house,go stay with any of your siblings while you wait for your service ok. Sometimes when people scold me on certain issues,I try to see the good side of it by saying 'oh! they care but simply don't know they do'. Find another job,don't worry about the one you missed. Someday,both of you will remember this little drama and laugh it off. Mum will apologize to you i.e. if all you said is truly how it's happening. And, hey! Don't worry about the online insults..lots of fake ass and wannabes on the Internet. iPrevail: Some people are just dumb, maybe for the fun of it.. Y'all calling him lazy and ineffectual didn't read where he said he wanted to go off to PH and start a job?
To you Op, you'll accomplish nothing through hate.. pata pata Na you e go kill. Just chill okay? look for other jobs around your area or nearest locality. learn a skill or som'in.
However, follow your guts if you must! If you have a reliable friend you can crash with while trying to get a job.. cool, do it.
No look anybody face o.. This life na only you waka come. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Samlizy(m): 12:59pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
[quote author=Acidosis post=46517080]So none of your elder siblings is ready to accommodate you?
They left the same house to their present locations, and want you to stay back home?
Grow up bro.that means its time for you to take a step forward bro |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by TheArchangel(f): 1:53pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
saintandsinnerz:
You're always harsh in your comments! What kind of person are you? You keep calling people ineffectual buffon in every thread, is that how you're brought up? Change your ways girl because you may take this bad attitude to a man's house and he may not tolerate it Get the fuc out of my mentions. Men are now gods that should be worshipped. Being in a man's house is how you equate successful women.? Caveman. Nigerian sorry excuse of men are tolerated here not the other way round. Man house my left black ass. So standing on the existing protocol, i have to repeat the Ineffectual Buffon name on you. Deal with it. Ignore if you can. Having one of my bad days. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard: I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth. Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell. I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail. She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.
Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.
Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.
When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.
My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them. But why the emphasis on your mother? What happened to your father? |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Scorpiow(m): 6:24pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Charity begins at home. The same energy it'll take you to love is the same you'll need to hate. Start doing somethings for yourself and try to assist your mum in other areas. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Ademat7(m): 8:22pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
@holywizard hope u now get my point about assistance from @shitshappen pls learn to detect opportunity he don't spell it out but I saw d handwriting on the wall. some people still show mercy in this wicked world. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by spargs(m): 11:12pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Daddy's little girl |