After dating black girls for a while and not having any luck with them due to their needy and high maintenance behavior i decided to start dating girls from a different race(whites). After 2months of dating, i could see the difference. These girls were independent in the sense that they pay for their food, cinema fee, phone bills etc .

One day my mate got his white girlfriend pregnant. Now, when their baby was born there was total chaos. Because his white girl was not religious, she refused to have circumcision for the male child. Also she wanted the boy to have the last name of her parents. Although i love my girl and willing to stay with her till God chooses, i feel uncomfortable with my child sharing a different belief and culture with myself. Nairalanders, whats your take on this. would you walk away from such a relationship or would you stay?

stay with black girls!



here comes another thing wasted!

Guy it is better u take our black ladies that has the same religious belief and understanding wit u than following a white lady that can divorce u any time.THINK WELL BEFORE U ACT.

it will be another generation wasted with more culture flushed down the toilet.
leave that oyinbo and seek another black/african/nigerian woman
KAPISH?

Is this about u or ur mate?!


Anyways, let her know that religion aside, it will be wise to circumcise the baby. And regarding the child's last name, if your name is on the birth certificate as the father of the baby then I think, automatically, the baby's last name should be ur last name. The chick is selfish. How about u guys use the girl's last name but then hypen it, and include urs.

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you dont seem too coherent

sorry to confuse you guys. My mate and i both date white girls who happen to be friends and he got his white girlfriend pregnant only for the occurence mentioned above to happen. I on the other hand am looking at what he is going through and begining to panic since i do want to see my own relationship with me girl go far, hope i cleared all the confusion. Anyway thanks for the advice.

what you better not. for me, my insanity for love, haven't reach that far. same race dating is better. you better stay away from that relationship.

A U CRAZY WHY ON EARTH WOULD I DO SUCH I KNOW LOVE IS BLIND BUT NOT THAT BLIND.

its a difficult situation but i gues there are still black good girls that are independent though very hard to find,have you tried letting her see reasons.walking away isn't always the best solution but if she doesn't see reason,kindly walk away.

Another brother in jeopardy as a result of our womenfolk, well,all the posts on this topic seem to be on point. Dialogue is the key before the plunge,make her understand how things are down from where you hail. Good luck.