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Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by fairygeh(f): 7:09am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Haba,your wife spends 75k monthly for her own upkeep? What is she upkeeping? Buying clothes ,phones,jewelries up and down i guess.without contributing any quota to the family and she still expects you to give her more. Oluwa,alanu oooo It's not even the issue of she saving half of her salary that matters if she were using the other half to also support the home in her own way and not just for her own selfish upkeep. Do you know that in some homes, both the husband and wife's income are not up to that 75 k that ur wife uses for her own "upkeep" and they survive? You seem like a cool headed person and it's just normal that u wish to give her monthly stipends, but since you say u provide for food and she provides basically nothing for the house, even the 20 k she will use it to buy make up and not for any tangible thing,abeg reduce it to 5k abeg or nothing at all. Haba,some women can be more than selfish. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by yemmie(m): 7:10am On Jun 20, 2016 |
I am sorry to say ' She is not your wife '. Don't take this action of hers for granted. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by uboy73: 7:13am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Are u here to cause bp for people, how can u say ur wife uses 75k for herself and u still want to add 20k ..pls ask her what she is doing with d money |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by dollarnaira: 7:15am On Jun 20, 2016 |
No love again bro only few women are not selfish.U r on ur own.I hate women of dis type. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by dollarnaira: 7:16am On Jun 20, 2016 |
No love again bro only few women are not selfish.U r on ur own.I hate women of dis type.What will happen if u lose ur job?Will she care? |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by carpenter(m): 7:17am On Jun 20, 2016 |
fairygeh: Pardon my ignorance but I think what a woman makes and what she does with it is her business. However, with great and understanding women, you will see them usually put some of that money to use in the house. I believe a man is totally responsible for household expenses but it gladdens the heart to see a woman trying to offer some form support. Again, I am very African in my thinking... |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by IRserveMyComent(f): 7:22am On Jun 20, 2016 |
[quote author=banjolek post=46655977]Hello guys, I need your honest opinion on this, how much is really ideal to give one's wife as monthly pocket money?. Here's my story, i recently got married and also moved to a new 3 bedroom apartment around gbagada. .[/quote You recently got married and you are already seeking a third party opinion. My dear if you want to get to know your wife better, build a happy home and maintain your sanity this should be the last day you would post a family matter of this nature in any online forum. Because the opinions you would get here might not be healthy for a happy home. Some will even tell you to withdraw d 20k. My dear every family is unique in their way no two families are the same. Some will say she is greedy some that you are stingy. Maintain your sanity, do not post your family financial affair here. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by dollarnaira: 7:25am On Jun 20, 2016 |
uboy73: Guy women like des are future killers.They are evil. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by VaginaTerrorist(m): 7:28am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Azinganga:True Talk! |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 7:31am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Winneygirl: Even if he earns up to 400k, what does she need all that money for? The op is his own biggest problem. He doesn't need the wife's approval to save in this era. If something goes wrong and he goes broke,she will torment his life. A word is enough for the op. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 7:40am On Jun 20, 2016 |
[quote author=IRserveMyComent post=46738296][/quote] What rubbish!!! It is good that he posted it here for people to advice him. So you want him to keep on wasting money? |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by Onegai(f): 7:40am On Jun 20, 2016 |
ojuolu: I'm a she |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by j1balba: 7:40am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Just try to find a way to understand how to live with her because u are married, but she should learn to know that you are a King if it true u do all you said. I know a friend whose husband don't cetera for and she is not working and is still married to him. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 7:43am On Jun 20, 2016 |
so many beautiful comments already dt i felt they've said it all .Bro if she wasnt working culd av fought u physically,20k small but in these ,,no children n she is working..all she want to do is make sure u dnnt av enuf money to throw around to families,,friends n side chick if @all u hav..lolz.women wil neva dispute man is d head of d house but in there advice.,body language,,gesture they really wana b in charge.she is only contesting but start bin in charge because dt wats gona make u remain a man in ur home ...wen u r in charge she might say or act u dnnt luv me but trust me she luv u die inside ...share ur w.i.p plans wit her more,,dt wil make her feel more closer n carried along ...they wil alway try 2 break us(lolz) wen u knw culd fun ..lets luv them |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by bigiyaro(m): 7:47am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Am giving her Notin, she can go he'll. She is supposed to be helping u, not sucking u dry, she's even working for that matter. Expect bigger problems wen the rent and school fees tins start coming, by the way don't expect her to change. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 7:48am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Evacroft: Why are some of you so unreasonable? His salary has nothing to do with her spending more than necessary in this era. So if he earns 700k,she should spend 300k on frivolities? |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by OAUTemitayo: 7:53am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Onegai:OP please don't heed this advice o. Joint account ko, single account ni 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 7:56am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Laclasse: Insulting the wife? You have a big problem. I figured out that frivolities freak you too. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 7:58am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Project400: She will simply show her true color and start to torment him. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 8:15am On Jun 20, 2016 |
PresVA: So what if he gives his parents and siblings more than 100k? Does she need to spend more than 75k + 20k on frivolities? |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 8:19am On Jun 20, 2016 |
banjolek: Thank you for this reply. It was the same I gave her. Was she there when your parents paid your school fees and co. Op,please sieve some advice from lots of junks. Some of the girls here are unreasonable. Na their way. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 8:30am On Jun 20, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Don't mind presVa... .some of these unreasonable women think that we shouldn't take care of our parents because we got married to them. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by Tshaphilo: 8:36am On Jun 20, 2016 |
banjolek:Is she from a broken home? She is behaving like a "milker", She should be thinking of how that house could be furnished not saving half if hers, gets feeding allowance n still collect maintenance allowance. you know what becoz she knows how much u collect she does not want u to share with your own family members. BE WISE |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by ehijes: 8:38am On Jun 20, 2016 |
There is no such money as ideal. it depends on ur earnin and wat u wish to achieve in life. my hubby gives me 15k as feedin money not even up kip i ve 2 kids I earn 25k my hubby earns 120k but he has lands in different part of d country n building we just moved to abuja n he just acquired a land. I think u beta start thinkin to invest. n secure d future of ur kids. Sacrifice now n enjoy later. Its not easy but its worth it. Ve a budget every month n work strictly wrt it. Learn how to save. if u want to help family ve a budget u want to give each months n once u've reached dat budget any other need must wait till d next month. for ur wife u need to sit her down n talk some sense into her cos her bank work is not even secure she need to invest all she has. thanks. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by slap1(m): 8:49am On Jun 20, 2016 |
I don't see true love here. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 8:58am On Jun 20, 2016 |
YOUR WIFE IS A VERY GREEDY WOMAN AND I DON'T THINK SHE MARRIED YOU BECAUSE OF LOVE. I HAVE A FRIEND THAT WORKS IN THE SAME COMPANY WITH THE WIFE,THE WIFE'S MONTHLY SALARY IS USED TO RUN THE HOME WHILE THE MAN'S IS USED FOR INVESTMENT. THIS COUPLE REALLY PLAN THEMSELVES VERY WELL,THEY HAVE ABOUT 5 DIFFERENT RENTAL APARTMENTS AND LOTS OF BUSINESSES THAT GENERATES INCOME.LIFE DOESN'T JUST REVOLVE AROUND YOUR WIFE.PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE WITH THE LITTLE YOU HAVE NOW IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ISSUE IN MARRIAGE BECAUSE MAY NOT BE AS ROSSY AS TODAY. YOU BETTER SIT HER DOWN AND TALK SENSE INTO HER MIND SO AS TO RE MODIFY HER MINDSET.A HAPPY HOME IS ALL ABOUT CONTINOUS CASHFLOW IN THE HOME,WHEN IT STOPS FLOWING,YOU'LL KNOW WHAT WOMEN ARE MADE OF. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by iykedare(m): 9:02am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Bluffly: Some people can't read. No wonder they go on to answer exam questions without reading instructions. My fear is that this guy will be in deep sh1t if the money stops coming. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by claremont(m): 9:05am On Jun 20, 2016 |
I was hoping to read the replies of the so-called feminist movement on this thread, but it seems they have avoided this thread like a plague. We all know why. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by chccho(m): 9:06am On Jun 20, 2016 |
banjolek:U are not just baffled about the fact that she has rejected the 20k/month, u are more baffled that she is being unreasonable, selfish, and greedy (sorry but d truth is bitter) that woman needs to be handled with wisdom. If i were u i wont even give her the 20k again. Rather we will now have to open a joint account and contribute into that account monthly.. My advice to u is that u shouldnt allow her dictate 2u but rather u have to take the bull by the horn..isnt it responsible enough that u are taking care of all the bills? Pls dont spoil her,or satisfy her selfish desires cos thats what she wants but rather do what is best for your family |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by waper(m): 9:21am On Jun 20, 2016 |
, joint account U try Onegai: |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by 4rmthewest(m): 9:24am On Jun 20, 2016 |
I'm nt yet married...wen I get to dat bridge I will cross it mehn. |
Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by Emaprince: 9:33am On Jun 20, 2016 |
When I saw 'monthly stipennd'.. I thought she is a house wife. SMH What a greedy woman. She doesn't help in anything finacially, and she still needs monthly stipend despite working and earning 150k monthly. Is this how Nigerian women will achieve GENDER EQUALITY? This is the type of woman that will build houses somewhere while living in a hubbby's rented apartment and the man will never know. What do women gain from this mentallity sef? When you dies, all the money you saved and never help your hubby out with will still end up with somebody else. SMH |
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