tearoses:
I lost someone I know through C/S.
All operations have a degree of risk regardless of where it is carried out
Even the best surgeons can loose patients due to one reason or another

I've had a C/S and a natural birth
I recovered much quicker after the natural birth and went home the next day after the birth
I was able to bond with my baby quicker and was able to get into a routine quicker.

With the C/S I was in hospital for 5 days
I was in much pain after the C/S and to just even cough was excruciatingly painful
After experiencing both, I will never choose a C/S over a natural birth unless it was life threatening, which it was in my case.

Sex after a vaginal birth? No change
Give mother nature her credit
The vaggy is not like a cheap thin hair band that just breaks due to stretching

If you want my advise, I will say only put yourself at risk if 100% required
or at the very least read up and inform yourself on the complications of surgery
If God forbid you have adhesions, you could be in pain for the rest of your life.....People do.
I Am lucky and the only lasting effect was not feeling any sensation along the line of incision for about 3 years and that was even being cut by one of the best surgeons in the business as I was told.
So I hate to think what other lasting effects other ladies with less experienced surgeons go through.

Matured & sensible response

4nobody4every1:
Matured & sensible response

tearoses:


Thank you
Happy Sunday

Same to you, l enjoy reading your matured advises on this section

stylesco:
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.


My question is does it really change down there after child birth?

tearoses:
I lost someone I know through C/S.
All operations have a degree of risk regardless of where it is carried out
Even the best surgeons can loose patients due to one reason or another

I've had a C/S and a natural birth
I recovered much quicker after the natural birth and went home the next day after the birth
I was able to bond with my baby quicker and was able to get into a routine quicker.

With the C/S I was in hospital for 5 days
I was in much pain after the C/S and to just even cough was excruciatingly painful
After experiencing both, I will never choose a C/S over a natural birth unless it was life threatening, which it was in my case.

Sex after a vaginal birth? No change
Give mother nature her credit
The vaggy is not like a cheap thin hair band that just breaks due to stretching

If you want my advise, I will say only put yourself at risk if 100% required
or at the very least read up and inform yourself on the complications of surgery
If God forbid you have adhesions, you could be in pain for the rest of your life.....People do.
I Am lucky and the only lasting effect was not feeling any sensation along the line of incision for about 3 years and that was even being cut by one of the best surgeons in the business as I was told.
So I hate to think what other lasting effects other ladies with less experienced surgeons go through.

nnamdibig:
God, this tread is already painful to read. Women they suffer oooo
all these for child birth. and the duty of a man is to just climb on top and pour akamu inside, then the woman carries another human for 9 months then delivers either naturally or through CS(both very painful). then another round of painful experience to tighten down there again to satisfy a man. And you hear some men say, I beat her because she provoked me...hmmmmmm.
shout out to all mothers and intending mothers abeg.

Happy Sunday,

At bolded, INDEED!

Cherlene

stylesco:



Thank you.
People find every reason to say horrible things to people they don't even know.

I'm having the baby in the us and he feels it's safer too.

Isn't it easier to talk about the issue instead of insulting/judging someone's personality.

stylesco:


I'll prefer you shut your dirty mouth.
Didn't they teach you respect at home?

PresVA:
Lol.. sorry if my comment hurt you ok?

Remember not to nurse your baby so that your breast 'remains firm for life'....remember to also undergo another surgery if you don't get your flat tommy back after CS... wish you the very best


Ok, on a serious note. .I find your reason for going under the knife absurd because you can get your VG 'back to shape' after delivery. ..
However, it's your life... again, i wish you the best

Jamean:


Go Presva, Go Presva!
Breast lift, liposuction and all that is required. Surgery upon surgery and you continue to alter your body why le husband is still intact.

Happy Sunday o!

Jamean:


Really!

Weytin we no go hear. I don't think you've been around someone that had CS. The pain is terrible, you can't bend, can't sit upright, can't just eat anything, can't massage the stomach and even taking bath is worse because of the stitches.

Please don't come and mislead people o. For natural birth once baby is out the pain is greatly reduced, except you had a tear that was stitched.

I mean serious prayers that one shouldn't sneeze or cough, cos if you sneeze ehn especially if its those violent ones, omo the pain will be as if the stitches will open.. To now want to poop nkor, if the poop is hard, hmmmm, thats some terrible experience.. You cant turn to Sleep on your sides, you cant walk totally upright? The pains associated with cs is much ooo. I wonder why anyone would opt for it to maintain a tight puzzay..Anyway different strokes for different folks...

Mopricelezz:


I mean serious prayers that one shouldn't sneeze or cough, cos if you sneeze ehn especially if its those violent ones, omo the pain will be as if the stitches will open.. To now want to poop nkor, if the poop is hard, hmmmm, thats some terrible experience.. You cant turn to Sleep on your sides, you cant walk totally upright? The pains associated with cs is much ooo. I wonder why anyone would opt for it to maintain a tight puzzay..Anyway different strokes for different folks...

stylesco:



Thank you.
People find every reason to say horrible things to people they don't even know.

I'm having the baby in the us and he feels it's safer too.

Isn't it easier to talk about the issue instead of insulting/judging someone's personality.

Mopricelezz:


I mean serious prayers that one shouldn't sneeze or cough, cos if you sneeze ehn especially if its those violent ones, omo the pain will be as if the stitches will open.. To now want to poop nkor, if the poop is hard, hmmmm, thats some terrible experience.. You cant turn to Sleep on your sides, you cant walk totally upright? The pains associated with cs is much ooo. I wonder why anyone would opt for it to maintain a tight puzzay..Anyway different strokes for different folks...

rolled:
Lowest level of self esteem
Because of a man you go under a knife?
Someone that will still cheat on you
Don't you love yourself?na wa oh

fem29:


Hmm I don't understand. I had cs and I didn't have this much pain. I was going up and down London on the 3rd day. I was given pain meds and I only felt a little bit of pain. Although the pain meds made me VERY constipated

fem29:


Hmm I don't understand. I had cs and I didn't have this much pain. I was going up and down London on the 3rd day. I was given pain meds and I only felt a little bit of pain. Although the pain meds made me VERY constipated

TamedWolf90:
Abeg Ishii, you no wan talk to me but your shares are popping up on my handle...






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