Keeping a relationship or even a marriage isn't an easy job. A lot of people think it's all about sex but also remember the friendship is the major factor people remain together after emotions have brought them together. Gone are those days when a man will chase you, pet you so you don't leave and still find ways to keep you interested daily. You must understand that as a man needs a woman so does she need him too. Apart from the regular respect him, feed him and satisfy him in bed, here are a few things that cols also help you keep your relationship with the opposite sex glowing like the 1st day.

1. Watch football....
It is no longer news that guys love football though not all of them but a large majority do. There is only a fraction of females who can understand what guys love about football but trust me one way to cement your relationship more whether while dating or in marriage is to take interest in some of the things your partner love. If you can enjoy football just for him, be able to talk about it with him, you would find out you give your relationship a better chance of striving. As the fact you have gone out of your way to pick interest in his like would help him see you in a different light.

2. Take him on dates...
The general mentality is, it's the guy who has to initiate everything. Gone are those days.... It is equally important for a woman to do things to spice up her relationship instead of always pushing it to the man. Taking your boo on a date is a fantastic thing to do. Sharing a meal, seeing a movie together, visiting beautiful sites and cracking jokes is also a great way to cement a relationship.

3. Be his own stylist....
A lot of ladies complain about his looks, his style or the way he combines colour. But instead why not help him dress up in the morning. Rather than sit condemning how he is so out of date with the fashion trend you could help with his wardrobe. So when he steps out looking all fly, for every compliment he gets, he can always smile and silently say babe, thank you and I love her

4. Play games...
After watching football I think ps /video game is a guy's best friend. When you can match him on a game my dear it'll never be boring. Just know how not to make it too much of a competition but a game. Don't take all the fun in it by always playing to win and proving you are better. Even if you are better than him at it, you can always allow him win you to boost his ego.

Sister, I've done all these stuffs but still didnt work. He left me with a breakup letter.

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, I've done all these stuffs but still didnt work. He left me with a breakup letter.

pelle sis.

Boring:


pelle sis.

That's a true story boo.

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, I've done all these stuffs but still didnt work. He left me with a breakup letter.

He doesn't deserve you .. I'm sure

ForeverYoung197:



That's a true story boo.

*run check dp*
boo of life..so how the story come end nau

If i can get a lady with the brain of the OP, i will never regret any day of my life.

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, I've done all these stuffs but still didnt work. He left me with a breakup letter.

na Wa o breakup letter. That guy bad gan o

Boring:


*run check dp*
boo of life..so how the story come end nau

Whats wrong with my DP? if you look beyond on the picture, It only shows that anyone can do multitasking

Oteebaba:
na Wa o breakup letter. That guy bad gan o

Yes. He's gone and the only thing he left me was that break up letter.

ForeverYoung197:



Whats wrong with my DP? if you look beyond on the picture, It only shows that anyone can do multitasking

nah..that ain't multitasking o, facebooking is not working..more like a lazy mother..are u the one

Boring:


nah..that ain't multitasking o, facebooking is not working..more like a lazy mother..are u the one

How you it was fb?

ForeverYoung197:




How you it was fb?

i had a vision boo, i even know wat u wearing now

Boring:


i had a vision boo, i even know wat u wearing now

You do? OK, tell me

Mzflexydeeva:
Keeping a relationship or even a marriage isn't an easy job. A lot of people think it's all about sex but also remember the friendship is the major factor people remain together after emotions have brought them together. Gone are those days when a man will chase you, pet you so you don't leave and still find ways to keep you interested daily. You must understand that as a man needs a woman so does she need him too. Apart from the regular respect him, feed him and satisfy him in bed, here are a few things that cols also help you keep your relationship with the opposite sex glowing like the 1st day.

1. Watch football....
It is no longer news that guys love football though not all of them but a large majority do. There is only a fraction of females who can understand what guys love about football but trust me one way to cement your relationship more whether while dating or in marriage is to take interest in some of the things your partner love. If you can enjoy football just for him, be able to talk about it with him, you would find out you give your relationship a better chance of striving. As the fact you have gone out of your way to pick interest in his like would help him see you in a different light.

I dont quite agree with this point. You musn't lose yourself for the sake of any relationship. If you are not into watching football, I see no reason why you have to. Surely, there are other interesting things the both of you like that y'all can do together without you having to pretend that you enjoy it. No man will sit down and watch telemundo or zee world with his wife or girlfriend in order to cement the relationship even if she insists on it.

And if you find that your relationship isn't 'striving' because you're not watching football with him, then I'm sure you know what to do.

Why are things no longer funny to me??.....

Or maybe cus our queen no fine

ForeverYoung197:




You do? OK, tell me

ah you want make NL guys go loco, we have under age peeps here..

Am not a bricklayer

BiafraBushBoy:
Why are things no longer funny to me??.....

Or maybe cus our queen no fine

No it's because you can't handle defeat

Diddyydiva:
No it's because you can't handle defeat

If i can handle Buhari's defeat, I can handle any....

But our queen no fine na ... I for even vote you

BiafraBushBoy:


If i can handle Buhari's defeat, I can handle any....

But our queen no fine na ... I for even vote you

She is beautiful. It depends on your definition of beauty though.


But she got it all

Boring:


ah you want make NL guys go loco, we have under age peeps here..

Don't mind them they're for that anyway...

ForeverYoung197:



Don't mind them they're for that anyway...

coded girl...we go see for bush later

Diddyydiva:
She is beautiful. It depends on your definition of beauty though.


But she got it all

Hold all those preaching

... beauty get definition ...

Beauty is beauty... No defenition

Mzflexydeeva:
Keeping a relationship or even a marriage isn't an easy job. A lot of people think it's all about sex but also remember the friendship is the major factor people remain together after emotions have brought them together. Gone are those days when a man will chase you, pet you so you don't leave and still find ways to keep you interested daily. You must understand that as a man needs a woman so does she need him too. Apart from the regular respect him, feed him and satisfy him in bed, here are a few things that cols also help you keep your relationship with the opposite sex glowing like the 1st day.

1. Watch football....
It is no longer news that guys love football though not all of them but a large majority do. There is only a fraction of females who can understand what guys love about football but trust me one way to cement your relationship more whether while dating or in marriage is to take interest in some of the things your partner love. If you can enjoy football just for him, be able to talk about it with him, you would find out you give your relationship a better chance of striving. As the fact you have gone out of your way to pick interest in his like would help him see you in a different light.

2. Take him on dates...
The general mentality is, it's the guy who has to initiate everything. Gone are those days.... It is equally important for a woman to do things to spice up her relationship instead of always pushing it to the man. Taking your boo on a date is a fantastic thing to do. Sharing a meal, seeing a movie together, visiting beautiful sites and cracking jokes is also a great way to cement a relationship.

3. Be his own stylist....
A lot of ladies complain about his looks, his style or the way he combines colour. But instead why not help him dress up in the morning. Rather than sit condemning how he is so out of date with the fashion trend you could help with his wardrobe. So when he steps out looking all fly, for every compliment he gets, he can always smile and silently say babe, thank you and I love her

4. Play games...
After watching football I think ps /video game is a guy's best friend. When you can match him on a game my dear it'll never be boring. Just know how not to make it too much of a competition but a game. Don't take all the fun in it by always playing to win and proving you are better. Even if you are better than him at it, you can always allow him win you to boost his ego.

you seem to know quite a lot about the dating sphere. You would make an ideal date,

Favolly:

I dont quite agree with this point. You musn't lose yourself for the sake of any relationship. If you are not into watching football, I see no reason why you have to. Surely, there are other interesting things the both of you like that y'all can do together without you having to pretend that you enjoy it. No man will sit down and watch telemundo or zee world with his wife or girlfriend in order to cement the relationship even if she insists on it.

And if you find that your relationship isn't 'striving' because you're not watching football with him, then I'm sure you know what to do.

hmmmmmm! Interesting.. additional was the key ⚿ it's not about loosing urself but about sacrifice. If all you haad to do to say a relationship was jut watch a game would that be too much? And then again don't say no guy would watch telemundo or zee wrld cos if we had to open a thread for guys who watch just cos their gfs or wife like it you'l be surprise

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, I've done all these stuffs but still didnt work. He left me with a breakup letter.

you you you everytime.. I can bet it, two years from now, you'll check nairaland and hate yourself for always commenting about your bad break up. Get over it.

NevetsIbot:
you you you everytime.. I can bet it, two years from now, you'll check nairaland and hate yourself for always commenting about your bad break up. Get over it.

Lol. Memories live forever isnt it?

ForeverYoung197:



Lol. Memories live forever isnt it?

until you hit your head and have amnesia.

D OP head legit...1 plate of fresh fish for her

That personal stylist idea no go work for so many reasons

But the date idea ehn, I don dey relish am pass as I dey relish taking pounded yam and egusi soup with lots of meat for iftar today

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, I've done all these stuffs but still didnt work. He left me with a breakup letter.

So u min u watched ball wt him,took him on dates,were his stylist,played games wt him and he stl left u a breakup letter? I tink i wuld luv to hear dat guy's own version of ds story