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5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by baddman200: 8:41am On Jun 29, 2016
I know you shouldn’t have to keep your man from cheating. But preventative medicine never hurt anybody. I always say that to some degree men are just as faithful as their options. If you leave a man with fewer options, he is less likely to cheat on you.

1. Give him some good love – If a man knows he can get it better at home he won’t be so anxious to find it somewhere else. Obviously this is a two way street and you should expect him to give you good love too. When I say love I don’t mean S3x only. I mean treating each other with care.

2. Know his friends – No man in a relationship really has any business out on his own. If he goes anywhere, he’s rolling with his friends. If his friends know that you are the business, they will make sure he doesn’t make any mistakes.

Watch out for the ex-girlfriends. Hooking up with an ex doesn’t feel like cheating to a lot of guys especially if they have children together and your relationship with that person is new. You probably won’t win over the ex-girlfriend like you can with the friends, but you can talk to your man and find out his feelings on her.

3. Let Him Know The Consequences – Please Don’t say: “You better not cheat on me or I will burn your momma’s house down, blow you up on Twitter and slash your tires!”

Do say: “Just to let you know, I’d be really hurt if I found out that you cheated on me and I’d never be able to commit to repairing what we have together if that happened.” (WARNING: Only bring this up in a conversation about cheating please don’t come to your man with this out of the blue)

4. Let Him Know He’s Special – Cheating isn’t always about S3x for men, it’s mostly about ego. That’s why good looking guys with good looking girlfriends cheat on them with ugly women. Even the smallest and most insignificant ego boost is satisfying for us. So stroke his ego when you can, and expect some stroking in return.

5. Take Interest – Take interest in your man’s life. Find out what he’s doing when he’s not around you and follow up after he does whatever he’s doing. This is in no way about snooping, it’s really about getting more involved in his life and getting in a rhythm of sharing. The conversation should go something like this:

You: What are you and your boys doing tonight?”

Him: We’re going to watch the game.

You: oh really, I will be watching the Lifetime channel all night. I can’t wait.

-Next day-

You: Hey did you have fun watching the game?

Him: Yes

You: Great!

At the end of the day a cheater is going to cheat, but if you take these steps you will probably find out faster than not.

Source http://360urban.net.ng/2016/06/29/5-ways-to-stop-your-man-from-cheating/

Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by Dezolo(f): 8:47am On Jun 29, 2016
My dear, if you like.. Buy kingkong for him.. Men will always cheat.. It's in their blood.

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Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by foolinlove(f): 8:49am On Jun 29, 2016
Don't make me get sick into my own scorn.

Some women who do all these things still get cheated on.

It has nothing to do with womens actions and everything to do with how much a man respects himself and his partner.

If you respect yourself and your partner, you'll set your partner free before you jump into bed with someone else.

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Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by SpeedyConnect(m): 8:57am On Jun 29, 2016
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Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by TemihSmart(f): 8:57am On Jun 29, 2016
Bullshit,men will still cheat if they want to,even if u put them in a cage and padlock it. All we have to do is to also jaye jare,not all of them worth the stress of "give him love","bath for him" of a thing. Nonsense
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by PunkyV(f): 9:01am On Jun 29, 2016
Ugh! They'll still cheat. They only realize how good they had it after they've lost it. And by then it's a little too late because no woman wants to be taken for granted. Or they'll try to hold on to you but still cheat behind your back. I've experienced both scenarios because I'm Punky bin Laden, I carry love bombs grin
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by gentleman1109(m): 9:04am On Jun 29, 2016
Not everyone,it depends on ur approach nd mindset
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by Nobody: 10:05am On Jun 29, 2016
foolinlove:
Don't make me get sick into my own scorn.

Some women who do all these things still get cheated on.

It has nothing to do with womens actions and everything to do with how much a man respects himself and his partner.

If you respect yourself and your partner, you'll set your partner free before you jump into bed with someone else.
Uv said it all....

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Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by Blackfire(m): 11:19am On Jun 29, 2016
foolinlove:
Don't make me get sick into my own scorn.

Some women who do all these things still get cheated on.

It has nothing to do with womens actions and everything to do with how much a man respects himself and his partner.

If you respect yourself and your partner, you'll set your partner free before you jump into bed with someone else.



90 percent true.. That is why i tell everyone to learn self control , be principled.

If u are a person who is not independent minded + maturity u will jump from one chic to another (complicating your life in the future).

S-ex is overrated.

Personally to me if i am dating anyone and all she can bring to the table of our relationship is b**bs, as-s, s-ex, fu-ck, nu-de... Hell no.

*not to brag* atleast in a day 2-3 ladies make passes at me, and i never allow that to enter my head or make me puff up,because i remember what my grandma once told me

Unfortunately se-x, that is all some chewing -gum-tooth -pick girls can offer.
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by halfricanadian(f): 11:59am On Jun 29, 2016
Wen I have a real bf i will consider all this
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by onstelly(f): 12:11pm On Jun 29, 2016
They must still cheat, all these you listed above are good points no doubt but a cheat will always be a cheat
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by halfricanadian(f): 12:12pm On Jun 29, 2016
foolinlove:
Don't make me get sick into my own scorn.

Some women who do all these things still get cheated on.

It has nothing to do with womens actions and everything to do with how much a man respects himself and his partner.

If you respect yourself and your partner, you'll set your partner free before you jump into bed with someone else.

Spot on

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Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by halfricanadian(f): 12:13pm On Jun 29, 2016
TemihSmart:
Bullshit,men will still cheat if they want to,even if u put them in a cage and padlock it. All we have to do is to also jaye jare,not all of them worth the stress of "give him love","bath for him" of a thing. Nonsense

Yup nt everyone of them worth the stress
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by Jonesnicole: 1:08pm On Jun 22, 2018
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Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by Blackfire(m): 2:02pm On Jun 22, 2018
The op tried,cheating is a choice
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by ekanempatrick28(m): 2:31pm On Jun 22, 2018
halfricanadian:


Spot on
excuse u. No matter how much i respect my partner is she doesnt treat me well i will definitely leave for someone that will show me goodloving. So u know relationships is a two way thing. Even the op state u shd give him good loving and also he shd treat u d same way. So its not not just abt d man character but also d woman action. Find out from some men u will see dere wife gives dem problems at home. So pls its both parties here stop being biased
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by ekanempatrick28(m): 2:35pm On Jun 22, 2018
PunkyV:
Ugh! They'll still cheat. They only realize how good they had it after they've lost it. And by then it's a little too late because no woman wants to be taken for granted. Or they'll try to hold on to you but still cheat behind your back. I've experienced both scenarios because I'm Punky bin Laden, I carry love bombs grin
u know judging all of us as cheats is ss equivalent as saying dat all women are whores and we know dats not true. Aint everyone dat is bad most bit not all. If u thinking like dis for all of us den i guess u planning on not treating ur hubby right cos d op is just saying treat ur man gud and it will reduce or stop any chance of cheating
Re: 5 Ways To Stop Your Man From Cheating by agbonkamen(f): 3:43pm On Jun 22, 2018
afonjas would still cheat it runs in their DNA grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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