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Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
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Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by BoboFashion(m): 12:25pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
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Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by schumastic(m): 12:27pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
MrDojo: some stories are really sick to hear, he has known her for three years and all this while he does not know that she has a son for her ex..some ladies are really good in the game of deceit, after God fear woman...(Proverbs 31:1-3)A queen mother appealed to her son King Lemuel as only a mother can do and warned him against a great threat to his life and reign – evil women ...he should call it off, if she can hide such from him then certainly she can kill, also he should not marry out of pity or he else will regret it. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
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Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by schumastic(m): 12:33pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Nemeka: chia Nnemeka |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 12:42pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove:Killing an innocent unborn baby is no body's right.If ur mom had aborted u,u wouldn't ve been online saying crap. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 12:44pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
schumastic:hahahahaha bro,DAT our guy is really funny. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by schumastic(m): 12:52pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: the only reason why i didn't say anything is cus a good friend of mine bears that name so i just felt weak to type n decided to leave an image instead..sincerely 7months haba, in this 21century ..i pray he doesn't come here and narrate his own ordeal cus ladies are not to be trusted |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by MrDojo(m): 1:01pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Chisos see scope of life...... I af pursue lala oooooo come and support us.. Berlyn: |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
This ur philosophy dey fear me foolinlove: |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 1:12pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
schumastic:The funny thing is that he said he knows everything about her,some women that can be as manuplative and deceptive as the devil himself.Hope he doesn't get his heart broken shaa. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 1:14pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Oma307:Don't mind her.If her mom had aborted her,she wouldn't have made such an outrageous statement. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by foolinlove(f): 1:25pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: Seriously? Most medical abortions in the world are carried out within he first 12 weeks of pregnancy. Within the first 12 weeks it isn't a baby, it's a clump of cells. A parasitic growth with the *potential* to become a baby. #science I believe the life of a woman - a life that has been established and lived - is more important amd valuabe than the life of a *potential* baby. I don't believe a woman should be forced to give birth against her will. I don't believe forcing someone into motherhood is right, it has negative effects for the mother and child - depression, neglect, poverty and so on. Abortion is also helpful to those who have medical complications and possibly die due to pregnancy, or when the foetus is known to be severely disabled or diseased (like having Tay-Sachs disease). I wasn't aborted, so moot point. You may be interested to know that a large number of pregnancies are spontaneously aborted anyway due to the internal processes of a woman's body. The woman doesn't even know she's pregnant - even though an egg has been fertilized, she has a very early miscarriage. If you don't like abortion, that's fine. Don't have one. But don't attempt to tell other people what to do with their bodies, especially women, because you have no idea what it's like to be a woman. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by SWITANN(f): 1:44pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
MrDojo: fine its an ugly mess but there is still a way out. the girl made a mistake by not telling her fiance, am sure its cos she didn't want to lose him. from your story the snitch I.e the girl's ex wants to break up your friend engagement. maybe he doesn't want his baby mama with another guy. its time for your friend to step up,yes he deserves to be mad,angry even get on d verge of breaking his engagement but.... is that all worth losing the girl he loves. he needs to sit and have a talk with his fiancée and the baby father about the child if he still wants to marry the girl. they need to discuss about the baby,the child can be living with your friend and his wife to be when they get married. they can make out a schedule when the baby father can come to visit his child or have the child over his house for the weekend. that way the baby still knows his father. the three of them just have to be in agreement,your friend should just take heart and of course do what his heart wants. if he still wants his woman,well he should just try and take my advice. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 2:07pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove:I agree with the point u made partaining to the fact that abortion can be carried out due to some medical complications.But apart from that I think a baby should be giving the opportunity to experience life in its fullness. And for ur information,I will continue to tell anyone that cares to listen that abortion is wrong.If u r not ready for a baby,then don't do things that might result to conceiving one. And pls,when does life start? |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by foolinlove(f): 2:14pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: So women aren't allowed to have sexual freedom? Women should be able to have sex when they want, and if their birth control fails, they have a right to abortion. I see you would rather ruin two lives than allow a woman to remove a clump of cells (like a tumor), all in the name of what? Please think deeply. IF YOU DON'T LIKE ABORTION, THEN DON'T HAVE ONE. There are many schools of thought on when life begins. Your sperm are alive - maybe you should stop spilling them all over the place, killing all those poor little potential babies. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:09pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove:Although to me u r talking crap,since ur selfish nature doesn't allow u to give a baby the opportunity to enjoy life just lyk u do. I still respect u for ur civil nature,u never resort to insult;though u rily know how to play the femal right bullshii and also dodge some important questions. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by djlaqua91(m): 3:19pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Op if you're friend is wise, he better dump her fast. I'm 100% sure after the wedding she will still go and sleep with her ex. Its what normally happens in this case. 3 years and she couldn't talk? God just saved him from her. He better go and give testimony of deliverance instead. NB: Never marry for love alone, its never enough. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by foolinlove(f): 3:21pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: Selfish nature? Fighting for somebody to have choices in how they lead their life is selfish? Okay then. I think it's selfish to force a person to have a baby if they dont want one. I think it's selfish to force children into the world if they are not wanted and if you have no means to support them adequately. I think it's selfish to force your ideals onto another person because it makes you more comfortable in your life. Abortion doesn't affect you at all. It really has no impact on yout life. As I said, if you don't like abortion, don't get one. Please tell me which important questions I have dodged. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:21pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
SWITANN:actually,I think God actually wants to save the guy from a deceptive and manuplative gal;because am sure d gal wouldn't have told the guy anytin about a child and 3 abortions till after marriage,becos she feels it would be late for the guy to do anything by then. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by SWITANN(f): 3:31pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: LOL not possibly true. I admit the girl must have been wayward as a result of those her three abortions but everyone deserves another chance. every human makes mistakes. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:32pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove:It concerns me because the statement u made earlier can make a lot of gullible people think there's nothing wrong with abortion.And all ur logic can never make abortion morally right,unless one done as result of medical complication. You can't even tell me when life starts,u dodged the question artfully. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:37pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
[quote author=SWITANN post=47105632] LOL not possibly true. I admit the girl must have been wayward as a result of those her three abortions but everyone deserves another chance. every human makes mistakes.[/qu dear I never said anything about the gal being wayward.My problem is DAT the gal never told the guy about d abortions and her child,and she be forming love,now tell me whether that is not d height of deception.and am sure she wouldn't ve told him till after marriage |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by foolinlove(f): 3:44pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: I don't know when life starts. Science hasn't been able to determine that, because of the subjectivities involved. How do you define life? I don't believe it starts at conception, because the foetus is merely a parasite until about 20 weeks when it can survive outside the womb (with a lot of medical assistance). However, I dont think there's anything wrong with abortion. I wouldn't have one, but I'm not gping rp stop others. It's not my business what they do. Someone else having an abortion doesn't affect me. It doesn't affect you. It offends your morals, but that's about it. I care about life. I care about the lives of the women who already exist and have been established. Rather than potential lives, whose fates we cannot possibly determine. If you're concerned about potential lives then you have to stop spilling your semen unless you want to have a child - every sper.m is a potential child. And you're killing them by shooting them into thin air and not a vagina. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by Sunkyphil(m): 4:04pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Na to cancel d wedding sharply who knows if she wud b able to give birth again 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by VaginaTerrorist(m): 4:30pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
No s€x relationship cant work anything.... Just push her alway. Dont entangle your self into trash. Life is too short to eat a silly left over. Kick the bithc out of your life she is not worth it@all! There are millions of girls out there with no one to take caree of them. And since he is confortable, no quams @all. Pick 2 3 or 4 of any kind of girls you need if she aint up to expectation. Spend on her to look great, 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by dobys(f): 4:38pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
ForeverYoung197: i swear shes not lucky shes blessed ehennn lmao |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 4:46pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove:hahahahaha,u never give up. Pls why are so u obsessed wit my semen?,hope u r not planning to make me ur baby papa. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by foolinlove(f): 4:48pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: Is that all you've got? I'm attempting to illustrate a point. It's obviously lost on you. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by ForeverYoung197(f): 4:49pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 5:10pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove:chill joor! Don't tell me u lack a sense of humour,don't be so uptight.Not gud for ur health. |
Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by foolinlove(f): 5:17pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
lodphil: The cry of a man with no argument. Have a happy Friday. |
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