wow!
I now wish I travelled.

how do u come to conclusion that your dad stiares at ur Bum-bum?
Have you caught him before? I mean red handed?

I

Obiageli1993:
Family was dysfunctional.

Mother, jealous of me and often did not want my progress. I caught my father looking at my bum a few times. I had a mental breakdown because of stresses in my life. Genral family problems e.g domestic violence. Family relationships deterioration to the point serious fights e.e.g. dad strangle me, police come etc.

They burnt all of my childhood photographs and I burnt most of their wedding pics only three remains. They threw me out but now my mum who has been battling with cancer is still unwell and misses me and wants me to come back and dad is 64 and I don't want him to bear the caring alone he also has arthritis and I have an autistic brother. I want to put the past behind and start a new life I am moving back home to take care of . my mother and be with my family I don't want Satan to break this family apart whether we like it or not we are family and it could be worse.
But I'm scared neighbours will judge me and I'm scared I'm making the wrong choice. I'm happy in my new rented room but II feel like I'm abandoning my mother. I'm her time of need. She originally told me to go but now wants me back I'm her only daughter and my brothers are not helpful.

Go back and take care of your mother, if you have the means of bringing her and she staying with you, that'll be better. All the best.

harrysterol:
The sighting of the moon was Inconclusive
-INEC

The sighting of the moon has been adjourned till tomorrow
-Abuja High Court

The sighting of the moon was not altered, a committee will be set-up to be headed by Sen. David Mark (Chairman Senate committee on Observation)
-Senate

The moon has already been sighted tomorrow
-Lai Mohammed

The anomally in the crescentic illumna of the moon in the atmospheric galaxy is tantamount to more crinkum crankum & hoola-baloo
-Patrick Obahiagbon

The APC was the cause of the moon not sighted in Nigeria
-Fayose

We will create another moon for Nigerians
-APC

Due to none sighting of the Moon, the Board of the Ulamas has been dissolved.
-Presidency

We blew up the moon and we will blow up more moons
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We are responsible for the absence of the moon in the sky
-Boko Haram

Those responsible for the missing moon will soon be apprehended and charged accordingly. We have evidence.
-EFCC

We dont want to sight the Moon
-Biafrans

We know where the moon is but we dont want to say.
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Happy holiday !!!

HOW DOES THIS HELP OP!!

Sorry to hear that.

Use this opportunity to ask your mum if your dad is your biological dad. Seems abnormal for a man of 64 under whom you grew up to be ogling your behind. They might have adopted you because they had no girl among their kids.

Do you dress provocatively around the house that the "looking" is actually done in disgust?

I don't think you should give up your rented place if you can. But still return home, even if partly.

Your mum is seriously ill, should the unexpected happen (May God heal her), you don't want to stay at home but return to your rented house.

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Chosen1984:
HOW DOES THIS HELP OP!!

it would help her laugh and forget her sorrows

Go home. Cancer isn't an easy illness to live and die with.Go home, God will bless you for remembering home especially with all that you have been through.

This one pass my power oo

Jst stay away from your father sha. Else bleeping go enta dis story

I don't really know the kind of mind you have got, but I will never suspect any of my family unless its done with evil intentions! Back home, my dad teases me most times about my butt and we all laugh over it. Even my elder bro gets as far as playfully spanking my butt sumtimes and I don't reason all that sh1it! There was even a day my bro spanked my butt in the presence of my mum and she was even the one playfully telling him to be careful since I wasn't wearing panties underneath and the gown I was wearing was loose fitted!

My dear, you don't know what its to lost a mum...people like my self will tell you much even though my Dad is still alive , but that vacuum; only a mother can fill it . So, go back and show your mama love and care b4 its too late ....her blessings will make you stand envious among your peers later in life ....put a smile unto her face now that u have the chance....cheers

This is trash

Family is wot u can't buy in d market. ..make peace b4 they die or u will never forgive urself...don't develop psychological problems. ..just let the hatred go...Make amend

afanide:
how do u come to conclusion that your dad stiares at ur Bum-bum?

Have you caught him before? I mean red handed?

She said it already. We ve seen men who bleep their daughters na

Go back home

Another olosho on the loose. At 22 you are already out of home with no education for sure. How have you been taking care of the rents?

Obiageli1993:
Family was dysfunctional.

Mother, jealous of me and often did not want my progress. I caught my father looking at my bum a few times. I had a mental breakdown because of stresses in my life. Genral family problems e.g domestic violence. Family relationships deterioration to the point serious fights e.e.g. dad strangle me, police come etc.

They burnt all of my childhood photographs and I burnt most of their wedding pics only three remains. They threw me out but now my mum who has been battling with cancer is still unwell and misses me and wants me to come back and dad is 64 and I don't want him to bear the caring alone he also has arthritis and I have an autistic brother. I want to put the past behind and start a new life I am moving back home to take care of . my mother and be with my family I don't want Satan to break this family apart whether we like it or not we are family and it could be worse.
But I'm scared neighbours will judge me and I'm scared I'm making the wrong choice. I'm happy in my new rented room but II feel like I'm abandoning my mother. I'm her time of need. She originally told me to go but now wants me back I'm her only daughter and my brothers are not helpful.

. At the beginning it was not so, the enemies are @ work. If only you will obey and do this... Any where you are, go back home and take your mother to..... Infact drop your phone number in my mail box ebhoze2003@yahoo.com. I want to make it confidential. Is there no balm in Gilead? Devil is fool.

Tufiakwa, wetin be dis

Obiageli1993:
Family was dysfunctional.

Mother, jealous of me and often did not want my progress. I caught my father looking at my bum a few times. I had a mental breakdown because of stresses in my life. Genral family problems e.g domestic violence. Family relationships deterioration to the point serious fights e.e.g. dad strangle me, police come etc.

They burnt all of my childhood photographs and I burnt most of their wedding pics only three remains. They threw me out but now my mum who has been battling with cancer is still unwell and misses me and wants me to come back and dad is 64 and I don't want him to bear the caring alone he also has arthritis and I have an autistic brother. I want to put the past behind and start a new life I am moving back home to take care of . my mother and be with my family I don't want Satan to break this family apart whether we like it or not we are family and it could be worse.
But I'm scared neighbours will judge me and I'm scared I'm making the wrong choice. I'm happy in my new rented room but II feel like I'm abandoning my mother. I'm her time of need. She originally told me to go but now wants me back I'm her only daughter and my brothers are not helpful.

Nawa o.... Only u?

Since the family is dysfunctional, please don't uproot your life to go to any one of them. you can visit home on weekends, and can also hire a live in care-giver, or house help. why you observe for a change.
people don't know what dysfunctional families can do to each other, anything can be an excuse to pull each other down.

[size=15pt]Hey gyal, where di pum pum dey?

But seriously forget everything and go help yuh mada. Don't give a f u c k bout no bagga chat.[/size]

Obiageli1993:
Also it wasn't all bad there were many good times and they really tried for us. All this. Problem came out of nowhere honestly.

Op where is the bumbum that her daddy is looking,I must look too

wildQuincy:
I don't really know the kind of mind you have got, but I will never suspect any of my family unless its done with evil intentions! Back home, my dad teases me most times about my butt and we all laugh over it. Even my elder bro gets as far as playfully spanking my butt sumtimes and I don't reason all that sh1it! There was even a day my bro spanked my butt in the presence of my mum and she was even the one playfully telling him to be careful since I wasn't wearing panties underneath and the gown I was wearing was loose fitted!

Hope you are wearing one now even as you type

Obiageli1993:
Family was dysfunctional.

Mother, jealous of me and often did not want my progress. I caught my father looking at my bum a few times. I had a mental breakdown because of stresses in my life. Genral family problems e.g domestic violence. Family relationships deterioration to the point serious fights e.e.g. dad strangle me, police come etc.

They burnt all of my childhood photographs and I burnt most of their wedding pics only three remains. They threw me out but now my mum who has been battling with cancer is still unwell and misses me and wants me to come back and dad is 64 and I don't want him to bear the caring alone he also has arthritis and I have an autistic brother. I want to put the past behind and start a new life I am moving back home to take care of . my mother and be with my family I don't want Satan to break this family apart whether we like it or not we are family and it could be worse.
But I'm scared neighbours will judge me and I'm scared I'm making the wrong choice. I'm happy in my new rented room but II feel like I'm abandoning my mother. I'm her time of need. She originally told me to go but now wants me back I'm her only daughter and my brothers are not helpful.

Sweetheart that's a good and wonderful decision. All families had one issue or the other. None is perfect. Don't worry....you're going to be glad you made this decision. It STILL MAY not be all rosery but.... On the long run, you'll be glad. As you forgive them, the love of God is gonna shine and heal you all. My hugs to them all. Be strong. Ensure you always pray for your family. God is gonna repair all that went wrong ijn. Amen.

I was in the toilet once on the toilet he open the door when he saw me he closed it then opened it again

Am I the only one that can't read any meaning to this post? No head and tail

Family/blood relationship is the first, greatest and strongest bond we have on earth. It's as well the most challenging as distortions in diverse magnitude will always arise.

Please answer this question within yourself; do you think you're making the wrong choice by trying to get your family back together?

you do have the capability to make the difference, to right the wrongs and restore peace and joy back to your home.

Go home to them, genuinely love and care tenderly for them. This will transform their heart and life the same way towards you.

Please find a good time to sit both your parents down and pour your heart and emotion down. Heartily tender apology to them. Let them know you love them and want the past to be past and want thing better for everybody.

They sure need you now as much as you need them in your life. Keep praying always for your home. This will surely get better.

Taryur3:
Am afraid to judge you here...but you have the mind to burn your parents wedding picture...you can't take dt shit out your memory till you old.may God help the current situation in your family. Go back home and make peace with them.God bless you.

Same here!....I just tata!

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