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Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Slimflame(m): 5:34pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
iamtewwy:gbam |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by menxer: 5:36pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Dysfunctional is a polite way of saying ones family is cursed. Go back, ask and help your parents to research the root cause of the problems and find solutions to it, else expect the cycle to repeat if/when you marry, albeit compounded. May the Light guide you to the solution. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Luckymay(f): 5:41pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Everything is misleading starting from the topic to the message itself. If I tell you I understood your first paragraph then I'm lying to you. All in all. Try reconcile with your family. You should also ask them who your real parents are. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by VaginaTerrorist(m): 5:42pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
I'll like you to come and live with me. Me...ยค |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by IshaqAyinde(m): 5:46pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Go back home, seek for their favor and forgiveness even though you think you are right. Just be a good girl to them both. And see wonder's in your life. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by abjule: 5:48pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
na so kongi be oh. funny conversation of a girl on fb and her sugar daddy
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Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993:But wait oooh all ish in one home... did you guys stoo believing in God or a Parents has yet to atone for a Major Sin or Curse? |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Franky826: 5:54pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
timidapsin: when you have a problem as hers I hope you snap your own bum as proof. Even karma isn't as callous and insensitive as your words bro. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Kunberg: 5:55pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Jesus is lord |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Franky826: 6:07pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: My dear you might be hurt but I tell you but forgiveness is GOLD. it is a very hard thing to forgive I admit. but it's best thing to do.(experience taught me). Do it for God sake even if you are tired of believing in God, Do it for love sake even when there is non left in you. you are still young and life ahead of you and unforgiveness hinders progress. Go and show them love heals all things. you might be the deliverance your family needs(I believe so). be patient with them and learn to persevere. Give them your little support while they still have breath in their nostrils. Above all as you return home always pray for them yourself and entire family. it is well |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
A family that prays together stays together, well mostly. Go back to your family and make up with them. Don't know what to say about your pop checking out your bum though. Just make sure you don't get too comfortable wearing revealing or too tight fitting clothes at home especially around him. All the best. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Franky826: 6:11pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
shaiba: This is from a golden heart |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
I lost my mom a few months ago, and I wish there was something I could do to keep her alive, just to stare at her and say mama thank you for being mama... When death knocks, it's a call no mortal can ignore, what pains me most is that, I have this guilt I never did enough for her, now that I have both what I want and need, I wish she is there to lavish all on. See sist, no matter what ehn, go and be with mama, make her feel loved, show her care, do your best, because you don't know what might happen next. Mama is irreplaceable, do what you can while she is still around. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by OutrageousMind: 6:33pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
BY THE HEAVENS AND BY THE EARTH THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO THAT WILL TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND IS PRAYER BELIEVE ME. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
What the hell did I just read? Is your surname lanisters? |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by kikayboss(m): 6:44pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
hmmmn!...if i were in your shoes and i really tried my best for it not to get to the point of hating my parents but they made sure i hated them.....mehhnn...i don't think I'll ever forgive them ...ever..... from what i can deduce they only need u now because they are helpless not because they love you and need you around...... parent of nowadays are really disappointing they don't know its how they treat their kids when they are depending on them is the same way they'll be treated when they depend on you..... good parents deserve all the love in this world ...bad parents smh for you..... people might say karma'll come for such a child, forgetting the parents are not immune to it.....maybe your kid not caring for you is the price you are paying for your bad parenthood...... shoutout to all LOVING & CARING PARENTS .. .you'll live to reap what you have sown ... this is only my opinion so no insults pls...... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Orikinla(m): 6:48pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
OP, your plight almost left me in tears. But thank Almighty God your parents are still alive for you to make amends for your resolution of reconciliation. Psychologically, you have shown maturity. But spiritually, you will need divine intervention for healing your family. You must trust God now. Now, before returning home, have serious talk with Almighty God. In your birthday suit alone, pray with Psalms 35, 45_ 91 and Isaiah 60. Ask Him to show Himself mighty in your case. Tell Him you want to see His miracles. Just tell Him to honour His Word as it is written to honour His holy name in your life. And you will testify of His mercies and miracles in your life. Just do so and see what Almighty God will do for you
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Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Teeboy22(m): 6:52pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
You too look at his bum bum too Dazzol |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: You know the answer to your question and you probably just want a push. Bible says the greatest gift in life is Love. I think after love the next gift is family and they both go hand in hand like 5 and 6. Love makes things much easier in everything and anything. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by InvertedHammer: 7:01pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
/ There is a misconception that every parent is a good one. Just as in anything else, there are good ones and bad ones. If you are cursed with a bad one, it is very difficult to break the yoke. \ |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by JerryJJZ(m): 7:03pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: I only see a genuine influence of getting a downgraded family back on track.... Now, you understood the mistake both u and ur family made (I want to believe you guyz are regretting it now). Since you have convinced your inner spirit to go home, just do. Coz you cannot tell, maybe you are the one God want to use for the family. Thinking of your neighbors, your family priority comes first, after which, every other thing is a counterfeit. Go and save your family. My advice though, is, if you have a VERY UNDERSTANDING AND GOD FEARING pastor (not our Modern Day pastor ohh), you can speak to him so you can baptize yourself with prayer and ask the Holy Spirit to finish the work before you even get there. Reconciliation is paramount. Remain brave and blessed 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Missmossy(f): 7:04pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Awww such a touching experience. Domestic violence and disparity in family isn't a good thing. Anyways there is nothing likes ones family,you just have to make up with them without considering their health conditions. It can only get better,do reconcile with them. Your brothers aint trying though with their not been able to do anything about the situation. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by bejeria101(m): 7:04pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Dey there make bra wear you. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Gimme your number? |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by danthamccoy(m): 7:17pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
wildQuincy:There's a huge elephant in the room here and you're the only one not seeing it. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Rasque1759(m): 7:21pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
end time coming ..i'm sure NL will start loosing traffic soon....having two headlines for one story ain't cool |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by 99foxxy(f): 7:27pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
timidapsin:must you guys see pictures before you believe? Hmmm. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: PICTURES of ur BUM or else adonbelivit?? |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Lenny5k: 7:45pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
JerryJJZ: Beautiful! |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by prettysassygirl(f): 7:49pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
mercy! what kind of family is this?I guess the root of all these problem is poverty. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by tunwumi: 7:50pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
You are a tough child like me. But you have to get down and ask yourself ifyou are ready to take all the shit that will follow. Look girlfriend they will not change from their former ways but service to your mother is the best you can give her. Another is not to take a risk of rape safe at all time. The only thing that can help is to control your tongue and temper. Never get angry and dont raise your voice. There are other steps Obiageli1993: |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Lenny5k: 7:51pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: Very sorry about your experience... I hope you were able to find something in all the comments that made sense to you.. Whatever you do, just understand that your Neighbors are not Important so with whatever they may think of you, its absolutely not important. From you post it's obvious that you may not forgive yourself if (God Forbid) something happen to them, so now that they are still there you might just as well go and make up with them...Do not delay... If you like to Talk, lemme know I can call you (Or send you Airtime to Call)... Stay strong and stay Blessed |
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