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Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by zomby(m): 8:12pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
You can only have 1 mom. My advise is for you to return home ASAP, but do not give up you rented apartment for now. Try to keep the apartment for 2 or 3 months and see how things are between you and your family. Past is past, your time with your mom at this time is priceless. By the grace of God your mom will be fine. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by OLUJOSHINS(m): 8:35pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: DID HE TOUCH U? if yes, I won't advice U to go anywhere close to Him. if No, then he was probably just admiring Ur body. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
So sorry for your troubles, be strong and remember we all have our trials, there's no perfect family, everyone has their own little skeletons that they keep hidden away in the closet...forgiveness and forgetfulness is the only sure antidote to the never ending cycle of karma. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Herrmes: 8:49pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
There's nothing like Satan. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by gonkraziiiiii: 8:53pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Note dat if u do go dem go talk,u do bad dem go talk ....don't expect Ppl dat don't know ur story not to judge u cos dey wld but ma dear forgiveness is everything...family is also everything....go home n have fun with ur family.... |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by kellygrin(m): 9:09pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
abeg the season two....wey iya ahmed abeg come give me ram meat make i chop |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by tottinova: 9:29pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Cherishing: Nna enjoy! |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by bignero: 9:36pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
timidapsin: thot u were a matured mind ....until this somebodys misery is your source of pleasure...continue |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by timidapsin(m): 9:47pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
bignero:Lol somebody's misery? This is no misery.. She asked a question ... Asking for advice on something that should be her personal decision.... The moment you start taking everything too serious, especially things you read, You start having problems bro.. Finally about being a matured mind, I AM ME. and not what you think of me, So I don't really care! |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
OP have you considered that u are the one that is dysfunctional and not necessarily your family? You accuse your father of looking at your bum presumably lustfully this may be in your mind. You accuse your mother of being jealous of you *maka wetin?* almostly in your mind only. You burn property belonging to your parents - reality. You have a mental breakdown - reality You are chased away from home - reality It is time for sober reflection and taking responsibility for your actions and situation. If you want your family relationships to improve, look inwards and make some changes in yourself. Obiageli1993: |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by kayalla(f): 9:59pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
which kin story be this? what has the topic got to do with wat u just wrote. if u need advice then state the problem this is half baked story. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by kayalla(f): 10:02pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
which kin story be this? what has the topic got to do with wat u just wrote. if u need advice then state the problem this is half baked story. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Fawklicant: 10:26pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
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Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: No wonder you talk and reason the way you do on Nairaland |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by DozieInc(m): 11:00pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
lawanson44: Chai sorry for you, was just reading through , didnt want to comment but This your post is the most STUP.ID. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
DozieInc: You mean you don't know Obiaghelli on Nairaland? Or do you behave like her too? |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by awesomeDna(m): 11:52pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Life without taking chances is no kind of life at all..... forget about what your neighbors or people will say, it may be difficult but there's nothing God can not do, your family is your own not theirs.... Talk to your maker in prayers commit everything to him and run back home ASAP.... for there's no place like home ......(you can still be in touch with your family while you are independent) In another story, don't let your life be controlled by these three things, Your past, People and Money |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 12:42am On Jul 06, 2016 |
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Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by KazukiIto(m): 1:28am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Wow you still have a mother! I just wish mine was still alive |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by bigfrancis21: 2:02am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: Part of your spiritual purpose on earth is to learn forgiveness. Everything happens for a reason. Your purpose on earth for this lifetime is not complete until you learn forgiveness or else you may have to do it all over again in another lifetime or more until you learn the lesson of forgiveness. It may be difficult, I know, coming from a dysfunctional family but you need to let go of the past and move on. Forgiveness is the key. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by ichomi(m): 6:47am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Forget neighbour.... Forget what people will say.. Go for what u want and what ur heart tells u. Its better than loosing ur mum to the cold hands of death. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Jok3r(m): 8:06am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: we can choose who will fall in love wit, choose our bfs nd gfs we cn choose our frnds,, bt one thing we cnt choose is OUR FAMILY cos no mater wat FAMILY HAS ALREADY BIN THERE even befor we were born.... i feel ur pain... bt rmbr FAMILY is all we have in this world. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 8:33am On Jul 06, 2016 |
From my perspective. The Family is f**ked(sorry I used the f word). But again, Change is needed, and I believe you are the only person that can instigate such change, however,you cannot Do ANYTHING if you are still within the corrupt circle(your Family). The first step, which you have done, is to disassociate yourself,@least for now. Then there is the need for Forgiveness, I hope you are a christain. Its important you are VERY close To God,I'm not talking about going to Church every sunday. Forgive yourself, forgive your family, and God have Mercy on you all. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Jok3r:Family is not all we have in this world |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by fof1: 10:28am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Obiageli1993: ALWAYS TRUST IN THE LORD. DONT GIVE PLACE TO D DEVIL. HE IS ALL RESPONSIBLE FOR D TRAVAILS IN D HOME because UR PARENTS UNWITTINGLY GAVE ROOM TO HIM. PLS WAKE UP SEEK THE LORD'S MERCIES/ FORGIVENESS AND MOVE IN TO HEAL THEIR WOUNDS. GOD HELP U. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by evergreen200088(m): 11:43am On Jul 06, 2016 |
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Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Jok3r(m): 1:48pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
williamdorcas: wat else |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by Nobody: 7:56am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Thanks all. I have returned home after not seeing family for 3 months and things are better. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by dfrost: 4:11pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
I have an autistic brother. I want to put the past behind and start a new life I am moving back home to take care of . my mother and be with my family I don't want Satan to break this family apart whether we like it or not we are family and it could be worse. Please go back home because of the bolded. He needs his family more than any other thing. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by dfrost: 4:11pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
I have an autistic brother. I want to put the past behind and start a new life I am moving back home to take care of . my mother and be with my family I don't want Satan to break this family apart whether we like it or not we are family and it could be worse. Please go back home because of the bolded. He needs his family more than any other thing. I initially didn't want to comment but that caught my attention. |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by ichomi(m): 11:44am On Jul 10, 2016 |
Thanks all. i for say laa.... Welcome back home. Enjoy |
Re: Should I Go Home? Am I Making The Right Choice? I'm 22 by blessedvisky(m): 2:29am On Jul 25, 2016 |
Family was dysfunctional. |
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