kellorah:

The decent thing to do is to return it, unless he asks u to keep it.

But if u feel like punishing him, u can throw it in the ocean lol. . . .or carry on rocking it.

Lolz . . . i agree

I personally wouldn't give it back. if he demands it by force, i'll sue. lol
i don't need it anymore but i can still sell it and make some change for myself out of it!

@topic
according 2 Judge Judy (u.s.a) d lady has 2 return d ring 2 d guy
dat is if he paid for it. if he takes u 2 court re d ring, u will have 2return it or pay him bk 4 it
that's d law over there n i think it applies everywhere

are u kidding me? lol

ceasyc:

@topic
according 2 Judge Judy (u.s.a) d lady has 2 return d ring 2 d guy
dat is if he paid for it. if he takes u 2 court re d ring, u will have 2return it or pay him bk 4 it
that's d law over there n i think it applies everywhere

True talk!!. The ring was exchanged because a marriage was agreed. if the marriage doesn't work out, the ring is to be returned. its a symbol, not just a mere gift.

I would demand for my ring ooo!! because i wouldn't buy a cheap one in the first place!!!

that's  why you  dont really to spend so much money on an  engagement ring in the first place, cos wedding ring makes it signed, sealed and delivered.

who else if not the drainage

oyinda,are you one of the Latimores in eddy's Nobit

@ topic
after breakup,if it's a guy, give the ring to ur landlady
if it's a girl, give it to the landlord

denony:

@foyeks2001
Maybe you are sick and needs medical attention  
are dialed adict?  

because u are u not making sense at all and maybe the netwaork wasnt there wen u made such a comment nigga

George_D:


@foyeks2001,
do you have to be so mad at everybody? you're beginning to sound like a jilted lover to me, or are you one?

because i was so dissapointed in most of ur comments(i mean guys), especially u ( with the likes of aloyemeka, davidlan and etc) that am always envious of ur intelligence.
Me jilted? not at all

As much as I hate to say this, the man should get the ring in the event of a breakup.

It the ring was a fugazy, the man won't ask for it ; So the lady best return it.
But If it was original, the man should ask for it and rightly too- Whether or not the ex decides to give it back is another matter.

Omo, Engagement ring has to be destroyed if not she fit go dey claim one kind "I'm still in love with you".
Thats is if na you break up sha.

Either its given back or kept, the seal has already been broken, keep it in your archive/library/store

lexibaba:


gbabe!
big boy ke loju thousands of £$
if its possible sef i'll collect it b4 breaking up if i kno she might destroy or throw it away.

Cheiii!! Laugh WKM.

Break-up or dis-engagement is not so good. Especially to the party been dump.
But no matter the issue I think both parties should do it amicably .

I don’t expect the man to ask for his ring back!!!!, but think it’s dignifying if the lady should return it (even if through post office!)
But am surprise 95% of the NL babes just want to cash on the ring…lol

Make the babe hail the ring take arrange herself.Return wetin?make him return the #*@$%&* wey him collect before.

Give him back his ring Ole! you never see 18carat ring before?

no. keep the ring so you can remember me every once in a while.

you can still keep it in ur bosssom if u still have feeling 4 him. but if not, "da pada"

gollum hath no fury like a fiance spurned! besides i wuldn't want my girl bringing her ex's ring into our relationship, naah, wuld make me feel cheap

Shouldn't it be made clear from the beginning?
So the next time, remember to ask the guy if the ring is now yours for real.
Then you can do whatever you like with the ring.

Nah my ring jare. Abi no be me pay for am?

Na by force she go give me back my thing.

If she pawns my ring,I go pawn her in return. Abi wetin alaba market dey dia for? 

If she throw am in the river,I go throw am into the river as well ooo 

Me I no mind if she throw am in my face as long as she give me my ring.

Heck,make she even yab me say I be broke ass nucca I no care ooo. Just give me back my ring. Thats all I ask of her.

I keep the ring as a matter of fact it will not last 24hr with me,i will rather sell it off for money than give it back ,I wouldn't need anything to remind me of him.

it happened to me, though i didnt intend to break up but i really was pissed with my man, so i asked him to hold unto the ring till i made up my mind about the issue but he refused it.
Thank God for me, we are now MARRIED,

Engagement Ring is On condition

If the terms is broken in this case a 'break up' - then the ring goes to the person who paid for it

Judge Judy's assistant in da hse

kakaya:

it happened to me, though i didnt intend to break up but i really was pissed with my man, so i asked him to hold unto the ring till i made up my mind about the issue but he refused it.
Thank God for me, we are now MARRIED,

see why it's better to let the lady hold on to the ring? as long as the rings remains with her, you still have a little part in her life and no matter how angry she was with you at first, she may later soften up and have a re-think. now they're married!

Who get's the Ring

Ans: The Pastor/Alpha!!!

Abeg jare!!!

if the ring get worth,i go sell am, use the money chop nkwobi and isi-ewu and wash it down wit a bottle of red wine .then go home have a good night rest and hope to meet another guy who will eventually propose wit an even more expensive rock

return ko! take away ni!

you wan wash your love down with a bottle of st remmy?

l also think the ring should be return.ln the first place,why did she accept the ring when she know it will not work.

better let her keep it.

Ideally, if a girl is calling of the engagement, she returns the ring, as a sign that she is no longer interested. Accepting it meant " yes, i will marry u". Returning it means " I no do again oh!"
However, if a guy calls of the engagement, he has no rite to ask for the ring or anyother thing(car, house, education etc) back. Its his loss. He should have thought more before proposing. Breaking an engagement is not a small thing oh. You know how many rings/cars/houses she for don get if not for ur stupid ring on her finger? I will only return it if i can choke him with it.
Shikena!

George_D:

you wan wash your love down with a bottle of st remmy?

wether na st remmy or st remo,i go wash the yeye luff commot for my system."behold old thins are pass away and alas i am new again" (abeg no vex i no sabi quote bible)