T3Amo:


Unfortunately in the real world anybody who takes 5years off is committing career suicide. Things are constantly changing as well.

Let me ask you this question. Would you go to a Dr who has not practiced in 5years for a surgery or the one who has been in practice. Would you go to a mechanic who has not fixed any cars in 5yeara. Would you go trust an accountant who has not looked at anything accounting related in 5years? Would you hire someone who has been unemployed for 5years versus someone who has been in the sector for long? Am sure you get the drift now.

smogup:
...working for More money

ginajet:
Good marriage ofcourse but we should be able to build the future for our children too... . I mean take a good look at Otedola, Adenuga and Dangote... Their wives ain't complaining are they?

Cutehector:
lol sadly enough, it is only the woman dats going through marital problems will know the right answer to the question up there.

ameezy:
Another female thread

T3Amo:


All couples will go through marital problems. Its inevitable and also the honeymoon phase will pass. So what happens when the honey moon phase is over? When finances becomes to much to bear then the fight starts and unhappiness creeps in. If the husband is dangote then great but looking at the current economic situation especially in Nigeria and what the average man earns, one needs to be realistic. When you have kids its not just about you and "happiness". There are people who hate their jobs and would love to quit but they can't because they have responsibilities. The reason we work hard is ultimely for our kids and family to have a better life. If I have to work from 7am to 9pm in order for me to give my kids the best future possible then I will do it.

Teagirl:
am looking for an unlike bottom, so the only place she is permitted to succeed is in the kitchen ? Why you go about chasing women with your money intoxicated self .They tell you to dream but don't dream too big ,we all desire a good marriage but are couples still keeping the marriage Val's ? After all my education I should come beg for money before I buy undies . am going to succeed, I will push my self to the Zenith and if you have a problem with that as a man you take a walk. I will be very rich so any man with low self esteem won't like me. Any wise woman will look for how to balance career and marriage.

XX01:


Rather another female bashing thread.

Cutehector:
at the detriment of your marriage?

ginajet:
Good marriage ofcourse but we should be able to build the future for our children too... . I mean take a good look at Otedola, Adenuga and Dangote... Their wives ain't complaining are they?

just2okworld:
Samhay come here

Cutehector:
It may be very difficult to balance Career with family affairs, when your Job entails so much work that you are hardly at home. Either of the parents do not have time for the kids, and just as things go, one may feel lonely. This may on the long run bring friction in your marriage leading to constant arguments, quarrels, and even Divorce if care is not taken.




Now, I wish to put forth this question to the house, Would you choose a Good marriage over your career? If such career really has a negative effect on your marriage. When I mean a good marriage, I mean a marriage where both can say the are Happily married.


Points to put into consideration before commenting your opinion


State of the economy


Children's welfare


Health issues



High cost of living




Having considered this points, what would be your answer ?

Skimpledawg:

Gina, mail me @ elibaba23@gmail.com! tnx

eph12:

Honey no guy wants a stay at home wife any more. For this economy? Abeg o. You have to bring something to the table.

ginajet:
everyone pass through alot in their home.. Both rich and poor... We should pray to God for a partner that is understanding

Seventeen:
I am guessing this is a trap question for females....
Nairalaaaand!.. Where what ever u say may be used against u.
If women choose to stay at home(to perform their 'GOD' ordained wifely duties) ...Na una go still come here de shout
"naija women are lazy. They just want to sit at home all day, watching telemundo.

"All they know is how to go shoping and squander money they dint work for.”

"I won't tolerate any lazy woman oo, my wife must not be a liability she has to go out there and work."

"Naija ladies are gold diggers, they are un productive, alwayz looking for rich men to marry. "
Now, na una still de ask whether we will choose career over good marriage... Because this question is obviously not directed to the guyz.... I bow for una oo.

samhay:


Give me my marriage Ooooo

Seventeen:
I am guessing this is a trap question for females....
Nairalaaaand!.. Where what ever u say may be used against u.
If women choose to stay at home(to perform their 'GOD' ordained wifely duties) ...Na una go still come here de shout
"naija women are lazy. They just want to sit at home all day, watching telemundo.

"All they know is how to go shoping and squander money they dint work for.”

"I won't tolerate any lazy woman oo, my wife must not be a liability she has to go out there and work."

"Naija ladies are gold diggers, they are un productive, alwayz looking for rich men to marry. "
Now, na una still de ask whether we will choose career over good marriage... Because this question is obviously not directed to the guyz.... I bow for una oo.

timilehing:
Of what good is a career if you have no home to return to? Shattered marriage with good career is heading towards suicide. Even with shattered career, a good home will keep the hope alive

#Word....... I bow for una dp boss.... See natural beauty