i caught my best friend husband and her cousin kissing nd his hands carressing her kegs on an hotel lobby, but he has saved my only son once so i am indepted to him, wat do i do?

mehn thats a stuff one the best thing is to talk with the guy and let him know how, cuz either way if u tell ur friend u'll be blamed for the marriage, but it's not an easy situation, i think u shud pray 4 ur friend, also that cousin got to be warned

keep ur mouth shut . . wetin concern u sef?

I don't it's any of your business; so I would suggest that when next you see them, avoid giving them that suspicious look; just act normal.

Drop a hint to your friend. Don't tell her point blank but make her suspicious enough to start digging and catch him at it. Or maybe next time you see them call her and get her to come and meet you there and hide from them so she sees it herself. Otherwise she will find out later and when she finds out that you knew she will hate you for not letting her know.

Ignore Yumi.

Leave it alone. It isn't your marriage first of all. Second, since you love your bestfriend, know that you will not be helping her pain or her marriage by becoming involved. In fact, you should try and save her some of the embarassment.,. Third, you are, as you put it, indebted to the man. The good books all say that it is always important to pay your debts.

chaircover:

Personally if I were you, I will keep out of it.

Telling either will not make any difference to the situation.

If indeed he is having an affair with his wifes cousin then the marriage is already in deep trouble so there is nothing you can do but to pray that all parties involved think of the children who will be the ones to suffer the most if the marriage breaks down as a result of this.

^^I think this is precisely right.

@poster
What you should is respectful tell the man in question wat you saw n find out if he n his wife are having issues you can help out with. This way you show concern for your friend and her marriage while at the same time letting the man know dat he has f**ked up.

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