Guys am confused, a girl i met in school sometime November last year got pregnant with my child and she aborted it without telling me now she asking for my forgiveness after disclosing it to me should i forgive her?

Myles23:
Guys am confused, a girl i met in school sometime November last year got pregnant with my child and she aborted it without telling me now she asking for my forgiveness after disclosing it to me should i forgive her?

How are u sure it was your child..

It's up to u., ask urself.. Are u willing to be a young father juz in case she decided to continue it? Are u financially stable to support ur child and the mother?

I am against abortion, but she done it already... Now, the last call is urz

Did you marry her? She is not your wife ..let her be .who knows, maybe she is scared of becoming babymama.
You can't blame her...

Face your book for now

were u going to accept d child if she had told u?

hmmmmm

If her reason is reasonable forgive her. But you must check if her womb has still functioning

ireneony:
Did you marry her? She is not your wife ..let her be .who knows, maybe she is scared of becoming babymama.
You can't blame her...

Face your book for now

Badt girl.

Hmmm... Lol

Myles23:
Guys am confused, a girl i met in school sometime November last year got pregnant with my child and she aborted it without telling me now she asking for my forgiveness after disclosing it to me should i forgive her?

She had her reasons for having the abortion, and must have told you out of guilt.

Were you even ready to father a child?.

Jay542:
If her reason is reasonable forgive her. But you must check if her womb has still functioning

Is nt all abortions that destroy wombs, it depends on which one you chose.

herbie27:
Is nt all abortions that destroy wombs, it depends on which one you chose.

He has to find be sure it's not destroyed that what I'm saying.

Jay542:

He has to find be sure it's not destroyed that what I'm saying.

Does he have the intention of marring her?.

herbie27:
Does he have the intention of marring her?.

He should that's why he's concerned

Op close yr teeth, go back nd beg yr girl u that i knw will nt take responsibility nd stop asking for advice.

well I told her we'll be going for a test once she returns from Lagos.

Myles23:
Guys am confused, a girl i met in school sometime November last year got pregnant with my child and she aborted it without telling me now she asking for my forgiveness after disclosing it to me should i forgive her?

Forgive nd forget her

Sexxkillz:
Your mouth like "concent".


You're in school to study, not to get a girl pregnant. As if you can take care of the girl and a baby, you that is still being taken care of.

chai

I want to know what's on your mind? Are you angry or what? Meanwhile, I hope you aren't forming responsible cos you are now aware that she has performed the action? And at the same time, what if she's testing your actions indirectly?

lol. What is your own?. is it your body? Can you afford to take care of the child?. I still don't know why people can't use protection especially when they are not ready for responsibilities. Anyway, abortion is not good.

So what will happen if you dont forgive her?

30 naira cudve stoppped all this foolery

Obviously she helped you, were you even ready to father a child

Op, please do me a favor by answering all those ladies questions before i comment

As if You would have preferred she Kept the Baby.

This story is somehow, the way I see it, she tells you she is pregnant, you act out like a slowpoke and throw a fit, babe is scared of an uncertain future and decided to abort it. You find out but since you are looking for a way to leave her, you make her feel guilty about aborting it. Grow up.

to me. She probably help the baby from being your child. Shhhesh!!!

AbuMikey:
As if You would have preferred she Kept the Baby.

Don't mind him...

What she did was right cos she knew u were not fully ready to take up the responsibility of being a father while still in sch,even if she had informed you,obviously you would have advised her to abort the baby pls forgive her she has no fault in what she did she did wat best for you guys at dat time.@op reason with ur brain!am sick and tired of ur jamb question out of thread.

nawa oo