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Should I Forgive Her Again by BlackAfrican: 6:57am On Jul 10
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was Unclad and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by thorpido(m): 7:03am On Jul 10
If you have the proof and you have shown her that and she couldn't refute it,there's only one decision for you to make.............move on.

She'll never change.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by madridguy(m): 7:04am On Jul 10
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own register and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Fuckyoumod: 7:05am On Jul 10
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Dami12345: 7:05am On Jul 10
If she has nothing to hide , what's there to forgive.

Too many women for you to die in one spot,
Just agree, fuvck your own and start seeing other girls, whatever you feel for her will gradually die, then you can let her go.

That is unless you don't mind sharing your woman with different guys

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Dami12345: 7:05am On Jul 10
madridguy:
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own register and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.

Word!!!

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Dami12345: 7:08am On Jul 10
Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.


You are right, he should wait till he marries her and finds out like this guy, but of course you will say he still didn't catch her naw, maybe its a miracle.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by BlackAfrican: 7:12am On Jul 10
Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.


I saw her conversations on FB and they're not palatable...

Throwback

she hid her other phone from me so I can't see the contents... when I discovered by accident, I ask her to unlock the phone but she refused... it led to a quarrel and I smashed the phone.... we later apologized for that episode.... two months later, I find out she's gotten another phone with which she goes online and she's been deliberately keeping it from me...

these are facts not assumptions

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by babyfaceafrica: 7:16am On Jul 10
too any weak men nowadays......my advice jaaapa!!!..this life is too short to be tied down to an unserious partner

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by QueenSuccubus(f): 7:16am On Jul 10
undecided

This thing I don't get it..Why a person who is supposed "exclusively dating" has balls to flirt around angry ?

Flirting is the first step of cheating sha..it all started from there.. But a lot of humans regardless of their gender will always fall for this shii...#SMH

So, OP u betta think twice sha. Are u ready to continue with a girl who keeps flirting behind ur back?

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by BlackAfrican: 7:20am On Jul 10
QueenSuccubus:
undecided

This thing I don't get it..Why a person who is supposed "exclusively dating" has balls to flirt around angry ?

Flirting is the first step of cheating sha..it all started from there.. But a lot of humans regardless of their gender will always fall for this shii...#SMH

So, OP u betta think twice sha. Are u ready to continue with a girl who keeps flirting behind ur back?




I'm drained emotionally... Of course I can't continue with such a person...

And to think that she's a girl I plan proposing to end of this year and get married before mid next year just breaks my heart...

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by QueenSuccubus(f): 7:39am On Jul 10
BlackAfrican:


I'm drained emotionally... Of course I can't continue with such a person...

And to think that she's a girl I plan proposing to end of this year and get married before mid next year just breaks my heart...

Well, make up ur mind then. If she can flirt behind ur back, then everything is possible sha..

Lemme call dairykidd ooo.. He's a LOVE DOCTOR of NL grin

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by dairykidd(m): 8:03am On Jul 10
BlackAfrican:


She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was Unclad and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

Guy if u can live with the fact that she's fvcking someone else & u don't have any problem with that then stay there but if i were u i would move the fvck on... Its that simple

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by dairykidd(m): 8:06am On Jul 10
QueenSuccubus:


Well, make up ur mind then. If she can flirt behind ur back, then everything is possible sha..

Lemme call dairykidd ooo.. He's a LOVE DOCTOR of NL grin
See big name when dey kill small dog shocked me love doctor for where... Me that needs help myself cry

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by KingTugreat: 10:08am On Jul 10
Dump her that girl is cheating dont decieve yourself

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by senetorjboss(m): 10:13am On Jul 10
The lady is a cheat and will never change.. I have the experience too... It will come tí a time she will be doing it and picking calls at your face.... Dump her before you develop blood pressure

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by olac21(m): 10:37am On Jul 10
Since you have the feeling to move on,then do that already..this one doesn't look someone that will change to me

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by olac21(m): 10:43am On Jul 10
BlackAfrican:


I'm drained emotionally... Of course I can't continue with such a person...

And to think that she's a girl I plan proposing to end of this year and get married before mid next year just breaks my heart...
Stop that nonsense you're thinking oo and get yourself a decent girl..what are you proposing to in this one?
You no get eyes ni?

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by BlackAfrican: 10:43am On Jul 10
Anyone with useful tips on how to move on please share.... I'm so drained emotionally and can't stop the tears streaming down my face even as I type this....
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Uglymugg: 10:51am On Jul 10
BlackAfrican:
Anyone with useful tips on how to move on please share.... I'm so drained emotionally and can't stop the tears streaming down my face even as I type this....
Think about all the emotional break down that will happen in the future if you didn't catch her now. I could have been worse, what if you guys were married before you found out? You focused too much on your lady, it time to distract yourself with whatever goal you are pursing, like money or business, etc. Always remember that it wasn't your fault. The women of our generation are something else; It's almost a crime to be faithful to one partner.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by lenghtinny(m): 1:33pm On Jul 10
Well Issa natural something for girls to keep To-do list of boyfriends these days....

You should have zero your mind before checking your so called girl online activities because there's a 99.99999999% probability that you will find what you seek.

Nowadays, the average Nigerian girl is a public property. She's only yours when she is with you angry

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Cumtroller: 1:42pm On Jul 10
BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was Unclad and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?
Weak men everywhere. You are just like your father...

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Cholls(m): 1:59pm On Jul 10
my brother

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by rainmaker12(m): 3:07pm On Jul 10
Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.


When it comes to cheating, suspicions are 70% right all the time based on analysis. You can't just wake up one morning a start suspecting someone. Humans are very sensitive to detect behavioural change of others, but very weak to notice theirs. It is someone that will tell you best, how you behave, not yourself, you alone can't see it.

Suspicion in humans is very powerful. Respect it!

It is not until you enter the room they are fu*king each other before you get proof?

Flirty and sex chatting is enough to make someone walk out of a relationship without question. That is the proof! You not just saying it, you saw it.

People should stop saying proof proof proof even when its obvious.

80% of things people say in chats are real. So where's the probability?

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Lexusgs430: 11:13pm On Jul 11
You have seen, you either stay and encourage or cut off and move on......

Imagine loads of things she has already done offline and private physical meet ups.....

Major RED flags......

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by iLegendd(f): 11:14pm On Jul 11
Typing...

BlackAfrican, let me tell you the truth, if your woman is chatting with anyone who has read this book below, then forget it — she is gone. What you should do is, download and read that book for free this evening and thank me later.

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Have a nice day.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by kingzjay(m): 11:14pm On Jul 11
Why would you even go through her accounts?

You want to die before your time

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by wiloy2k8(m): 11:15pm On Jul 11
BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was Unclad and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?


if she no dey do anything make i bend ....

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Naijal: 11:15pm On Jul 11
ohun oju nwa loju n ri

Na wetin eye dey find, na im e dey jam.

Now that you have found what you were looking for, move on bro, I hope you have a paying job, your matter is inconsequential.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by LyfeJennings(m): 11:15pm On Jul 11
Ur wife is an oloriburuku

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by MANNABBQGRILLS: 11:16pm On Jul 11
Heartbreak

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