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| Relationship Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
Ok, so this has been eating me up for a while. Have been in a relationship with this guy for like 9 months now. Things going great but d challenge here is he never gets me any gift. Ok this is no gold digging stunts. Earlier in the relationship when I noticed this sign in him,i decided to buy him gifts so he could reciprocate,he just told me he was going to get me something too but he never did. The only time he uses his money to get me something is either when we are out together to eat or when I want to eat.(Just food..nothing else) Now am getting jealous, I hate to see my friends or sister get gifts from their boyfriend because I know there's no guy to do that for me.I don't do double dating. What can I do to change this in him or am I just over reacting. 2nd Issue..there are times he borrowed money from me and never returned it.Have forgotten about the little change I borrowed him but he borrowed a large sum from me of recent nd he's nt even talking about returning it.I got tired of asking him when I noticed he was just posting me. This is a guy that wants a serious relationship.  Advice pls |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 10:04pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
I came here to read comments... like the op and answer your questions too  |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
I see signs of a Gildigger..
Not you this time but your supposed boyfriend. |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
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| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by IHATEPUZZY(m): 10:05pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
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| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by UndisputedBosom(m): 10:11pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
On the first complaint: i think u re just being unnecessarily jealous of others On the second complaint: i think u hv a diamond digger as a boyfriend...retrieve ur money when you still can... Thats my 2cent  |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Varagous(f): 10:13pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
its either he's stingy or he thinks like most guys who believe spending on their girl means they are "mugu". I would have said he's broke but borrowing from you, is something else. |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Sexxkillz: 10:25pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
He's a stingy SOB. And he's never going to change. If someone fails to see subtle signs, he fails to see the bigger picture. It's a concern for you, since you are in it with him for the long term. My honest advice is this: it's never too late to turn the other way when you realize you've been on the wrong path all along. 2 Likes |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by UrWorstNitemare: 10:28pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
 [size=18pt]IMPORTANT INFORMATION !!![/size] OP. U jus got into a relationship wit a SHARP GUY.. N sofar from ur post, ma perspective of you is.. Either You are a JJC ( first timer) Or You are desperate to av a longtime relationship. Buh Either I'm wrong or I'm right !? If u nid him. Uv gatto tell him all of his wrongs N equally Hear him out (Make it fair on a niqqa, N don't b some da_nfuckin_ Drama queen) Ma opinion tho** Peace  |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Odunharry(m): 10:29pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
The guy is a bad guy.. Lmao |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
 thanks so farMore advice would be welcomed |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by ronald4lif(m): 10:41pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
He borrowed money from you and didn't pay back and you still call him boyfriend? What a joke. It's ignominious enough for a guy to borrow money from their girlfriend and even more shameful not to pay back. Abeg you're being played. May God never reduced me to a position were I'll collect 1kobo from any girl. Nothing will lacerate my male ego more than such. 2 Likes |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by UrWorstNitemare: 10:41pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
Odunharry: N all d rest of youse Ain't nid ta b a Snitch For all I care, tis is totally one sided. DON'T BASE UR JUDGEMENT ON A ONE SIDED INFO, DON'T. U CAN JUS ADVICE.. ***Niqqaz. Don't jump ships*** DAZZOL |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by ronald4lif(m): 10:45pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
bardella1: Call off that relationship immediately but not before getting a reimbursement. The gold-digger must refund your hard-earned money. Don't let the sex hold you down to him.  |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 10:47pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
bardella1:He clearly doesn't understand your 'love language' and that's nobody's fault. Which of u is richer BTW? |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
ronald4lif:d money issh happened in mid may and dis is july...nd he's still postin me |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by theEYe21(f): 10:55pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
Op are you in the relationship just to get gifts and material things or for love? And you are very insecure btw because you're comparing your friends to yourself. Your bf is not the problem, it's you. You need to work on yourself more 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
theEYe21:and what about my money with him  |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by saintdennis(m): 11:02pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
Recycled topic. Smh |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by jamalnation(m): 11:02pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
F**KBOY 100% |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by ronald4lif(m): 11:09pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
bardella1: That's 2months back. Insist on getting your money from him. Use every possible means to ensure you get back your money and call it quit. Dude is unserious and taking advantage of you. How can he gbensh for free and still fleece you. Haba! |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by theEYe21(f): 11:10pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
Why are you so bothered about the money? Forget about the money. If you love him, you would do things for him and not expect anything in return. That's call real and selfless love. bardella1: |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by Odunharry(m): 11:15pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
UrWorstNitemare:It's clear the guy is one sharp bad nigga |
| Re: Relationship Advice Pls by placeofallure(f): 4:37am On Jul 21, 2016 |
Sexxkillz: OP,if you're serious about getting opinions here, take this one above, Case Closed! |
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