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If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by Yumi(f): 4:48pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
Even if she refuses to see him and doesn't speak to him anymore cause he hurt her. If he loves her he will try to put things right again and if he really loved her he wouldn't let her go? |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by candylips(m): 5:04pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
Yumi u are 110% right |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by Nobody: 5:12pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
I totally agree with this. I think that word is used very loosely these days |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by 190: 5:49pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
yumi who don break ur hart again! |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by shayoor(f): 5:56pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
na true talk oooooooooo |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by frank317: 6:05pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
if a guy loves a woman he wont bother her when he hurt her, he will know he is not the best person for her. he will let her go and quickly move on ith his life |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by CrazyMan(m): 6:28pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
Yumi you're absolutely right; but I would like to add option B. If the girl maintains her stance that she doesn't want to see him, it would be advisable for him to look for love elsewhere. There's no point trying to make her love you when deep down she sees you as past tense. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by omega25red(m): 6:52pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
if a man loves a woman sometimes the best thing to do is to let that woman go. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by Yumi(f): 8:19pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
Maybe CrazyMan: I can see what you are saying but when you really love someone you never see them as past tense. If she maintains that it may be she doesn't want to cry in public and embarass everyone including herself when she sees him. Depends on how hurt she is. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by Yumi(f): 8:21pm On Sep 15, 2009 |
omega25red: When you have physically made love to the person, when you have shared real intimacy together and you know in your heart this person is right for you, you have to just fix up and hold on. If not you might reject the best thing you ever found in your life. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by AniLee(f): 8:24am On Sep 16, 2009 |
well said @ frank n omega |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by Yumi(f): 8:41am On Sep 16, 2009 |
omega25red: I feel like that is the easy way out. If they both love each other they should try and make an effort to fight for it right. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by izeek(m): 9:06am On Sep 16, 2009 |
your love for her will make you take decisions that are in her best interest. even if it means letting her go so u dont continue to hurt her. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by sussu: 10:56am On Sep 16, 2009 |
i thnk, if a guy really luvs a woman, he shldnt just let her go without a fight, he shld do everythng possible 2 win back her heart, she may have a rethink; but wen go like; 'because i really luv u and wudnt want to hurt u again, so i think i should just move on with ma life', it gives the impression in d heart f d woman dt she was neva really luved in d 1st place and u knw wat, Nathin cud be more painful So even if u think u shld let her go which seems beta 4 both parties, do so after some resistance hmmn |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by Yumi(f): 3:28pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
sussu: Thanks Sussu I totally agree. It should be after a good effort has been made and you have tried for a substantial length of time. I can't deal with lightweight men that run at the first problem what good is that, that man would not make a good life partner. How a man or woman handles the problems and sticks through them is a good indicator of the type of husband or wife they will make. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by yme1(f): 3:33pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
that is the reason why love has gat alot to do with patience |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by ebila(m): 3:44pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
@poster, Does it occur to u dat u can love someone n d only way to show 'em is to let 'em go?I have been there and it was d hardest of all decisions i've made,one that turns out to be d only thing i regret! |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by yme1(f): 3:48pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
ebila:that is right sometimes someone just has to take a decision that hurts most, all in the name of love |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by iice(f): 3:55pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
Yumi: Depends. I had a situation with an Ex like that. Oh the boy didn't let me go even if we are just friends now. Were friends even when i didn't want to talk to him anymore. It took a long time for him (his perspective not mine lol) to make it right but he did. I give him credit. . .he has power. I'm thankful that i'm blessed |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by scottN(m): 3:59pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
Yumi: Substantial length of time is very relative and needs to be defined. So at what point do u say that the length of time is substantial enough after the effort has been applied? I think the benchmark should be more on the effort applied rather than on the time. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by ThoniaSlim(f): 6:17pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
Been thru that also. . .when a man truly loves a woman. . .he'll go an extra mile for her and never wanna let go. . . |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by tkb417(m): 6:23pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
iice:hmmm ThoniaSlim:been thru that also. . . when a woman truly loves a man. . .she'll go an extra mile for him and never wanna let go its the same shitz for the 2 genders |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by MissyB1(m): 6:24pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
Why does this remind me of Micheal Bolton's ''When a man loves a woman''? He'd give up all his comforts, sleep out in the rain, if she said that's the way it ought to be. . . . . . |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by iice(f): 6:26pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
tkb417: Werrin? |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by tkb417(m): 6:27pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
iice:u dont want to know |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by iice(f): 6:30pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
If you say so |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by tkb417(m): 6:45pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
was wondering why you'll turn down a guy after begging? thts mean u know? |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by chic2pimp(m): 6:47pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
omega25red:GBAM. True talk. tkb417:You took the words right out of my mouth. Great post jare. |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by tkb417(m): 6:49pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
Shrimp You love a gurlie and the next thing is for u to let her go? u dont know what misery means do you? u havent stopped smoking this thing ehn |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by iice(f): 6:50pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
tkb417: Sometimes he just needs tactical maneuvers to avoid the turning down It's really up to both parties. . .if they are both adamant of not reconciling, then nothing short of locking them both in the same room for days will make them consider each other |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by tkb417(m): 6:54pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
iice:true talk but. . . what about taking a break to clear the air and when the coast is clear, im sure the urge to be together will spring up once again. but like you said, if its an irreparable damage/winding up, then i guess if they are both left on an isolated island, nothn good will come outta it |
Re: If A Guy Really Loves A Woman by iice(f): 6:57pm On Sep 16, 2009 |
tkb417: Taking a break is good sometimes. You are right about that, it does clear the mind and makes 'negotiation talks' easier. |
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