CrazyMan:

Yumi you're absolutely right;

but I would like to add option B. If the girl maintains her stance that she doesn't want to see him, it would be advisable for him to look for love elsewhere.

There's no point trying to make her love you when deep down she sees you as past tense.

omega25red:

if a man loves a woman sometimes the best thing to do is to let that woman go.

omega25red:

if a man loves a woman sometimes the best thing to do is to let that woman go.

sussu:

i thnk, if a guy really luvs a woman, he shldnt just let her go without a fight, he shld do everythng possible 2 win back her heart, she may have a rethink; but wen go like; 'because i really luv u and wudnt want to hurt u again, so i think i should just move on with ma life', it gives the impression in d heart f d woman dt she was neva really luved in d 1st place and u knw wat, Nathin cud be more painful
So even if u think u shld let her go which seems beta 4 both parties, do so after some resistance hmmn

ebila:

@poster,
Does it occur to u dat u can love someone n d only way to show 'em is to let 'em go?I have been there and it was d hardest of all decisions i've made,one that turns out to be d only thing i regret!

Yumi:

Even if she refuses to see him and doesn't speak to him anymore cause he hurt her.  If he loves her he will try to put things right again and if he really loved her he wouldn't let her go?

Depends.  
I had a situation with an Ex like that.  Oh the boy didn't let me go even if we are just friends now.  Were friends even when i didn't want to talk to him anymore.  It took a long time for him (his perspective not mine lol) to make it right but he did.  I give him credit.  .  .he has power. I'm thankful that i'm blessed

Yumi:

Thanks Sussu I totally agree.  It should be after a good effort has been made and you have tried for a substantial length of time.  I can't deal with lightweight men that run at the first problem what good is that, that man would not make a good life partner.  How a man or woman handles the problems and sticks through them is a good indicator of the type of husband or wife they will make.

iice:

Depends.
I had a situation with an Ex like that. Oh the boy didn't let me go even if we are just friends now. Were friends even when i didn't want to talk to him anymore. It took a long time for him (his perspective not mine lol) to make it right but he did. I give him credit. . .he has power. I'm thankful that i'm blessed

ThoniaSlim:

Been thru that also. . .when a man truly loves a woman. . .he'll go an extra mile for her and never wanna let go. . .

tkb417:

hmmm

Werrin?

iice:

Werrin?

omega25red:

if a man loves a woman sometimes the best thing to do is to let that woman go.

tkb417:


been thru that also. . . when a woman truly loves a man. . .she'll go an extra mile for him and never wanna let go

its the same shitz for the 2 genders

tkb417:

was wondering why you'll turn down a guy after begging?

thts mean u know?

Sometimes he just needs tactical maneuvers to avoid the turning down
It's really up to both parties.  .  .if they are both adamant of not reconciling, then nothing short of locking them both in the same room for days will make them consider each other

iice:

Sometimes he just needs tactical maneuvers to avoid the turning down
It's really up to both parties. . .if they are both adamant of not reconciling, then nothing short of locking them both in the same room for days will make them consider each other

tkb417:

true talk but. . .
what about taking a break to clear the air and when the coast is clear, im sure the urge to be together will spring up once again.

but like you said, if its an irreparable damage/winding up, then i guess if they are both left on an isolated island, nothn good will come outta it