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Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by lovesmile16: 10:57pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
You date a girl ready for marriage and u refuse to takes steps to marry her after a reasonable time. Read a girl's story" am in a 3 years long relationship. I met my boyfriend when I was 26,he was 27.When we met,he said I was his wife that we will get married soon bla bla bla,I was reluctant because he was still young and I was looking for a matured guy to get married to but because of pressure,I decided to give in since he looked serious and really showed maturity. Well,3 years down the line,no proposal. Everytime I try breaking up with him,he will beg me to give him time that he is not ready yet that why am I rushing,that if I love him I will wait for him,he will cry and beg. The reason we are waiting is that he wants a better job,only God knows when the job will come. Am so angry right now,why will men keep doing this,u know a girl is ripe for marriage and u keep her there for years as a girlfriend just because u know she loves u and she will stay. If u see a girl ready for marriage and u are not ready,pls stop pressuring her to date u if u r not ready to commit(marry)her. If u want a girl u can date for 5 years,then date a 20 year old.". Over to you guys,why do u keep doing this and what can a girl in this situation do? |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:04pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Simple lord please hear my humble prayers Dear God, on behalf of the entire female race world wide any guy that derives joy in wasting our time wen dey kno dey av no plans for us lord jesus any guy that wanna waste nd delay our time the number of years such guys use to waste our time or lord delay their BREAKTHROUGH,SUCCESS,PROSPERITY,HAPPINESS,MARRIAGE,HAVINH CHILDREN,BE PRODUCTIVE etc. With the same exact year they hurt us.in jesus name i have prayed AMEN Ladies fear no evil 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Ladies need to learn how to trap their man into marriage.
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Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by lovesmile16: 11:07pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
PushPlay: Pls teach us how to do it biko 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by iykekelvins(m): 11:08pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Fund kor,Money ni |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian:that ur prayers strong ooo 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by lovesmile16: 11:10pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian: It is so annoying,if u leave them,they will say u left them when they needed u most and before u know it they will marry another person, u wait and u will clock 30 still being called girlfriend while ur mate have children of 5 years and above yet u will turning other guys down because of them. So painful! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by lovesmile16: 11:11pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Oma307: As in enh,too strong 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:13pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
lovesmile16: By 24 i wud b married whether d guy im with is ready or not i will slam my wedding iv to him U tink i will b doin love till 30? Cos of a fellow human being ko jo laye Im calm now cos im young lemme ger to dat 23 24 age N*ggas will kno im a female dragon cos of my attitude will scream FIRE CONVERSATIONS ND ATTITUDE 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by lovesmile16: 11:14pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Lol,u r really funny |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:18pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
lovesmile16: its nt my fault na |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:20pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Oma307: na just wish ni wish me i wish u |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian:let me go and package my money before I come to seek for ur hands in marriage |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Smileprince(m): 11:30pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Well ladies you're right. You don't need to waste time hanging around any guy. More reasons I don't want a relationship now. It's funny when guys date for long at the end they look for one stupid excuse and leave the girl to marry a younger lady. I definitely know I'll marry a girl about 4 to 5 years below my age. So I don't need to go into a serious relationship for now. Once I know am ready I'll look for a relationship. Hence courting for a single year or less. That's how it should be, not when you know deep down you still have more years and you now want a lady to commit to you. Nah I won't advise my sister to. But seriously what's wrong in starting small these days? You can marry and if you feel you don't have much capacity to take care of a child, you both will do family planning and extend child birth to 3 years later after marriage. Hence instead of calling it wasting of time like OP you'll call it proper planning. Both of you will hustle and things available for the coming child. Simple. Everything in this life is understanding. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:31pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Oma307: who wanna sell me? |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian:lol no vex |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by thesuave10(m): 11:33pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian: The lord said you needed me dear |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:36pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Oma307: i vex |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:36pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
thesuave10: Amen somebody |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:37pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian:lol |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
thesuave10:who be this wey want pour sand for my garri |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by thesuave10(m): 11:44pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:46pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
thesuave10: Over effective God is a living faithful God He answers faster dan d speed of light God is kind he doesnt break hearts He heals heart he is the strength to d weak Weekly he stand with you You shd b tank ful Tanks alone cant please God Love God dearly nd do his will Nd watch ur enemies become ur footstool 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by thesuave10(m): 11:52pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Yh. .. that's spirit preacher. So God sent me to date a Pastor hmm |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by Smileprince(m): 11:52pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Just like want to add this again. It's now a must wedding have to be elaborate and that is causing lot of delay for men and ladies now a days. If only some of you ladies can advise your partner in a serious relationship to the family rights and traditional wedding, small and not too elaborate. I mean those ladies who feel time is no longer on their side. Once you complete your wedding, cut your clothes according to your materials. If you can't afford to father a child. Let having kids be out of the pictures for the main time. Many people see marriage as time for giving birth. I love children but I don't see the urgency of bringing a child into the world at the first 2 to 3 years of marriage. Let's change this mentality of giving birth to immediately after marriage. It's not bad but it's not compulsory too. Marry and both of you live together and work and earn more money. Enjoy yourself and go for vacations Flex 3 years before thinking child birth. And every guys in naija is capable of sustaining a single lady at their abode. So why think marriage is impossible now. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:52pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
thesuave10: No bible school teacher |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by thesuave10(m): 11:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 11:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
thesuave10: why |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by thesuave10(m): 11:58pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by halfricanadian(f): 12:00am On Jul 22, 2016 |
thesuave10: God av to control d relationship so he can fire ir head wen u hurt me |
Re: Why Are Guys Fond Of Doing This Rubbish? by thesuave10(m): 12:02am On Jul 22, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Remember he sent me so he knows I possibly couldn't do that |
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