halfricanadian:


Yup yup

thesuave10:



That's rich.. my spine is delicate tho

halfricanadian:


Dont care bou rich dey are d most deadly nd heartless beings ever

thesuave10:


Lol was referring to the dance dear

halfricanadian:


Ok

lovesmile16:
You date a girl ready for marriage and u refuse to takes steps to marry her after a reasonable time. Read a girl's story" am in a 3 years long relationship. I met my boyfriend when I was 26,he was 27.When we met,he said I was his wife that we will get married soon bla bla bla,I was reluctant because he was still young and I was looking for a matured guy to get married to but because of pressure,I decided to give in since he looked serious and really showed maturity. Well,3 years down the line,no proposal. Everytime I try breaking up with him,he will beg me to give him time that he is not ready yet that why am I rushing,that if I love him I will wait for him,he will cry and beg. The reason we are waiting is that he wants a better job,only God knows when the job will come. Am so angry right now,why will men keep doing this,u know a girl is ripe for marriage and u keep her there for years as a girlfriend just because u know she loves u and she will stay. If u see a girl ready for marriage and u are not ready,pls stop pressuring her to date u if u r not ready to commit(marry)her. If u want a girl u can date for 5 years,then date a 20 year old.". Over to you guys,why do u keep doing this and what can a girl in this situation do?

halfricanadian:


By 24 i wud b married whether d guy im with is ready or not i will slam my wedding iv to him

U tink i will b doin love till 30? Cos of a fellow human being ko jo laye

Im calm now cos im young lemme ger to dat 23 24 age

N*ggas will kno im a female dragon cos of my attitude will scream FIRE CONVERSATIONS ND ATTITUDE

halfricanadian:
Simple lord please hear my humble prayers
Dear God, on behalf of the entire female race world wide any guy that derives joy in wasting our time wen dey kno dey av no plans for us lord jesus any guy that wanna waste nd delay our time the number of years such guys use to waste our time or lord delay their BREAKTHROUGH,SUCCESS,PROSPERITY,HAPPINESS,MARRIAGE,HAVINH CHILDREN,BE PRODUCTIVE etc. With the same exact year they hurt us.in jesus name i have prayed AMEN

Ladies fear no evil

udemejacob:
u see the problem with women, they r always impatient and in the end some of them get to regret it. y not stay put n pray God should bless d guy for u shap shap so that u won't stay as his galfrd again u wanna marry shap shap n bla bla bla, make una calm down o

Obas101:

So you really young.

lovesmile16:


Hmmm,what makes u feel if God blesses the guy he will still end up marrying the girl

Smileprince:
Well ladies you're right. You don't need to waste time hanging around any guy. More reasons I don't want a relationship now.
It's funny when guys date for long at the end they look for one stupid excuse and leave the girl to marry a younger lady.
I definitely know I'll marry a girl about 4 to 5 years below my age. So I don't need to go into a serious relationship for now. Once I know am ready I'll look for a relationship.
Hence courting for a single year or less. That's how it should be, not when you know deep down you still have more years and you now want a lady to commit to you. Nah I won't advise my sister to.


But seriously what's wrong in starting small these days? You can marry and if you feel you don't have much capacity to take care of a child, you both will do family planning and extend child birth to 3 years later after marriage. Hence instead of calling it wasting of time like OP you'll call it proper planning. Both of you will hustle and things available for the coming child. Simple.

Everything in this life is understanding.

Sir, you reason well.

lovesmile16:


Pls teach us how to do it biko

halfricanadian:


By 24 i wud b married whether d guy im with is ready or not i will slam my wedding iv to him

U tink i will b doin love till 30? Cos of a fellow human being ko jo laye

Im calm now cos im young lemme ger to dat 23 24 age

N*ggas will kno im a female dragon cos of my attitude will scream FIRE CONVERSATIONS ND ATTITUDE

shegsky:
How I Wish You've Informed Him Of Your Future Plan As Well. It Wil Do Him More Good By Telling Him Ur Intentions Rather Than Playing With His Brain.

ayogabriel:
And what's the guarantee of the said lady meeting a guy who is ready almost immediately. You leave the guy, next week he gets a better job. Just pray and fast for him, encourage and support him. And if you can't wait, just leave. That's all.

halfricanadian:


By 24 i wud b married whether d guy im with is ready or not i will slam my wedding iv to him

U tink i will b doin love till 30? Cos of a fellow human being ko jo laye

Im calm now cos im young lemme ger to dat 23 24 age

N*ggas will kno im a female dragon cos of my attitude will scream FIRE CONVERSATIONS ND ATTITUDE

halfricanadian:

Yes i am

Obas101:

Your responses are very matured nd you are very popular on threads. It's good

halfricanadian:
Simple lord please hear my humble prayers
Dear God, on behalf of the entire female race world wide any guy that derives joy in wasting our time wen dey kno dey av no plans for us lord jesus any guy that wanna waste nd delay our time the number of years such guys use to waste our time or lord delay their BREAKTHROUGH,SUCCESS,PROSPERITY,HAPPINESS,MARRIAGE,HAVINH CHILDREN,BE PRODUCTIVE etc. With the same exact year they hurt us.in jesus name i have prayed AMEN

Ladies fear no evil

olac21:


Oloriburuku ni wo yi o...I wonder why your live revolves round male ish like this..just excuse yourself from discussions like this at times ko malo fun ara e ni HBP tori oro okunrin..oponu

jashar:



Sir, you reason well.

halfricanadian:
Simple lord please hear my humble prayers
Dear God, on behalf of the entire female race world wide any guy that derives joy in wasting our time wen dey kno dey av no plans for us lord jesus any guy that wanna waste nd delay our time the number of years such guys use to waste our time or lord delay their BREAKTHROUGH,SUCCESS,PROSPERITY,HAPPINESS,MARRIAGE,HAVINH CHILDREN,BE PRODUCTIVE etc. With the same exact year they hurt us.in jesus name i have prayed AMEN

Ladies fear no evil

shegsky:
Guyz Are Not Ready To Marry A Liability As Wife. Lobatan. The Secret Is These , A Guy Wont Be In An Hurry To Walk U Down D Aisle If Perhaps His Monthly Income Is Nothing To Write Home Abt,but Should In Case His Supposed Wife To Be Has Her Own Job/handwork, He Won't Be Afraid Cos With Time, Things Will Take Shape.

Smileprince:
Well ladies you're right. You don't need to waste time hanging around any guy. More reasons I don't want a relationship now.
It's funny when guys date for long at the end they look for one stupid excuse and leave the girl to marry a younger lady.
I definitely know I'll marry a girl about 4 to 5 years below my age. So I don't need to go into a serious relationship for now. Once I know am ready I'll look for a relationship.
Hence courting for a single year or less. That's how it should be, not when you know deep down you still have more years and you now want a lady to commit to you. Nah I won't advise my sister to.


But seriously what's wrong in starting small these days? You can marry and if you feel you don't have much capacity to take care of a child, you both will do family planning and extend child birth to 3 years later after marriage. Hence instead of calling it wasting of time like OP you'll call it proper planning. Both of you will hustle and things available for the coming child. Simple.

Everything in this life is understanding.

Smileprince:
Just like want to add this again.
It's now a must wedding have to be elaborate and that is causing lot of delay for men and ladies now a days. If only some of you ladies can advise your partner in a serious relationship to the family rights and traditional wedding, small and not too elaborate. I mean those ladies who feel time is no longer on their side.

Once you complete your wedding, cut your clothes according to your materials. If you can't afford to father a child. Let having kids be out of the pictures for the main time.

Many people see marriage as time for giving birth. I love children but I don't see the urgency of bringing a child into the world at the first 2 to 3 years of marriage.

Let's change this mentality of giving birth to immediately after marriage. It's not bad but it's not compulsory too.


Marry and both of you live together and work and earn more money. Enjoy yourself and go for vacations

Flex 3 years before thinking child birth.

And every guys in naija is capable of sustaining a single lady at their abode. So why think marriage is impossible now.

halfricanadian:
Simple lord please hear my humble prayers
Dear God, on behalf of the entire female race world wide any guy that derives joy in wasting our time wen dey kno dey av no plans for us lord jesus any guy that wanna waste nd delay our time the number of years such guys use to waste our time or lord delay their BREAKTHROUGH,SUCCESS,PROSPERITY,HAPPINESS,MARRIAGE,HAVINH CHILDREN,BE PRODUCTIVE etc. With the same exact year they hurt us.in jesus name i have prayed AMEN

Ladies fear no evil