marshborn:
Nairalanders please i need advice, all my relationships don't last because I can't get the initial "like" I had for the person to turn into love (in other words I find it hard to get emotionally attached to anyone).
My last relationship lasted just 2 months before we parted ways, because I always find and excuse to run away from the relationships. Not because I planned to use and dump her, but because I wasn't feeling any emotional attachment to her anymore.

I see my friends having long and productive relationship and it hurts me that I can't do the same, I even wonder how I am going to get married one day.
Please advice me, I think I have a problem.

*NB: I am in my mid- twenties.

skarlett:
But you claimed to love me na

And firstking01 was abusing himself, not me, that I didn't reply your pm

missrock:



what are the attribute u want in a girl

Dotwillis1:
have you got yur self to make money?

MzPecs:
Same thing is happening to me too

marshborn:

skarle tt you remain my nairaland love, but seriously what do you think could be my problem?

Oyimeoyimemua:
ha ! y na?could it be that you had a bad experience

Probably..

marshborn:

The girls aren't the issue, because most of them are the nicest type anyone can ask for, it is me who has the problem.

skarlett:
But you claimed to love me na

And firstking01 was abusing himself, not me, that I didn't reply your pm

firstking01:
My ex-uniport crush, i bet she never knew i was crushing on her.

skarlett:

MzPecs:

Probably..

marshborn:
Nairalanders please i need advice, all my relationships don't last because I can't get the initial "like" I had for the person to turn into love (in other words I find it hard to get emotionally attached to anyone).
My last relationship lasted just 2 months before we parted ways, because I always find an excuse to run away from the relationships. Not because I planned to use and dump her, but because I wasn't feeling any emotional attachment to her anymore.

I see my friends having long and productive relationship and it hurts me that I can't do the same, I even wonder how I am going to get married one day.
Please advice me, I think I have a problem.

*NB: I am in my mid- twenties.

Essence6055:


Its simply... You are not dating the right person and you are a good looking guy from what I checked in your profile

Now I think you are one of those guys who walk up to a beautiful lady and woo her and start dating her... You walk up to her because her smile is beautiful, her face is gorgeous, her ass, breasts, clothes, scent and all is just magnificent....

Now I don't expect this relationship to last, because it is not based on inward appearance.... Now Imagine you meeting a girl and she is so hardworking, she has a face that lightens up people whenever she is around... Her presence brings a moment of happiness.. Her voice is angelic... Her words promote positivity and achievement.... Her self esteem/confidence is admirable

First you will wonder who is she? Your curiosity makes you to go in to learn more... The more you learn the more interested you become... when you are with her you will get the feeling of that happiness people feel around her....

With time you are in love (with the right person) and then you are on you way to woo her ....

So Mr. Good Looks Do you think you can fall in Love?

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise...

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Greatzeus:
Do you love people generally,apart from relationship s,do you love and interact well with families and colleagues, if no then,you have a real problem,if yes then maybe you haven't found the right person for you.
Personally I will say forget about bf/gf stuff and focus on getting a life partner,God help you.

Purpletee:
you will eventually love one day...I pray the lucky lady will love you too... stay blessed

missrock:


did someone broke your heart before?