I'm so much in love with my boyfriend who is now my ex. I demanded we broke up but ever since we did I haven't been fine, I cannot but think of him. It's like he exist in all that I do, I can't think straight no more! He has been cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend claiming it's hard to push her away because the girl knows his family. His ex insults me on all social networks but I took everything from him until now that I feel like I have to let go.

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From your post, it seems you haven't moved on. How then can we help you?
At one point, he was your Ex, at another point, you are thinking of letting go of your bf.
Are u still together or not?

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divinehand2003:
From your post, it seems you haven't moved on. How then can we help you?
At one point, he was your Ex, at another point, you are thinking of letting go of your bf.
Are u still together or not?

No mind am..

Continue thinking of him. It will help you to move on. Why am I not bothered

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divinehand2003:
From your post, it seems you haven't moved on. How then can we help you?
At one point, he was your Ex, at another point, you are thinking of letting go of your bf.
Are u still together or not?

She said the guy has a habit of keeping his "ex" in the loop, so she is definitely still in the loop as an "ex"

He got back with his ex when we disagreed within two days
I am a 17-year-old girl 200 level student at the university.
I'm so much in love with my boyfriend who is now my ex.
I demanded we broke up but ever since we did I haven't been fine, I cannot but think of him. It's like he exist in all that I do, I can't think straight no more!
He has been cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend claiming it's hard to push her away because the girl knows his family. His ex insults me on all social networks but I took everything from him until now that I feel like I have to let go.
With him I have built my upcoming life, with him I have decided my future and its like I can't love another. He has taken control of my heart infact my life. He is the only one I can talk about my problems with and now that he isn't with me no more I think a lot. We stay in the same hostel in campus and it has been really hard on me because of this.
He got back with his ex when we disagreed within two days. I think they cool now. but I love him, he is my world my life my everything and now that he is gone I need techniques to be able to stand back on my feet, to go on without him and be the woman I always wanted to be. Please help me.
Cynthia.
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Hello Cynthia,
Your case is a simple one. Let him go.
From your mail, your ex-boyfriend is still hung on his ex-girlfriend which was why he got back together with her right after you broke up with him.
As much as you say you love him, it's clear to see that he doesn't feel the same way and it's sad because you said you've built your life around im.
What you have to do now is to untangle yourself from the drama associating with your ex brings, learn to be more sociable, go out more often. You are still very young and have your whole life ahead of you, for now you can just go on dates not because you are on the lookout for a potential boyfriend, but just to have fun without any sexual attachment involved.
Find other things that make you happy, set achievable goals for yourself.
If he’s the one for you, he’ll notice the distance and come back but you don't have to dive back into that pattern. Let him know that you made a choice to let him go and you intend to keep it that way.
I wish you all the best.


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op....let your ex be your ex. You can never ever force someone to love you. Your ex doesn't love you because if he does...he wouldn't be playing with your emotions. so forget about him and move on.

he made u smile no doubt.... but there are countless guys that will Mk u smile and laugh same time... it all depends on ur mindset... u can't leave him in ur hrt and expect a new guy 2 suddenly perform magic with u... I find it absurd when ladies says they can't love another... it's a Blatant lie. if u smiled when u guys where 2geta.. u can equally laugh with some other person... the ball is entirely in ur court. *peace*

if you want to let him go, just make up your mind and do so asap. This way u finding it hard to leave, i guess he's your first love

Lol so he's committing incest then.

@Op abeg how old r u? Cos it sounds as if yuh kinda immature,so upon all dis inflation wey dey evrywia na boyfrd ma8r b yuh wahala abi? Now lemme advice u,wen sm1 cheats on u in a r/ship u v jst 2choices 1 brkup wiv dem n move on,2 accept em bk n 4gv em buh bearing in mind dt dey may do it agn,cos if dey did'nt respect u enuf 2do it d 1st tym,wats 2stp em 4rm doin it agn.