why do i have this strong feeling that your sisters BF will dump her after all her effort, i'll just advice you to sit her down and talk sense into her, relationship is a 2 way thing, they both should be sacrificing in the relationship, women has a different mentality, thats why they are always at the regreting end... guide her bro, you know what men can do, she's going astray.

Skinglow:
So many unreal stories here just for attention....a fictional story used by a presenter(tisan) on raypower fm few days ago. Word for word!!! Smh.

Hey, a jab is really no fun....Why will I seek your attention ? Will your attention put a dime in pocket. Come off it..Don't cook false stories just to discredit someone.

Marcan:

Why will a girl own a car at school in the first place ?

are you for real? I owned a car in school and that didnt affect me negatively in any way, so why do you think a girl shouldnt own a car while in school?

Most people are already jumping into conclusion even when you haven't investigated the real issue, what if she was telling the truth? I strongly suggest you go to her school to find out what really happened, she driving a car in school I'm sure you must have weighed the pros and cons of it before giving her the benefit to have one, just see it as one of the cons. When you have investigated you can take any advice given on this forum that best suits you

Nyceguy92:
Driving a car on campus in Nigeria is always seen as a sign of affluence and it has a way of attracting undue attention to the point of distraction.
It appears your sister's boyfriend is on the reckless side because when you drive someone else's car as a student, you exercise great care.

"Spending recklessly" is a subjective opinion. It needs to be quantified.
Does she buy her boyfriend items beyond the reach of the average student's purse?

Talk to her about the company she keeps, male or female.
You may repair her car on a proviso of your choosing - mostly to be of good behavior, etc.

Alternatively, why doesn't she live in the campus with other students?
That way, she will be able to focus more on her studies.

My opinion sha.

Just admiring your grammatical composition. U speak really well. I luv that.

Marcan:
Why will a girl own a car at school in the first place ?

Chairman, please what stops a girl from owning a car at school o?
I think it's high time Nairaland started banning Misogynists and Sexists!

OP sebi u be yahoo boy, maga dey pay u then u shouldn't be vexed ur sister is a maga to someone else. It's tick for tak

innolala:
No campus shuttles or no public transports? Hw do u expect her to focus? U r teaching her nt to wrk hard. Big bro is there 4 u, a gal in school wit a car is nt a rite tin to do 4 nw. Let her see d other side of life in school

Support ur opinion

Chepy1:
Hello guys
I have a sis who is about 22 years old, schools in a private university. She lives alone off her school campus but a friend of hers stays with her, she own a car which is less than six months that she uses for school runs and other social activity. She called me a couple of minutes ago saying she had mistakenly crashed the car against the fence of her building and she needed me to get it repaired. But the truth about it according to what a friend of mine who studies in her in school told me was that she is seeing a particular guy, who she recklessly spends on, and it was he who damaged the car and not my sis..... I plan on paying her a visit tomorrow at school.... The question here is should I strip her completely of all the benefits she enjoys or talk to her about the guy who she is allegedly dating

do you have another sister?.. holla @ me.

If u force her to leave d guy trust me ur only making her love d guy d more and run after him..cease doz properties in her possession for a while and d guy will run away..!!!

Trina0936:

As long as she got the money through a decent way,whether its from a man or woman.
E pain you sha! How many ladies you don dig gold from??
Your conscience dey flog you??
Gigolo

I dont need a woman's money..women eat my money..Not the other way round..so ur so wrong my dear..

abeg introduce her to me

Op, don't pamper that girl LEST you spoil her! Strip her of that car immediately, shout at her like thunder, if she tries to raise her voice at you THEN give her a brain formating slap! Op, too much comfort on campus makes someone's child spoil and loose focus! Her pirmary aim on campus is to graduate with good grades, go for NYSC and after that you use your little connection to fix her somewhere to work and earn her money where she can spend lavishly on any thing she desires after all it's her money!

Op, FAILURE to dicipline her now might cause the following in the not too distant future;
(1) She might not graduate from that school
(2) She might "CARRY BELLÉ"
(3) She might become a drug addict because of that Monkey she follows
(4) She might embark on ABORTION spree!
(5) She might loose focus in life which might take her time to recover
(6) She might be labelled "the most stupid/foolish girl on campus (such title might not be good for her)
(7) She might become a disgrace to the family ETC.

N/B: Op, please don't forget, a stitch in time saves nine! It is better to cast the rod while it's still hot!

Op, you can thank me later if you like!!!

I have a feeling your sister school in Okada.......@op if yes I have a gist for you about your sister.

cozy7:
Just admiring your grammatical composition. U speak really well. I luv that.

Lol..
Thank you very much. I find your commendation very encouraging.
I try to take time to articulate my responses so as to get across easily to readers.

teelord1:
I have a feeling your sister school in Okada.......@op if yes I have a gist for you about your sister.

Do you know her

maybe she is inlove ;Dmaybe she is inlove

olive282:




Is dis really necessary? .....cz i dnt tink it is

The guy admitted to scamming people for money in the other thread. Now he wants to wave his moral wand. Yes it is necessary!

Chepy1:
Hello guys
I have a sis who is about 22 years old, schools in a private university. She lives alone off her school campus but a friend of hers stays with her, she own a car which is less than six months that she uses for school runs and other social activity. She called me a couple of minutes ago saying she had mistakenly crashed the car against the fence of her building and she needed me to get it repaired. But the truth about it according to what a friend of mine who studies in her in school told me was that she is seeing a particular guy, who she recklessly spends on, and it was he who damaged the car and not my sis..... I plan on paying her a visit tomorrow at school.... The question here is should I strip her completely of all the benefits she enjoys or talk to her about the guy who she is allegedly dating

just sit her down and talk to her and make her see reasons.

fexyrich:
I dont need a woman's money..women eat my money..Not the other way round..so ur so wrong my dear..

Who we go ask??

I think she is ur girl friend, just my opinion though.

what is a car in school?

Nigerian sha...car don turn to cocoa house.

Trina0936:

Who we go ask??

abeg help me ask google

fexyrich:
abeg help me ask google

Google no sabi u na!

Chepy1:

Me bro

You bought a car for her through gee

Marcan:
Which kain yeye school runs. collect everything she has jare.

Lolz ,Na ur thing??

Trina0936:

Google no sabi u na!

who tell u..

Chepy1:

Baba, I know my sis, she doesn't always make good decisions.....But I'll find out about the guy sha

she doesn't make good decisions yet you got her a car and she lives off campus away from fellow students that could have advised her on what decisions to take especially concerning the type of friends she keeps?? Hmmm sadly you have set her on a dangerous path that may lead to unintended consequences. withdraw the car and try to get her in an environment where there will be fellow students to keep her excesses in check. Act fast, act now to save that girl from stories that touch.

General2COAS:

What if she focuses her mindset on sorting all in a bid to impress her bro academically?

Someone who thinks about using her money to sort in order to pass well is still thinking well. Compared to someone using her money to entertain her boyfriends excesses.

Thank you.

veave:





Someone who thinks about using her money to sort in order to pass well is still thinking well. Compared to someone using her money to entertain her boyfriends excesses.

Thank you.

What about d after effects ?