Guys, can we have an unbiased, say-it-as-it-is discussion this morning?

Who cheats more in a relationship? Men or Women? What do you think?

Someone said this:
Most of the relationships that break because of cheating happen because the cheater is a girl and not a boy.

Typical Scenarios:
1. Girl not happy because guy is over protective. Let's punish him by dating someone else who is flirting with her.
2. Guy is in a different city. There is no one to take me to different places, there is no one
to pamper me, oh the guy in my office flirts with me and also takes care of me. I think he loves me. Let's date him. My boyfriend is surely not going to know.
3. I had a fight with my boyfriend today, this other guy is pampering and supporting me. He is so nice. I should date him. And i start dating him.
4. My boyfriend can not earn enough to keep me like a queen. I know this other guy who earns a lot and also seems to be attracted towards me. Lets date him.
And all this while they forget to breakup with her boyfriend. This is cheating and girls do it a lot, mercilessly and guilt-free.

Another person said:

Biologically speaking, men are more likely to cheat.
Men can typically impregnate women every few minutes, while a woman can conceive only a limited number of times in her lifetime. Worst case scenario it would be every 9 months before menopause.
As such, men are more likely to cheat than women.

Read what this other guy said:[b][/b]

Both are equally likely to cheat.
Men are wired to impregnate every subsequent woman they can find.
(even if it means leaving a previous spouse)
Women are wired to to get impregnated with the best man they can find.
(even if it means leaving a previous spouse)

But then, we are humans and can choose not to follow our lower, primal tendencies.

What do you think? Which of these 3 people do you agree with?

Men cheat more.

It has no cure,it is somewhere very deep inside us to cheat.

Aside me,which other man has not cheated here on Nairaland?

People say men cheat more because we cheat openly. While the female folks knows how to cover-up when they cheat. They are very smart cheaters(cheat with brain) while we cheat with our p****

Come to think of it, an woman will always have admirers either married/single virtually wherever she goes. Meaning they are most opportuned to cheat while men are dying to have one to cheat with.

In my opinion,women cheat most.

It depends on what a partner see at the opposite sex before he/she cheat.When one love material things rather than attraction for his/her partner there is bound to be infidelity.

Sexxkillz has said it all

Lamentations.....

Its all on in the character of a person. Period. No ifs, ands, buts.

If realization of The begotten money can buy you "love" and causes you to cheat on your wife, then the POTENTIAL to cheat WAS always there. It was just in hibernation.

Money wont buy you love! Money will not keep love. Only the love of God and a good woman will. Marry wisely and you would not have to worry about what she does and doesnt do that will cause you to misbehave.


Money isnt everything. Keep thinking it does, and you will be sorely disappointed with life.

With that mindset of money can buy you anything, it will forever elude you. And if you do get money, its your soul that will suffer!


#moneyisnoteverything.

skarlett:
Sexxkillz has said it all

Do you have your own opinion. Think for yourself.

na men oooo

Xiadnat:

Do you have your own opinion. Think for yourself.

I did think for myself. I just don't believe in needless repetition

HungerBAD:
Men cheat more.

It has no cure,it is somewhere very deep inside us to cheat.

Aside me,which other man has not cheated here on Nairaland?

So you r a saint?

FlirtyKaren:
Guys, can we have an unbiased, say-it-as-it-is discussion this morning?

Who cheats more in a relationship? Men or Women? What do you think?

Someone said this:
Most of the relationships that break because of cheating happen because the cheater is a girl and not a boy.

Typical Scenarios:
1. Girl not happy because guy is over protective. Let's punish him by dating someone else who is flirting with her.
2. Guy is in a different city. There is no one to take me to different places, there is no one
to pamper me, oh the guy in my office flirts with me and also takes care of me. I think he loves me. Let's date him. My boyfriend is surely not going to know.
3. I had a fight with my boyfriend today, this other guy is pampering and supporting me. He is so nice. I should date him. And i start dating him.
4. My boyfriend can not earn enough to keep me like a queen. I know this other guy who earns a lot and also seems to be attracted towards me. Lets date him.
And all this while they forget to breakup with her boyfriend. This is cheating and girls do it a lot, mercilessly and guilt-free.

Another person said:

Biologically speaking, men are more likely to cheat.
Men can typically impregnate women every few minutes, while a woman can conceive only a limited number of times in her lifetime. Worst case scenario it would be every 9 months before menopause.
As such, men are more likely to cheat than women.

Read what this other guy said:[b][/b]

Both are equally likely to cheat.
Men are wired to impregnate every subsequent woman they can find.
(even if it means leaving a previous spouse)
Women are wired to to get impregnated with the best man they can find.
(even if it means leaving a previous spouse)

But then, we are humans and can choose not to follow our lower, primal tendencies.

What do you think? Which of these 3 people do you agree with?

Men 60% and women 40%

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