yomz1e:
So you don't trust your mum.... Guy you are wicked!

rosalieene:

Then what would you say about those men that only eat newly prepared fresh soups everyday.
Football is not everything, family comes first. This is one of the reasons why there are divorces here and there(because the woman doesn't tolerate it as the man doesn't help in the house but only goes to watch ball.) In essence, The man should try and help sometimes even if he only goes to the kitchen to keep her company. At least its a way of encouragement.

jabojafa:
you are right dear...... But insisting on eating freshly prepared soup everyday by ur wife na purnishment abeg. D woman go quick old.

beautiful232:
But I can cook indomie nau

Kenneth205:


Trust no one bro..

Smellymouth, Tosyne2much, Mediapace, Smellyanus.


How una dey?

repogirl:
Now you think you just made sense abi?

Ngozi told you she cooks for her husband? While she was in Nigeria and her family remained in the US, she was cooking and sending food to her family via email abi UPS abi?

Or ia it Hilary Clinton that goes home to be cooking for her husband everyday, while on tour and campaigning to be elected president of united states.

Remi tinubu nko, after a long day at work, goes to Lagos from abuja to cook for her husband, abi?

Guy,pls upgrade your thinking. There's more to life than food. Even Bible says man shall not live by bread alone. The worth of a woman isn't in spending her whole life in the kitchen cooking your food. Not in this present time.

Like I said, there are options and she can learn, if she wants to. It shouldn't be the end of a marriage, marriage is more than food only.

wadetaw202:



Marriage is not just about the man and his wife; it is more or less about your children.

What precedence are you laying for your kids when their mom can't cook or wash or do simple things a woman should do in the home?

You claimed someone learnt. Well, I have seen someone who never learnt. She is still in her husband's home today unable to cook or take care of the home. She is using her younger sister, who is living with her, as free maid.

That her sister is the one taking care of the home and the children simply because the elder sister wasn't taught how to do it when she was younger. She is so useless that she can't even prepare custard even after 10 years of marriage. All she does is to come back from work, take her bath and go and rest or watch tv or play with her husband.

In the morning, she will take her bath and head for work without touching any work in the home.

And it may interest you to know that she is a teacher in her kids' school, yet she will not take the kids to school in her car; she will ask her younger sister, the "free maid", to bring the children to school, just because she couldn't do "kids' wahala". She could give birth, but couldn't care for the children.

The story above should tell you that when a woman doesn't know how to cook, she will also lack in several other ways. A woman who can't cook is a half-baked adult. She will also have problems in several other ways.

Because you Dont want a free maid, is that an excuse to marry someone who doesn't know how to take care of the home? Someone who had house help working for her while she was growing up and never had to do anything? Someone who never had the opportunity to take responsibilities for the home as a teenager?

I Dont want that kind of woman in my life. You are free to make such your wife if you are a man, since you Dont want free maid.

And if you are a woman, you are free to allow your male child to marry a woman who can't cook or care for the home.

It is your choice.

PinketteDawn:


Nobody created by God is useless. Note that yet again.

You are also missing the whole point of marriage my dear. It is not more or less about children. It is about the two people involved. Some couples may choose not to have children. Even if you do have children, at some point, they will leave and it still boils down to the two people involved in the marriage.

Yes, the woman in question cannot cook or clean or take care of children, she is still living with her husband and they have been together for 10 years and he does not regard her as useless. If you do not want that kind of woman in your life, it doesn't mean that those kind of women are useless, note that.

Men are supposed to provide for their family. Many men today are not providing for their families, yet they are not regarded as useless by their wives. They are still living happily with their wives. Does that mean they are providing a wrong precedence for their children? I don't get it. If a man is not living up to expectations, his wife is supposed to cover him. If a woman is not, her husband should send her packing because she is useless. Na wa ohh.

Apparently, the day your wife becomes incapacitated, the so called love you have for her will disappear and you will start looking for another good cook who can keep a home. This is the very reason why men discard their wives when she is diagnosed of a terminal illness after many years of marriage. May God help us all.

pcguru1:


No I won't , if I come early and have energy I can try to cook it takes nothing from me

Dexema:
for the First time I would disagree with you repogirl, how about the years leading to these women becoming public figures? At one point or the other they must have done these chores, a woman should know how to cook and be ready to serve her hubby and family with her culinary skills, even if she's not always around.
BTW hope you are good, how are your soldiers doing?

beautiful232:
But I can cook indomie nau

PinketteDawn:


Man: It is pathetic to see women who don't know how to cook.

Woman: Yeah. You know what is even more pathetic? Seeing a man who decides not to learn how to cook because he feels a woman will always do it for him.

Moral of the story: Every 'grown' adult should know how to cook. You will one day move out of your parents' home so you need to know how to cook to survive, especially in a harsh economy.

'Grown' because some adults today are just babies in disguise.

wadetaw202:


May you end up with a wife who can't do anything. Please say amen!

PinketteDawn:


I will end up with a wife who loves me enough to be the woman I want her to be. (This is if I happen to be a man)

I will end up with a man who loves me enough to be the man I want him to be. (This is if happen to be a woman)


And may you end up with a woman who is the best cook and home maker in the world but leaves you immediately your money stops flowing. Say Amen to that!

repogirl:
Now you think you just made sense abi?

Ngozi told you she cooks for her husband? While she was in Nigeria and her family remained in the US, she was cooking and sending food to her family via email abi UPS abi?

Or ia it Hilary Clinton that goes home to be cooking for her husband everyday, while on tour and campaigning to be elected president of united states.

Remi tinubu nko, after a long day at work, goes to Lagos from abuja to cook for her husband, abi?

Guy,pls upgrade your thinking. There's more to life than food. Even Bible says man shall not live by bread alone. The worth of a woman isn't in spending her whole life in the kitchen cooking your food. Not in this present time.

Like I said, there are options and she can learn, if she wants to. It shouldn't be the end of a marriage, marriage is more than food only.

repogirl:
I noticed that they mostly interviewed sokpan boys who lack exposure but the few men who were older and possibly already married were more tolerant of the idea.

Yes, a woman should know how to cook but in the case where she doesn't, other factors should also determine the best action to take.

Does she want to learn? WHERE D HELL HAVE SHE BEEN ALL HER LIFE THAT SHE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO COOK. U CAN WRITE LONG SPEECHES TRYING TO GO AROUND D SUBJECT MATTER IF A WOMAN DOESNT KNOW HOW TO COOK SHE IS NOTHING BUT A HOE!!!!!
Does she have other redeeming qualities about her?
Her personality, etc....

What if she doesn't know how to cook but she is industrious, hardworking and a really caring woman who contributes financially to the family, would you still act the same way? I doubt it.

Modified:

Chai! I go find trouble this early morning. Okay o, I have heard you people. I was only playing devil's advocate.
So please stop mentioning me.

Still sha, there's a lot more to marriage than food cooking. Married people will understand

philip0906:
[size=13pt]A woman that does not know how to cook?? Wow!
What was she doing during her teenage and youthful years?? Such women only occupy space in their matrimonial homes
I can't imagine my wife not knowing how to cook afang soup garnished with 85 shredded ponmos a.k.a show boy topped with isi ewu and bent stock fish. Which kain wife be that? [/size]

Hahaha spot on baba

rosalieene:

There are so many men out there that insist on that. Probably because of their upbringing .
That's why courtship is necessary.

Mediapace:
Am OK And you ?

raayah:


Can't a man also cook all the soups and stew for tge weekend?

wadetaw202:




I still repeat it, your wife will never know how to cook or do anything in the home. May she come from a spoilt home where house helps do everything, while she only plays with her smartphone and watch telemundo.

And if you are a woman, may this be the portion of your son. In Jesus Name, Amen!

lordyugo:


so am guessing a woman should repair minor faults in cars, fix electrical faults in d house ,make repairs etc? Since roles hv changed abi changing of roles applies only to men?
And u pple wonder y guys leave u

jabojafa:
my dear a man can do dt oooh... But is/waz ur father doing dat for ur mum?

beautiful232:
But I can cook indomie nau

raayah:


Well, those are specialized skills and strength , that not even most men have.. Anyone can cook. It's like cloth washing.

beautiful232:



Aww

nuelzz04:
daddy adeboye come see ooo ....she doesn't want to learn how to cook

lordyugo:


nvr knew being a renowned chef isnt a specialised skills nd strength, u dnt say lool.
womens logic eh , am sure it confuses u pple too

raayah:


Not quite often, but anytime mum was down or travelled, he cooked amazing food.

He always talked about how he loved to cook, since his mum gave birth to only boys and they had to cook.