i have been dating this guy for a while now then all of a sudden he started behaving funny.we agreed that he would come and see my mumsy then form then we will start making arrangement towards our wedding. one day he practically threw me out of his house. then for a whole week, he refused to answer my calls. after a week, he sent a txt that i should come.he did as if nothin happen. another i came to his house and i found out that my clothes which normally i kept in his wardrobe was no longer there. he hid my clothes. i later found clothes belonging to a girl. he did not bother to explain anything to me. i even as far as borrowing him money but stil now he has not paid me back. giving me lousy excuses.right now he does not call me and when i call him he sounds very cold. please what should i do. my mum has been asking me of him, i dont know what to tell her

He wants to dump you, dump his arse first- cant you read the handwritten on his butt and butt hole?

AjaraEwuro:

He wants to dump you, dump his arse first- cant you read the handwritten on his butt and butt hole?

@Poster, Girl act smart and dump him first,

Is ur boyfriend's name James Bassey


you berra move on and never look back.

@poster

dump his sorry arse asap!
cant you see the writings on the wall!

Dump his arse 1st, be smart and act 1st, dump is arse asap.Is that the best advice you people gat?girl listen,YOU ARE DUMPED ALREADY.So the best advice is to move on.

Girl, flee abeg. dump him. if all u've said is the truth the writting is very clear. and also no amount of beggin should change ur mind.because u will never be respected if both of u gets married eventually

When a guy starts behaving that way it shows his interest has really depreciated so the best thing to do is to dump him before he does cuz he is trending that part!!!

girl listen,YOU ARE DUMPED ALREADY.So the best advice is to move on.

lol,  yorke, im impressed!

What are u waiting for??

but if i may ask what did u do that makes him
drow u out of the house, hope u are not forcing urself on him
well if u know that u did not do something funny then go ahead with ur life
and dump his ass

wouldn't it have been beta if i was forcing myself. i was practically doing everything a woman wud do. i was, cook, clean. i even do some of his biz transaction on his behalf. my dear, i know that i tried. if nobody will praise me, i will praise myself

sead:

wouldn't it have been beta if i was forcing myself. i was practically doing everything a woman wud do. i was, cook, clean. i even do some of his biz transaction on his behalf. my dear, i know that i tried. if nobody will praise me, i will praise myself

.Now i know where the problem is coming for.you mean you only cook,clean and transaction biz on his behalf.ok, you've being stabbing him of sex that's why him dumped you.

i did not starve him. i gave it when ever he wanted it. if its that, i na that one i no dey slack oh

York must she say every thing she's doing for him
just that u guys are not grateful
poster just dump the dude and move with ur life

Stella N:

York must she say every thing she's doing for him
just that u guys are not grateful 
poster just dump the dude and move with your life

.I have to knw stella.since you are perfect in that area @ poster can i get to knw.

@poster
Looks like he already dumped you. Better leave him alone.

Girl thats your cue, leave before it gets dirty.

Gush. . .do some girls need to be slapped/beaten to know when a man doesn't want you around him any longer?

Very stupid post by a daft poster!

Must they spell it out to you that your an expired waste of bodily matter that your ex boyfriend has discovered and kicked you to the curb? You have been dumped and your yesterday's history. If you like go and hang yourself! You are already yesterday's dog vomit to your ex!

kanye West:

Very stupid post by a daft poster!

Must they spell it out to you that your an expired waste of bodily matter that your ex boyfriend has discovered and kicked you to the curb? You have been dumped and your yesterday's history. If you like go and hang yourself! You are already yesterday's dog vomit to your ex!

thats soo uncalled for and cruel.

sead:

i have been dating this guy for a while now then all of a sudden he started behaving funny.we agreed that he would come and see my mumsy then form then we will start making arrangement towards our wedding. one day he practically threw me out of his house. then for a whole week, he refused to answer my calls. after a week, he sent a txt that i should come.he did as if nothin happen. another i came to his house and i found out that my clothes which normally i kept in his wardrobe was no longer there. he hid my clothes. i later found clothes belonging to a girl. he did not bother to explain anything to me. i even as far as borrowing him money but stil now he has not paid me back. giving me lousy excuses.right now he does not call me and when i call him he sounds very cold. please what should i do. my mum has been asking me of him, i dont know what to tell her

you are an idiot, a certified slowpoke, a good for nothing buffon, a prematured goat, a cheap assed LovePeddler,. . . . . . .

can't YOU read between the lines - YOU HAVE OVERSTAYED YOUR WELCOME IN THE GUY'S LIFE .SIMPLE! PLEASE WALK OUT GENTLY B4 HIS NEW CATCH PRACTICALLY SLAM THE DOOR ON YOUR UGL, (sorry, pretty) FACE. DONT U GET IT? DT IS THE OTHER SIDE OF THE ENCASED DECEIT CALLED ''love''.

GOODLUCK AS YOU MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

@poster, You sure say you they tell us true
shey no be say you don offend am somehow and not telling us what you did to him, ??

Well lets just assume that is some truth in what you have said then, their is a writing on the walls every where say "trama gulika mospira" meaning "dump him"

Each time I read of heart break, I feel sorry for our generation. Love is becoming an element of oppression. Unfortunately, man must experience it to be happy!
@poster,
That cant be complete truth, you know?

I believe u are hiding something from us. this is not the complete truth or maybe there is something u have done which u feel he didnt know but he is already aware of it and just playing cool.

And the issue of him hiding ur clothes and finding another woman's cloth in his house means that u now have a very strong competitor, if not better rival. You should take ur time and look inward to find out what u have actually done lately or remotely to warrant his sudden change of attitude.

Pls, dont mind people that advice u to dump his sorry ass, most of them will not easily let go on their own love after such a long commitment. U never can tell this may be a trial to determine the way u will react to things when u eventually enter his house as a wifey.

Also, u have not seen the other gil and u are not sure if the clothes u see belongs to his sister/cousin, I will advice to trend with caution before u carry ur hand to put sand-sand for ur garri.

Best of luck.

You were a Gf and not his wife, it's a pity though. He is not the one for you, move on.

Thats worse than my situation, do you want to really be married to an A whole, If he treats you like this before the wedding it only gets worse when the stress of life are added into it. Then imagine married with kids and he kicks you out. Anyman that can be that cold to a women doesn't love her. MY advice: tell him its over and don't except any lame excuses. , do your self a favor get your favorite pair of running shoes and run away to the arms of a better more trustworthy man.