Some girls enjoy being deceived. Young girls are growing rapidly every year. They grow up with resplendent beauty, agile and intelligent. You are aging and depreciating. For 1--5yrs your status still says in a relationship. Who are you deceiving? You are not in a relationship but in delusion.
For 2yrs you have won engagement ring. Your status reads "Engaged". Guys merely play in your inbox nothing serious coming your way. You are handcuffed not engaged.
A guy will chat you up and you will say "single but not searching". You are deceiving yourself. No guy will take you serious on hearing this because it shows you are in self denial. Every young/unmarried woman is searching.
A guy chats you up. Says he likes you. The next day you start to tell him your financial problems. Are you kidding me? Then you start to ask for rent money, your phone was bad, you have not paid your school fees and shit like that. Are you a liability company?
Hey ladies start telling yourselves the truth. If you are above 25 and you are single your value decreases every year. Stop forming every single woman is seeking so are men.
A guy dumped you and you brand all men bad and the same. If a man dumps you do not make a case against all men. Men also get dumped by the women they sincerely loved and yet they moved on. Do not say all men are bad unless you have been with all of them.
I want to suggest that you look inward if more than one man has dumped you. You might be the reason why they dump you not the innocent old woman in your village.
You need to be happy that the man who dumped you married a woman not a man. Be happy also for making it to the last round. He dumped many before you. You tried making it to the finals.
Stop looking for a ready made man. Dating is not a lucrative job and marriage is for two people that determined to build a home together not a resort for lazy women.
Keep your door open and the room of your heart clean. Stop following, liking, and getting inspired by the post of most of the single mother/women. Over 98% of them are not happy and will not encourage you to succeed where they failed. It is not because they hate you, but because that is human nature.
Make it a habit to be THANKFUL AND APPRECIATIVE EACH TIME A MAN SHOWS INTEREST IN YOU. It does not hurt. I love American girls for this. Even when they do not want you or the fact that you spoke to them, they will say with a smile, "no, but thanks for noticing". At least be gratefully proud that someone noticed you.
Most of the times people are victims of their day dreams. Determine to make a life out of your labour. Unless you want to discover Mongo Park, then you can keep looking for the man with the virtues of John de Baptist.

Hmmmm

Eziokwu

true talk

tell dem oooodem no go here

Brother lalasticlala. What do you think?