Rooneyboy:

It's the duty of the girl to help the guy and give him some time, i know time heals such things.As a matter of fact i ve gone through this before, it was so bad that i was always calling my ex's name while sleeping with my present girl.

Duty? Na maid? .

princekevo:

Oh gosh!! Some ladies can be so lazy even to build up trust and love.
The love that existed in his first relationship was as a result of hardwork from the both parties.
It took them time, months and probably years to build such a strong love and trust. It took them tolerance and endurance for such love to exist.
And some ladies thinks he can jst jump into love with them over night.
If the guy was so open to tell you the truth means he is ready to give you a chance to build up another love. And and i see it as an act of laziness running away from such an opportunity.

This is a man that genuine loved b4 and can genuinely love again. We all know that is hard to fine, as many ladies prefer a man who can promise them true love at first sight. A true relationship is not jst that easy to built and if the man tells you 'oh i easily got over the past', then u need to run coz he has no value for relationship. We are all human and we know how we feel when we lost what is precious to us.

If we believe that love is the true foundation of every relationship, then it must start from the scratch ,and such situation give u the opportunity to start up that foundation.If the mans heart is being won at last he will be come yours forever. Who knows, he might finally love you more than the Ex. but this time don't make the same mistake, go for blood test to check your compatibility b4 it becomes too late.

Sorry to say but i disagree but just on the basis of me
I get over things easily. . .even if i value it, it's easy for me to move on because i 'think' things through and not solely 'feel' things through. It's all in the mind As for my not being able to be in that relationship. . .trust me, it's for his benefit. . .he will prolly come out more damaged than how he went in. I no fit baby pesin ooo.

madoba:

Dating a man who is still in love with his ex, is one of the worst things you can do to yourself.Its a very unpleasant experience.Trust me I've been there and I've promised myself its not going to happen again.

The man i got involved in with,was constantly throwing his past relationship in my face and I felt treated like the other woman whose's feelings didn't really count and who came in as second place to his ex. It was always,Ese used to say this,ese used to say that, Ese did this or ese did that blab,blah, blah.He often called me by his ex's name even when we were having a serious conversation.

I often took the back seat in his life when it came to his ex,and he was always so quick to remind me about his relationship with this other lady making comments like technically Ese is still his girlfriend, he still has deep feelings for her, etc etc. etc It was so annoying and i felt more anger than jealousy because he wouldn't acknowledge the fact that we were in a dating relationship, he kept refering to me as "a friend" even though we had gone past the level of friendship.

I soon realised i was dealing with a very selfish man who was only using me to get through the heart ache he was feeling as a result of his broken relationship with his ex,and that even made me madder.I got so angry/mad after a particular incident that i just told him off for good. You wont believe the guy now came back saying he loves me and he has decided to let go of his ex,guys must really think we are gullible.I gave him the boot and asked him to get out and stay out of my life because that was what i intended and planned to do as well.

the guy practically became a nuisance afterwards, he began to harass with me constant phone calls (to my home line),unannouced visits to my office and home.I refused to answer his calls and even changed my mobile number and refused to give him the new number because i was ready to move to on and i didn't need someone like him in my life anymore. I think he finally got the messsage because of my cold silent treatment.

I feel so so relieved and alot happier with myself and with my life now that its over, becaus

juicybabe:
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