KevMitnick:
Real strength is the ability to keep your aggression under control. Unfortunately, a lot of ladies only realize this when they are old. As they hit their late 30s, they start craving a soft partner to treat them nice, after wasting the youthful part of their lives with men who treat them like shit. It's a test to know who I can roll with, if it gets into your head that I treat you with value and you behave aloof and disinterested, one day you'll wake up and discover that I've disappeared. Now I have most of my exs wanting to come back, they crave the love and care and want to reciprocate it now. Sorry

tommychow:
You even often hear it from females themselves saying "we want a man who can be tough, controlling and put us in our place. We don't like guys that can't be aggressive". For y'all to ask for these kinda men to keep you in check, you're indirectly admitting you have issues, that you lack self-discipline, that you need a daddy figure to boss you like you're still a 12 year old.

I have seen this time and time again and it pisses me off. You'd is a woman gentle and submissive as hell when she's with the domineering, proud guy but when she's with the gentle, chivalrous guy watch her instantly or sloooowly transform to being obnoxious. I said "slowly" because some females gradually develop into unnecessarily rude; you'll just notice one day "ah ahn, when did you start talking to me like this?" "What's with the bad attitude towards me?" "But I'm good to you". Even if she doesn't show rudeness, she'll show disappointment and subtle lack of interest because you lack the balls to 'daddy' her.

I know being aggressive with females works like a charm, in fact I'll be wondering why? GUYS, always form "i don't take rubbish" every time she disrespects you in the slightest way even if its unintentional and watch her melt and fall deeper in love. Even if you have money, good looks, fun personality but you lack the aggressive, controlling, domineering attitude she'll start to question your manliness. She might stay especially if the money is flowing but her heart is most likely not there because you're not giving her the challenge she's craving for.

dasparrow:


You know, it is chauvinist men like you that I wish will mistakenly date any of my single female family members so that I will have an excuse to leave you permanently disabled. You will never be able to use your legs or arms again after one encounter with people like me who protect their sisters and female cousins like an aggressive lion. Just because your father treated your mother like trash and got away with it does not mean you can try the same shyte with some other people's daughters/sisters/cousins and get away with it too. In fact, my brothers and I will make a scapegoat out of you to teach you and other hopeless chauvinist Nigerian pricks out there a big lesson you all won't be so quick to forget. Next time when you come across a lady, you will inquire about what family she comes from first before commencing with your chauvinist bull shyte.

sarahade:
Any man that feels he needs to control a woman to b man needs electric shock therapy. Weaklings we call men nowadays. SMH

dasparrow:


You know, it is chauvinist men like you that I wish will mistakenly date any of my single female family members so that I will have an excuse to leave you permanently disabled. You will never be able to use your legs or arms again after one encounter with people like me who protect their sisters and female cousins like an aggressive lion. Just because your father treated your mother like trash and got away with it does not mean you can try the same shyte with some other people's daughters/sisters/cousins and get away with it too. In fact, my brothers and I will make a scapegoat out of you to teach you and other hopeless chauvinist Nigerian pricks out there a big lesson you all won't be so quick to forget. Next time when you come across a lady, you will inquire about what family she comes from first before commencing with your chauvinist bull shyte.

sarahade:
Any man that feels he needs to control a woman to b man needs electric shock therapy. Weaklings we call men nowadays. SMH

tommychow:


Keep lying to yourself. You might as well marry a doormat that you can control. Listen naive little child, there can't be two captains on a ship. If a man can't control his woman, she'll gradually lose respect for him.

I pity the guys that are chopping your yanz. For you to keep babes, you have to do what works not what makes sense to you. WOMEN DON'T WANT AN EQUAL; they taller, stronger, richer and more aggressive not softer and more submissive. It's in their genes.

Bluehawk:

but the op is telling the truth..the matured ladies hardly show this trait tho..its the childish ones that crave a daddy figure in their man..its a consistent occurrence

sarahade:
Any man that feels he needs to control a woman to b man needs electric shock therapy. Weaklings we call men nowadays. SMH

bitchcrafts:
Lol. Which one b electric shock therapy again oh. Chai! I smell murderous intentions lingering!!

sarahade:


It's used to reset the brain of sick people.

dasparrow:


You know, it is chauvinist men like you that I wish will mistakenly date any of my single female family members so that I will have an excuse to leave you permanently disabled. You will never be able to use your legs or arms again after one encounter with people like me who protect their sisters and female cousins like an aggressive lion. Just because your father treated your mother like trash and got away with it does not mean you can try the same shyte with some other people's daughters/sisters/cousins and get away with it too. In fact, my brothers and I will make a scapegoat out of you to teach you and other hopeless chauvinist Nigerian pricks out there a big lesson you all won't be so quick to forget. Next time when you come across a lady, you will inquire about what family she comes from first before commencing with your chauvinist bull shyte.

Bros, abeg Goan siddown, u can't do nofin other than this ur chest beating and mouth making like one tribe wey I no go mention...
So, u and dose brothers of urs no get beta tin to do Dan to dey beat person wey harass ur female relatives...

Biko, u go skool at all can't you just communicate ur own opinion without hurling insult in the process. E be like say na from one amadioha village u come from

BTW, do u even read the post at all,
cos if u do, u knw the o.p only wrote and essay not a condemning write up

tommychow:
You even often hear it from females themselves saying "we want a man who can be tough, controlling and put us in our place. We don't like guys that can't be aggressive". For y'all to ask for these kinda men to keep you in check, you're indirectly admitting you have issues, that you lack self-discipline, that you need a daddy figure to boss you like you're still a 12 year old.

I have seen this time and time again and it

pisses me off. You'd is a woman gentle and submissive as hell when she's with the domineering, proud guy but when she's with the gentle, chivalrous guy watch her instantly or sloooowly transform to being obnoxious. I said "slowly" because some females gradually develop into unnecessarily rude; you'll just notice one day "ah ahn, when did you start talking to me like this?" "What's with the bad attitude towards me?" "But I'm good to you". Even if she doesn't show rudeness, she'll show disappointment and subtle lack of interest because you lack the balls to 'daddy' her.

I know being aggressive with females works like a charm, in fact I'll be wondering why?
GUYS, always form "i don't take rubbish" every time she disrespects you in the slightest way even if its unintentional and watch her melt and fall deeper in love. Even if you have money, good looks, fun personality but you lack the aggressive, controlling, domineering attitude she'll start to question your manliness. She might stay especially if the money is flowing but her heart is most likely not there because you're not giving her the challenge she's craving for.



This kind of discussions are ones fitted for a front page but na irrelevance the mode go dey push out!! Op you are very on point !!!! This is our present world reality

sarahade:


You just proved you are a weakling. Don't be scared women will do better ruling this world. And to any woman that has ears, a man is not better than you or stronger than you.

Your duty is to guide him nothing more. God created every thing a man has to rule over and he failed that's why God created women to crown it all. The first shall be the last and the last the first.

And tommychow the likes of you can't even gaze at me. I match with Men not c*ck inhabitants like you. Thanks

AnusOdourInhaler:

Oboy, see self deception... Weak being, the freedom you enjoy today is as a result of sympathetic men

sarahade:


Delusional being. freedom I enjoy is because of strong fathers and mothers not weak breeds like you. *spits*

Law of natural selection is taking over and the strong will displace the weak. the era of the strong allowing the weak prey them out of pity is over.

AnusOdourInhaler:

Eyyah! I understand your condition, when a low life that ain't worth a spit in real life finally got access to the Internet, this is what happens..
A weak accidental being like you are naturally eliminated, sooner or later, Darwin awards awaits you Veryy soon..
A strong being don't go around and be screaming "I'm strong, independent and tell all men that I'm better than them, yadda yadda yadda", only weak being does so.
I'm surrounded by independent women that kick ass, money, power, influence, you name it, but they don't go around screaming like wolf, because, they are heard, respected and their reputation precceds them..