Many of us dream of great relationship, yet, we allow hasty decisions to ruin it even before it starts.

At times, we allow our heart to make the decisions for us instead of using our head.

Many youth on their first date have se-x after all the dreams of having the greatest relationship ever.

Well, you have set the pace for the relationship already.

I am not saying you are too young or not, that is not the point here.

As an adult, you shouldn't think because you can make decisions yourself then, you should just loosen up so fast.

The most painful part of this is that the lady bears the brunt. Men are free donor by nature.

True, it happened to some couples and they are fine together even till death do them apart.

It might not be easy to control, but that single action send wrong signal to the man who most of the time receives it really wrongly and then he takes advantage of it.

But should we blame him? Yes and No.

Yes in the sense that he is yet to know you and he has gone so far with you.
No, because it shows practically that you as the woman did not respect yourself, so, it is not expected that anyone should respect you back.

We should try to do things step by step. At least, even if it goes wrong, you will not blame yourself or regret to have made wrong decision.

You still need to prove you are hard to get to him even after you have accepted to love him back.

Him having access to the key to open that golden gate should be another journey he must labour to reach the destination.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/09/your-can-ruin-your-dream-relationship.html

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