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Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 12:14pm On Dec 02, 2016
Many that are into relationship or in married keep making some mistakes that makes their spouse start suspecting them, not because they have forgotten that trust is attached to many things in the relationship.

This topic is centered around the mobile device. This device, as small as it is, it can destroy a trust no matter how gigantic you have built it. This is why we must be careful with it.

When you are dealing with your calls, chats and what have you on this device you need to thread with utmost caution.

If you don't want your spouse to start doubting your trust don't do any of these:

1. Don't ignore call

Yes, it might be that the caller is one pain in your neck that you are trying to ignore. It might also be that the caller's issue cannot be resolved at that point in time, possibly because you are with your spouse or something else.

Whatever the case may be, you must try all your best to give explanation, it might even be brief but you need to let your spouse know why you refused to answer the call even if he/she did not ask.

2. Don't go private to answer your calls

Because you don't want your spouse to hear your conversation you go private with all excuses such as; there is noise here, the network is not so good here etc. meanwhile you just picked another call before that came in and it was perfect.

The truth is that it might be ladies talk or men's talk you wish to discuss, but going private will make your spouse curious with other thoughts in mind which might even be different from the aim of that call especially when he/she is not familiar with the caller.

3. Don't set security codes on device

What i mean here is that even if you set security codes on your device your spouse must be able to open them. You shouldn't set restrictions to what your spouse can do on your device, you are meant to know everything about each other.

The moment your spouse is unable to access something on your device, some other thoughts starts ringing.

If you do any of the above, don't blame your spouse for doubting your trust because you have set boundaries.

Human beings are not spirit to know what you are doing behind them, neither are we woods that curiosity isn't part of our attributes.

Those three things might look small but very powerful and the moment you give a space for your spouse to start doubting your trust, that same moment you start seeing things you have not been seeing in him/her.


Source: http://bamisepeters.blogspot.com.ng/2016/12/your-spouse-will-not-doubt-your-trust-if.html

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Tafari1(m): 12:17pm On Dec 02, 2016
Don't keep many friends of opposite sex

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by jagugu88li(f): 12:24pm On Dec 02, 2016
Honestly, I've never understood the need to tread carefully when it comes to married couples and phones. What could be more personal than you and your spouse?

People get up to no good, knowing for a fact that when no good backfires they'll have to act sorry. There's suppose to be nothing more personal than you and your spouse....unfortunately..

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 12:24pm On Dec 02, 2016
angry angry angry angry
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 1:18pm On Dec 02, 2016
jagugu88li:
Honestly, I've never understood the need to thread carefully when it comes to married couples and phones. What could be more personal than you and your spouse?

People get up to no good, knowing for a fact that when no good backfires they'll have to act sorry. There's suppose to be nothing more personal than you and your spouse....unfortunately..


you are right though, but that is what life has turned into, the more we advance the more the trouble we attract.

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by steppin: 10:06pm On Dec 02, 2016
Na to kukuma give her the phone na and have her answer my calls.

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by passyhansome(m): 10:06pm On Dec 02, 2016
[size=15pt]Relationship has become very complicating this days[/size]

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Draei: 10:07pm On Dec 02, 2016
...0p, add this to it.

(4) Don't stop providing her money whenever she asks for it.

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by GAZZUZZ(m): 10:07pm On Dec 02, 2016
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by AmuEwu: 10:07pm On Dec 02, 2016
I wan do soapie
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by kingabiolasoft(m): 10:08pm On Dec 02, 2016
first timer here

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by iamswizz(m): 10:08pm On Dec 02, 2016
No entiendo
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by evergreen27583: 10:08pm On Dec 02, 2016
Don't lie to your spouse and do not hide anything from your spouse.

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by dingbang(m): 10:09pm On Dec 02, 2016
Mchew

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by holuwole12(m): 10:09pm On Dec 02, 2016
shocked
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by JVgal(f): 10:09pm On Dec 02, 2016
Ok. We haff heard you
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:09pm On Dec 02, 2016
Let him doubt....mstcheeewww....

It's not my fault he has a very low esteem undecided

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by cokiek: 10:10pm On Dec 02, 2016
rship experts everywhere you go
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Laveda(f): 10:12pm On Dec 02, 2016
undecided I don tire to read relationship matters.

sad Can we talk about money?

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by FreeSpirited(m): 10:13pm On Dec 02, 2016
And dnt deny him sex......cos he might think you are getting it somewhere else

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by SafeDavid(m): 10:13pm On Dec 02, 2016
Chai, this one will be hard o! undecided
But its doable so far she does the same.
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by mikkypel(m): 10:16pm On Dec 02, 2016
Laveda:
undecided I don tire to read relationship matters.

sad Can we talk about money?


Will u do ritual? I have one hot babalawo.. Sango always pick his call

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Lokoyen(m): 10:17pm On Dec 02, 2016
Even if you do all these things, stay under their watch for 24 hours, trust me women will still doubt you.

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Laveda(f): 10:20pm On Dec 02, 2016
mikkypel:



Will u do ritual? I have one hot babalawo.. Sango always pick his call

sad Apart from babalawo, no other legit means?

Then again, money is money. sad

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by HARDDON: 10:20pm On Dec 02, 2016
that list is totally parochial , Text msges,
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by timoteus(m): 10:22pm On Dec 02, 2016
How true ?

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Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by udemzy101(m): 10:24pm On Dec 02, 2016
Nice one op but i disagree with point 3.

you can always open ur device for her if she really want to make use of it, but saying one shouldn't set security code is a no no...


what if the owner misplace his phone? that's they essence of setting security code.
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by professore(m): 10:25pm On Dec 02, 2016
The points seem to me valid
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by PUSSYHOE: 10:25pm On Dec 02, 2016
jagugu88li:
Honestly, I've never understood the need to thread carefully when it comes to married couples and phones. What could be more personal than you and your spouse?

People get up to no good, knowing for a fact that when no good backfires they'll have to act sorry. There's suppose to be nothing more personal than you and your spouse....unfortunately..



pussy it is tread carefully.
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by mikkypel(m): 10:26pm On Dec 02, 2016
Laveda:


sad Apart from babalawo, no other legit means?

Then again, money is money. sad


Since u know money is money.. Are u in?
Re: Your Spouse Will Not Doubt Your Trust If ... - Bamisepeters' Blog by Wishaky(f): 10:38pm On Dec 02, 2016
steppin:
Na to kukuma give her the phone na and have her answer my calls.




Before nko?

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