My fiancee sister living abroad want my fiancee to come abroad since both of us can not get a stable since 3 years of graduation,we finish from the same school and we been dating for 5 years now.Am in love with her but i want better things for her too but should i allow her to go because am afraid of circumstance over there,try and understand what i mean.Hope she is not going to live me after she might have miss everyting about me.You should no we do things in common,romance everyday,sex every week.I will also miss her.

depends on so many things bro. like how strong the relationship is and stuff like that. but the problem is that most people easily forget the relationship they started at home before going abroad.

lmao @ allow.

and I never knew having sex was considered as "having things in common"

Rofl. best thread in a while. I'm dying of laugher here.

If you actually give a damn about her and not just your selfish needs, you wouldnt stand in her way. It's that simple

let her go, both of u have no job and who knows, when she gets there she might be able to help u or maybe send for u.

if both of u are meant to be, it will be. don't force it!

I'm so sure u r not a self-centred person. U should rily let her go since tings are not working out for u guys over here. At the same time, u should also kiss her Good-bye

better allow her go,and if she leaves you then fine she wasn't meant for you,shikena

you don't "own" her.so "allowing" should not even arise.if she wants to leave fine,just go on bein the guy (nice) that she has always known.you just might win in the long run.On the contrary if you lose her,you console yourself that you did your best. best of luck.

When her visa is ready she would leave, she didnt go to university just to sit around you know and getting handouts from parents when you are in your 20s becomes boring,

The best thing right now is to look for a stable and decent job or start processing your visa too

I think you should be happy, that such an opportunity comes your way. The question is that" is the girl truely attached to you as you do?" because if she do, even over there she will sill try to pave way for you as your her dream man. Besides, mind you that everyday romance and sex can never be attached to true love. So it's in issues like this that you'll know if what both of you have been practicing is love or lust.

Pray God help u

It is rare 2 hear a woman going abroad and comes back to marry her fiancee. If u think cos u have sex wit her means u both have things in common u are wrong. This present world sex is not a bond is just fun. But guy dont rely on her u dont know when she will be back.

My advise for you is to get a good job,becos out of sight is out of mind to some girls.Life abroad is a diff world entirely,forget about your good sex,enough fine sexy guys abroad

u cant n shouldnt stop her, what ever will be will be

Aprilmay:

My advise for you is to get a good job,becos out of sight is out of mind to some girls.Life abroad is a diff world entirely,forget about your good sex,enough fine sexy guys abroad

Why does my mind go to one Mr. Papa

@Poster, free the girl, look for a job, and face another chic

Don't stop her, but keep an open mind about the whole thing. One of my female friends here is going home next month to marry her bf of 7yrs. She has being here for more than 6yrs now but still love this guy, sends money to him,

, tried to bring him out here last yr but he was refused entry at the heathrow airport, though they are both Malawians.

justwise:

Don't stop her, but keep an open mind about the whole thing. One of my female friends here is going home next month to marry her bf of 7yrs. She has being here for more than 6yrs now but still love this guy, sends money to him,

, tried to bring him out here last yr but he was refused entry at the heathrow airport, though they are both Malawians.

good you mentioned that

JJYOU:

good you mentioned that

I know where u are coming from

justwise:

I know where u are coming from

bros, cant u keep a secret?

JJYOU:

bros, cant u keep a secret?

hahaha, trust me ur secret is safe with me.

justwise:

hahaha, trust me ur secret is safe with me.

some will miss the malawian angle to the story.

JJYOU:

some will miss the malawian angle to the story.

Like u were quick to notice it, i mentioned it 4 a reason, they got a way of doing things, which our 9ja bro/sis 'may' not do

Boy,
what should bother you is the work you don't have and not babe, cos you truly need money to oil the relationship. Get a job and God will take the next step for you. BYE.

justwise:

Like u were quick to notice it, i mentioned it 4 a reason, they got a way of doing things, which our 9ja bro/sis 'may' not do

u definately wear your name wisely. i will say dont have. sadly not even the religious ones.

JJYOU:

u definately wear your name wisely. i will say dont have. sadly not even the religious ones.

hmmm, enough said, b4 they start calling for my blood

@ poster,u no want make she go?well na u be dat sha.if na me ,i go push her go and if she like make she forget me na she knw.Ofcourse it will hurt but with time that wound will heal and if on the other hand,if she makes it  ,whose pride will dat be?ur word is final my guy but think THRICE ooo.

justwise:

Don't stop her, but keep an open mind about the whole thing. One of my female friends here is going home next month to marry her bf of 7yrs. She has being here for more than 6yrs now but still love this guy, sends money to him,

, tried to bring him out here last yr but he was refused entry at the heathrow airport, though they are both Malawians.

u didnot tell us d other side of d story
within those 6yrs,she go don nack enough.
body nor be firewood,i hope d poster understand.

boy1:

u didnot tell us d other side of d story
within those 6yrs,she go don nack enough.
body nor be firewood,i hope d poster understand.

U self na wao!! yes now she is getting some congo, no doubt about that, got nothing to do with me.

justwise:

U self na wao!!which other side?, ahaha, yes now she is getting some congo, no doubt about that, got nothing to do with me.

can u povide for her?
her sister wants to make her future better,
y'all should have a long talk n decide what u want to do
since u cant, provide for her, best u let her go
y'all can keep ur relationship. . . . i think

Who digs up this ole threads anyways
just to contribute my two cents anyway to stay on topic, u are fine as long as its not Italy

ti e ba e, olufunmi o ma pamilekun o, ma se fimi sile lai lai duro timi o olufunmi o O boy keep trying visa lottery, maybe