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Re: The Desperation To Get Married by mysticgal(f): 3:06pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey:Have you tried... Shey one just asked you now. Biko try before you conclude. Good luck |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by jashar(f): 4:03pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Op, where can applicants forward prospective applications? All the best bro. 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Dyt(f): 4:11pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Proddey Ezzz it not people like you that tag ladies runs babes Your standards are like building a mountain You don't want this You don't want that Just pick a paper and draw your specs Lobatan 3 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by kaboninc(m): 4:25pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey: This is just the honest truth. Live your life, aim for your goals and strive to achieve it. Life must go on. If me as a guy could be feeling like this, I can only imagine what the ladies are passing through emotionally and psychologically. I know that ladies feel the pressure much more. At least we guys don’t have our biological clocks to think about. It gets to a stage that your parents will stop disturbing you to get married, they’ll now start praying for you. I am not as old as you are (younger by the way) but I do share in this. For those of you reading my post, it is my prayer that you all get married at the right time and age and particularly to the right person so that you don't have to pass through the emotions of desperation to get married. That is the most important thing. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by moski5(m): 7:13pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
This kind of a Post n thread is rare on Nairaland and I guess few have gotten the hint. I'll even the playing ground: Ladies this guy ain't a player or the type that sleeps around, he's ready for marriage but one or two things. its up to you ladies who are ready to reach n see if he fits your mold... NB this kind of guys ain't good fishers lol Happy hunting<winks> |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by sisisioge: 7:45pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
moski5: Dearest moski, ur head dey there. For a guy to come all out like this one should know that he really means business: to marry or con. Now, it is in the hands of the target audience to further discern which he is. I already gave him a green light, let me be the first to check him out. Unless, someone already beat me to it 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Dyt(f): 7:48pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
sisisioge: Pls tag me when it gets good I am a lover of great news 3 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by sisisioge: 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Dyt: no worry, let me check first. Maybe na me go be bearer of good news to other shy spinsters in the house. Just in case we don't jive... |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Dyt(f): 8:17pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
sisisioge: It feels good to know you are opened Let's just hope for the best Btw Shaybebaby has a thread about trio Italians na White men rocks oo If no be say I don get ade ori I for follow suit oo |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by sisisioge: 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Dyt: I love mulatto babies but not yellow guys. Oyinbos go too yellow. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Dyt(f): 8:24pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
sisisioge: Wetin be mullato? Interracial is actually so beautiful I admire them a whole lot Well they say we are different Good luck and don't forget to invite me 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by omoikea(m): 8:33pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by jmoore(m): 8:34pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
The op still dey dull. See as many spinsters dey declare interest. You better act now, unless when you clock 40 you go see the real desperation. 3 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by richidinho(m): 8:37pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
cindybaby22: That institution no be child's play oo |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by ArabMopol(m): 8:39pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
OP u need deliverance... |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by shaybebaby(f): 8:39pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
sisisioge:Just spread your oyinbo under hot sun, e go brown sharply. Apart from the butt though, that one no dey see sun. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 8:39pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Linda ikeji is single too 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Roland17(m): 8:41pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
@OP Three female handles on this thread have consciously or unconsciously given the green light, they don't necessarily have to spell it out. What are you waiting for? 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by 49cents(m): 8:43pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
southernbelle: I knew I had seen OPs post on NL only it had more likes than his....busted Smartypants |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
I have nothing to say. This is coming from a guy,hmmmm! Wonders shall never end oh!
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Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Taryur3(m): 8:44pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Am like 9yrs younger than the Op but am feeling more concern about marriage than the Op self...I was on phone with my mum Di's morning for like 40mins...and the main topic is my son...what is delaying you.you have not even introduced anyone to me...pls,let me know someone with you this December...we gonna pray about it.its time for you to marry.I took a deep thought about this and really feel sorry for myself.i have like 4 suitors buh non of this wot a wife material...dey are fashion prank...dey are the cars freakers..still hopin to meet the right person...even if its here on nairaland.buh seriously, if I meet that Mrs right today...and God signed it..definitely I will be a married man before December.Financially, God has blessed me beyond measure.I feel for the Op though at 37 single? God forbid o 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by beautiful232(f): 8:45pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
I'm not surprise anymore
Cause a man of 43 years old approach me for marriage And his so danm desperate And I asked...What were you waiting for till now?? he said his been waiting for the right woman No woman or man is perfect...Just pray and let GOD take control... |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by chronique(m): 8:46pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
I can relate very well with your post. The thought of this your comment,scares the living day light out of me. God knows how honest I'd always be with a lady I get involved with. But the question is,will she be straight and honest with me too? This is a question I can't answer and of course,it makes me feel bad. proddey: 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by omosefeeguaibor(f): 8:47pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
And this is one of the few post i'd see and ponder and wonder on and at the end of the day all I can say is Jesus take the wheel, and to make matter worst it is the way the Nigerian society imposes marriage on people not regarding the fact that one has to fall and be in love with his/her other counterpart before thinking of marriage if love does not happen on time they'll say you are proud and choosy. My candid advice to all singles out there pls and pls marriage is not and never will be and achievement ensure that you really love whoever you intend to marry and don't give an ear to what people will say regarding your status. Marriage will happen when it happens, afterall nobody is destined to be single, and to the married ones pls stop lashing out @ singles you don't know why they are in that situation give them that peace they deserve. And to that I will say goodluck to the married ones #justmyhumbleopinion 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey: Same here I leave for work 7 and return home like 9 or worst 10 sat and Sunday I stay indoor doing personal works am just 7 years away from you, and I think am beginning to feel it too, it starts with not meeting new people and being too busy to meet people and also too much work. As we get older we tend to relax and not club around so that kills the chances altogether. I should have dated in university 10 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
surprised that this is coming from a guy,my birthday is next week and I feel like with every birthday my marital clock is ticking, just yesterday I got a message on fbk which I barely check only to see it was from a friend who we last chatted since 2013,apparently she is getting married, I felt that rush of desperation all over again, I guess at a point in one's life there is the sudden urge for companionship 5 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Henricarter(m): 8:49pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
cindybaby22:. Carry yu brova go cele church cleansing |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by brossam2001(m): 8:50pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Op . Gerrahiamen. This post was plagiarised from a post in December 2015. https://www.nairaland.com/2815882/travails-marrying-late. If it is the same person with different name , what about ur age...are u still 37 years now and last year? My Friend get out here. I know u will blame me for wrong full insertion. proddey: 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Tamakay(m): 8:53pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
This can only happen to those boys and girls that are carried away with the enjoyment that is inherent in singlehood. Them yapka for PH, Warri and the depot- Lasgidi. They don't just calculate when to stop |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Majoroperation: 8:55pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey: It all depends on what you Want. Assuming you want a nurse as wife Step to take. 1. Go to general hospital or top 10 hospital in your vicinity with a friend 2. Stay at the gate and choice the one you want 3. Follow the nurse to her ward 4. Book a date with her provided you ask her if she not married yet. If unsuccessful Repeat the cycle. This is just the easy format bro 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 8:55pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
It's not really about getting married but getting married to the right person. The greatest asset of a man is having God and a good wife. |
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